She’s literally 5 mentally.
What a sad little life JaneNot to justify how much she spends on expensive food and drink, but she literally does nothing with her life apart from eat. She doesn't have to travel to and from work, doesn't pay any rent, doesn't have to pay bills, doesn't go out with friends (unless it's for food), doesn't drink alcohol, doesn't have any hobbies that cost money (apart from eating). Do you get my point?![]()
Nahhhh this gave me a major ick she needs to change her life drastically like go on papa booth kick her out and make her pay her own bills or something lets turn the drama upThat Christmas reelffs Grace do SOMETHING anything worthwhile
Congrats on being out of ED since January, that's a huge accomplishment. Don't compare your inside [world] to someone else's outside [world]. You have no idea what she's like and what her state of being is.
I have struggled with AN for many years. I am in a much better place now and have been for quite a while. Some people believe in full recovery, but for me I just know it won't happen. First I was bumped, but now I have accepted it and that is putting my mind at ease. I now know what my triggers are and when I get certain urges. It's been a long learning curve (I have had loads of therapy as well btw). Is there anything you can do to help yourself? It truly doesn't help if you stare your triggers right in the face, not when things are still very fragile. Throughout time and years I have learned and sometimes.. often... I have to be strict with myself in order to help myself.
Is there anything I can do to help you? If you want to have a talk about it, feel free to reply to this comment. Just know you are not alone and just know you are doing incredibly well. You may think she has it all by being skinnier, but you have no idea what it's like inside her head and mind. Comparison really is the thief of joy (or at least a healthier mind). I also think it's a good idea to look into your private life and see what's bothering you, where you want/need control and why certain things trigger you more than others. Let me know if you need help or just a chatTake good care of yourself and remember to kind, gentle and loving. Have some self compassion. Life is difficult enough as it is.
Sorry for replying both of you so late, but thank you for this support. I have been trying to watch Grace once again, but the food part just doesn't sit with me. Honestly, it is not even... triggering, dare I say? It just makes me really frustrated. She eats quite a little amount, even though she manages to make it look like she does a lot etc. And I just feel bad for people who are actually struggling a lot more to who this may be very bad. Because as I was climbing out of this hole, she was the one I inspired to be.I agree with this, maybe unpopular opinion but from my own experience and what I have seen in others I don't really think "full recovery" from an ED is possible, you can manage it and develop other strategies but you always have to be mindful about slipping back.
Huge congrats to everyone who is doing so![]()
Didn’t she move out quite a while ago? If I remember correctly Grace took her room ? I know she moved to a different room then so no clue what happened there but I thought she’d left.I think Chloe and her husband still live in their parents house. She is always around on her vlogs.
i thought her brother had left too. I seem to recall she made a huge thing about how upset she was.. he seems to be back now though/?Didn’t she move out quite a while ago? If I remember correctly Grace took her room ? I know she moved to a different room then so no clue what happened there but I thought she’d left.