I've read that KC love's writing and sending letters - i think it was lovely so that H always has the letters as a keepsake whereas you don't remember every word someone says. He is trying to push the narrative of a cold distant family whereas they all seemed to be loving,kind and ridiculously forgiving and patient to himView attachment 1886980
Seriously? I recently found the two letters my father wrote me when I left for the Army - the only two letters I ever got from him. In them he tells me how proud he was of what I was doing. I thought that they were lost. I cherish them (and yes, finding them did make me sit down and cry….does that count as a patented Markle Meltdown or do those only count of fake paparazzi are definitely not paying attention to you?)
Why does he put a negative spin on it instead of realizing that his father may not have wanted to say those things in front of others or maybe wanted to have something to cherish…something he could take out and reread when things got rough.
Maybe this notes don’t count because they weren’t written infauxligraphy“calligraphy” and leaked to the press?
You guys KILL meHad one of those thoughts that ambushes, what if we are underestimating their ambition and delusion & they actually want to become gods?
It would explain the tedious wanking on they do about wanting The Commonwealth, and the DofE managed it.
(The Wikipedia link possibly explains the dancing at their wedding nonsense, as when told about the twat’s wedding by a travel agent (notified by The Times - obviously to stir up racism) “they hoisted the Union Jack, danced, and ate pigs.”)
Yep. It’s easily to mythologise someone who is dead, has been dead for years, and who you never really knew. He doesn’t seem to love her as a mother - rather, deifies her as a god. Diana, goddess of the hunt… hunted.Regarding the Diana/Oedipal thing. I think he's turned his mother in to this magical almost mythical creature . The perfect mother, perfect humanitarian, perfect angel despite her absence and often capricious nature. She's the perfect victim because she's perfect. He's had to suspend reality , turning his brother and father and everyone else in to a villain because the actual truth is too horrific to bear, that Diana would rather galivant and flirt than spend time with him, that she'd use blackmail and court the press, that she broke up families and that she could have prevented her death. He's pushing so hard against the truth he's evented a whole new reality. Meghan has encouraged this and turned herself in to his vison of his mother and he's aided that deception.
It's all too weird .
But if KC and POW really wanted peace at all costs, I think they would have made that invitation happen.I think the PR would only be one side of it. Think of all the accommodations, like over the top security, nutty demands like a giant trailer filled with teal bowling balls, Meghan stealing everyone else's gift bags, Harry running up to anyone who will listen begging for jobs for Meghan, BAFTA having to come up with some reason to put those two on stage because they wouldn't come otherwise-- and getting markled afterward just makes it so much less work NOT to invite them.
I think she is under the misapprehension that as the RF had castles, big houses, estates, jewels, lots of money that she she will get a big divorce settlement.Suspending reality for a moment, wouldn’t it be great if it were true, & she turned it down in hopes of a greater payout & at the divorce he was awarded maintenance?
Markle has been Markled.
Yikes - who would get the short straw and have to sit next to them? Not poor Sophie again. Could put Meghan at the end of a table next to the Duke of Kent.But if KC and POW really wanted peace at all costs, I think they would have made that invitation happen.
Question…is there some option where H is excluded totally from participating in the ceremony and he and M have no ‘inside’ seats. (Because they are no longer part of the family business) ….BUT are publicly extended an invitation to join any PRIVATE family function held afterwards?
When I think about it , even the driving through the tunnel and the denial that a drunk driver could crash there plays in to this narrative. He's ignoring common wisdom (It's dangerous to drink and drive, seatbelt wearing) , which shows the height of his delusion.Yep. It’s easily to mythologise someone who is dead, has been dead for years, and who you never really knew. He doesn’t seem to love her as a mother - rather, deifies her as a god. Diana, goddess of the hunt… hunted.
Really weird, as you say.
I think he was messed up before she died (probably from birth).I believe this too. All of this behaviour is clearly about his mother. But also it's not an excuse!! He's nearly 40 years old. There's a time when you have to stop blaming your upbringing and parents. (Sorry, just realised that sounded like I was being all mean to you, wasn't meant like that, frustration at Harry's ability to grow up and take responsibility)
I suppose it depends if the other grandchildren if the queen (the york girls, Zara etc) are there. H&M should really be treated on par with them - members of the family but not working royals.But if KC and POW really wanted peace at all costs, I think they would have made that invitation happen.
Question…is there some option where H is excluded totally from participating in the ceremony and he and M have no ‘inside’ seats. (Because they are no longer part of the family business) ….BUT are publicly extended an invitation to join any PRIVATE family function held afterwards?
It's far more cynical.Regarding the Diana/Oedipal thing. I think he's turned his mother in to this magical almost mythical creature . The perfect mother, perfect humanitarian, perfect angel despite her absence and often capricious nature. She's the perfect victim because she's perfect. He's had to suspend reality , turning his brother and father and everyone else in to a villain because the actual truth is too horrific to bear, that Diana would rather galivant and flirt than spend time with him, that she'd use blackmail and court the press, that she broke up families and that she could have prevented her death. He's pushing so hard against the truth he's evented a whole new reality. Meghan has encouraged this and turned herself in to his vison of his mother and he's aided that deception.
It's all too weird .
William was saved by the Middletons. They showed him what a family could be. I think they've done more for the family than is ever stated.I wonder if this is why William copes differently, because he was old enough and burdened enough to have numerous eyeroll moments with his mother and hasn't had to build this vision of perfection and maintain a delusion.
Do we give the Middletons more credit that we might have done previously for modeling a normal family life for William in his early 20s to keep him grounded. What if he had turned out like Harry?Had to go out, but was thinking about Diana as a mother. Is this what is wrong with Harry, and the reason for him clinging to TW ? Perhaps he never got enough from Diana ? Not enough real mothering ? She obviously talked to William, so did he feel left out? Then when she died, perhaps he felt that what she had given to the public was more than she got from him ? She was dead, so he had no chance of ever getting out of her what he wanted. Thinking of it that way, I can almost understand him. She was an icon, a woman loved the world over (not by everyone ), did he feel that he had been outside of all that ? If so, had he met a loving, truly understanding woman without an agenda, could she have turned his life around ? Instead of blaming the family he has that are alive for everything, should he be laying more blame on the mother he regards as a saint ?
And let's be honest, he probably didn't really know her all that well. She was the woman who gave birth to him.Yep. It’s easily to mythologise someone who is dead, has been dead for years, and who you never really knew. He doesn’t seem to love her as a mother - rather, deifies her as a god. Diana, goddess of the hunt… hunted.
Really weird, as you say.
I’m curious who they think this one’s fault is, surely at some point they have to realise maybe it’s them that’s the problem, and not blame anyone else, Meghan would love to be invited to things like this so I wonder how long it is before they turn on each other!Markle has been Markled.
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