Yes, and if that happened - "it's the UK and BRF's fault, they sent her crazy!"You know we’re all wondering where this is going to end up... where they will all be in 5-10 years. I’m actually wondering if Meagain will flip completely and end up being sectioned. It isn’t something I’d wish on her, but as her behaviour becomes more and more desperate she is likely to become more irrational. And if by then she has split from Harry and with another moneybag she may find she gets less attention, not more. Sadly I can only see this going one way for the both of them.
Re: BPD and NPD, it is an interesting topic. Like Blondie says, I try not to randomly diagnose but we can point out traits and patterns. NPD and BPD do both have overlapping symptoms which is why people confuse the two. I personally think, looking closely at MM's behavioural traits, that if she were personality disordered that she has much more in common with NPD. Borderline jealousy and manipulation is based on fear of, and avoiding abandonment because of childhood trauma. Narcissists like to control and humiliate, they have a sense of entitlement or grandiosity being challenged. Borderline "splitting' is where they shift from love to hate because of a perceived wound or slight and it is emotionally charged whereas Narcissists actually feel rewarded from idealizing and devaluing their victims because of their need for power and control. Borderlines have a better range of feelings and empathy whereas Narcissists are emotionally numb and need a constant supply to give them validation, which is why they discard frequently and get bored easily. Diana had a tendency to lash out and manipulate but I really think she did care about helping people, whereas everything M does is for herself. I think Diana's behaviour towards the BRF and Charles was due to feeling wounded and abandoned by them, and him. They rolled out the red carpet for MM and that was never enough for her grand entitlements, she wanted them to kiss her backside and if they did not - well, they were to be discarded and smeared in the press, especially if they dared to challenge her behaviour. As we have seen, the press and the public dared to call her out and now they're smeared as racists. The sugars are her flying monkeys. Borderlines ghost when they are emotioanlly hurt by an action, Narcissists use people when they have value and then discards them when they no longer have any use, there's a huge difference between the two. As for Harry, unhealed people tend to be attracted to other unhealed people, so that would explain her extreme magnetism to Harry. I suspect Harry's issues were covered up very well.
Again, it is just a theory and my humble opinion! I'd love to see a psych get their hands on MM.
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