Now I’m really confused.you are not the only one! but the mists are starting to clear.................... although there's still some fog around!
Mists Clearing
Violet von Westenholz is the lady in brown outside the Abbey at the 2019 service, who also had a girl child in 2019. Violet did go to the wedding and is married to a chap called Archie (?) - Violet's sister Victoria was with Harold before Violet set him up with ILBW (or she didn't & that was Markus). But by Nov 2022 Violet hates ILBW for nicking Harold off Victoria. Violet's dad, 'The Baron', is best friends with KC & KC & W & Harold & the von Westenholtzes went skiing a lot together. The 2 families are all chums (or were). Violet's mother Jane is best friends with Camilla & she has been appointed as her Lady in Waiting. and will be with her as an attendant at the Coronation.
Victoria got married (and still is) in 2014 which would be 2 years before the whore came on the scene. So unless she was having an affair with Harold (unlikely unless her husband is a complete sap) I don’t see how the whore nicked Harold from her!
Victoria was linked to Harold (by the press) as a possible match when they were younger. If they ever got it on I’ve not seen evidence of it.