The Royal Reporters used to say they could tell when Harry was back on his 'meds' because he dropped weight. That was explained as meaning something like Adderall for something like ADHD*.He could well be taking antidepressant medication which may 'takes the edge off' folk (depending what he's taking), he may not be on any meds and is just depressed. He is thick skinned but regardless what his new team tell him he must by now realise he's shot himself in the foot and his popularity has taken a massive nose dive here in the UK and other countries such as Australia.
They need to earn a pot of gold big enough to see them through the rest of their days because in a very few years their paid work will dry up as they loose the 'Royal' sparkle and just become plain old middle aged Meghan and Harry Windsor-Markle, ex actress, ex soldier. I can see Meghan on something like Real Housewives of Malibu type of show in three or four years time and Harry maybe starting something like an organic avocados and bean sprout farm.
*other explanations are available.
He's very thin these days, but bloated in the face, and the weight loss has been quite striking since the wedding. No idea and no suggestions but he doesn't look right to me, or anything like the healthy, glowing, shine of a mid-thirties multi-millionaire living in California.
Doubt they are living in that house in Montecito, and I doubt they ever actually lived in Tyler Perry's place, the mansion in Vancouver Island or Frogmore Cottage. All the charity stunt things are in or around LA, so I guess they are around there. They had access to those big houses, and did the odd visit to them for a picture or two, and then carried on free-loading off friends, at a guess. Wherever they are, they must be wallpapering the staff with NDAs to stay this low profile.