Excuse me as I don't live in the UK so don't know much about these people or what the media is saying. But why do people think Meghan is a narc etc. and hate on Meghan?
Just wondering are your views just sexist or affected by some kind of sexist classist racist or whatever protrayal of her in the media?
Genuine question I'm just confused by all of this.
It's her actions. Not her words or her appearance.
There are provable lies she has told. And is not correcting and I think mostly alot if of people on here are saying these things because they have dealt with people exactly like her and know how they work.
I myself have both my parents and my mother in law and it is very hard to explain.
They are never wrong. It's never their fault this happened to them. (Did you see them admit anything they they have done wrong? Or may have gotten wrong?)
They constantly pointing out how they are victims. How they were just trying to do the right thing and now the whole world is against them. They are honestly good people they promise. (Smear campaigns and friends coming to their defence with evidence of how nice they are and all those people saying they not are wrong)
They will always have a group of people around them who they use to make your life hell when you disagree with them. (Mine was my sibling)
They get into spiteful revenge actions because someone told their secret or made them look bad.
They always over react to things. Like a small cut is my finger almost came off or I almost lost my hand.
They are always the best at what they do but because people are jealous they haven't seen the recognition they deserve. It's all that person's fault it honestly couldnt be cause I'm not good enough or thats not where my skill set lies. (Failed actress so now I'm a humanitarian I'm so nice.... see My chickens)
They will blatantly lie to your face forgetting you were there and you were a witness. My father lied to my face about the string of affairs he had even though I had witnessed him with them. (You can see Meghan did that to Harry in the interview when he tried to interject and correct her and she cut him off and silenced him grabbing his hand.)
My mother and mother in law are constantly causing trouble between my partner and I and our siblings. Always trying to play us off eachother cause this one didn t do that or I want them to dress like this. Or it's not happening to my schedule of how I want the day to progress so now I am going to create a fight.
And if you catch them out or dont buy what they are trying to convince you of then it's tears and storming off and no one loves me. Might as well go die in a corner where no one will notice me or miss me.
They are very good at making friends. They can be complimentary kind thoughtful but this usually only lasts till you have been groomed to believe them and they now they no longer need to convince you of their victimhood or that the world is out to get them. Once you see the truth you are cut off abandoned and stuck realising what the hell just happened. How the hell did I believe that utter nonsense I cant help but say you feel violated and used.
There is always a trail of broken people in their wake. My husband has serious anxiety from his childhood. They cause alot of damage and dont care and when they think enough time has passed they feel like it's been long enough for you to recover they bring the next round. It is exhausting. Cause it usually isnt.
There is gas lighting, which you can Google, and alot of tears cause you actually dont know how to make it stop you have tried every thing to make them happy or stop the bring close to hurt. And the only way that happens is to leave. To offer nothing of your life or the bare minimum of information to maintain a relationship because you know if they Find out one small thing in your life that can be added to their pity party it won't be the end of it.
People like me can just tell cause we have spent our lives watching these people and I am glad to say picked up a few tricks to combat their behaviour. You learn to quickly read people's body language because you learnt to do that as a child to anticipate what to prepare for next.
Thats why to many people like myself it is hard to explain. You just know.