Well he seems to be away at least one night a week!One of her replies she says she gets childcare once a week. Cyprus is away more than that surely?
Well he seems to be away at least one night a week!One of her replies she says she gets childcare once a week. Cyprus is away more than that surely?
That looks like a swim nappy so hopefully that’s just full of water.This is what happens when Cyprus actual caregiver, his name, isn’t there to change the nappy
Even once a week is a lot and my family definitely practises the village raising mentality.One of her replies she says she gets childcare once a week. Cyprus is away more than that surely?
because her sense of reality is totally skewed.I’ve been following Grace for as long as I can remember, I remember watching her vlogs when she would go on diets. When I saw she was pregnant again I just thought ‘why?’ I truly don’t understand it. Me and my partner have an almost three yr old and my mum and him have a close bond as we all lived together up until recently. Me and my partner have both admitted we love having free time and love when my mum minds him… so we decided not to have another because that’s the sensible thing to do in order to concentrate on the one we already have. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with admitting it takes a village and Grace’s mum minding Cyrprus BUT actively choosing to have another all while knowing you don’t like the 24/7 of being a parent is baffling and scary. It’s ok to love your child and admit that being a full time parent is super hard, but why go on to act like she’s the most maternal person to ever Grace the earth when she clearly struggles with the day to day? I don’t understand her actions at all
One and done here too. I think she’s trying to have the “perfect” experience, and if anything goes wrong this time, there will be another.I’ve been following Grace for as long as I can remember, I remember watching her vlogs when she would go on diets. When I saw she was pregnant again I just thought ‘why?’ I truly don’t understand it. Me and my partner have an almost three yr old and my mum and him have a close bond as we all lived together up until recently. Me and my partner have both admitted we love having free time and love when my mum minds him… so we decided not to have another because that’s the sensible thing to do in order to concentrate on the one we already have. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with admitting it takes a village and Grace’s mum minding Cyrprus BUT actively choosing to have another all while knowing you don’t like the 24/7 of being a parent is baffling and scary. It’s ok to love your child and admit that being a full time parent is super hard, but why go on to act like she’s the most maternal person to ever Grace the earth when she clearly struggles with the day to day? I don’t understand her actions at all
Also OAD! I can sort of understand Grace chasing something better as she had one of the worst experiences imaginable and is lucky to be alive, but can’t help but wonder - is it possible for any birth experience to be perfect? Is it poss for any of those early days/weeks/months to be the idyllic earth mother in a beige kaftan just breast feeding with absolute ease? Like the whole experience is so incredibly challenging if she’s expecting joyous perfection out of it she’ll be having a kid every 9 months!One and done here too. I think she’s trying to have the “perfect” experience, and if anything goes wrong this time, there will be another.
Personally I think not but who knows what other mums think some seem to think the birth is about them and their story, not the safe delivery of their child . Look at the crazy free birthing movement! It’s very challenging and something I never personally want to do again.Also OAD! I can sort of understand Grace chasing something better as she had one of the worst experiences imaginable and is lucky to be alive, but can’t help but wonder - is it possible for any birth experience to be perfect? Is it poss for any of those early days/weeks/months to be the idyllic earth mother in a beige kaftan just breast feeding with absolute ease? Like the whole experience is so incredibly challenging if she’s expecting joyous perfection out of it she’ll be having a kid every 9 months!
THIS!!Personally I think not but who knows what other mums think some seem to think the birth is about them and their story, not the safe delivery of their child . Look at the crazy free birthing movement! It’s very challenging and something I never personally want to do again.
I‘m afraid, a good part contributing to that decision is social media content.I’ve been following Grace for as long as I can remember, I remember watching her vlogs when she would go on diets. When I saw she was pregnant again I just thought ‘why?’ I truly don’t understand it. Me and my partner have an almost three yr old and my mum and him have a close bond as we all lived together up until recently. Me and my partner have both admitted we love having free time and love when my mum minds him… so we decided not to have another because that’s the sensible thing to do in order to concentrate on the one we already have. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with admitting it takes a village and Grace’s mum minding Cyrprus BUT actively choosing to have another all while knowing you don’t like the 24/7 of being a parent is baffling and scary. It’s ok to love your child and admit that being a full time parent is super hard, but why go on to act like she’s the most maternal person to ever Grace the earth when she clearly struggles with the day to day? I don’t understand her actions at all
Also OAD! I can sort of understand Grace chasing something better as she had one of the worst experiences imaginable and is lucky to be alive, but can’t help but wonder - is it possible for any birth experience to be perfect? Is it poss for any of those early days/weeks/months to be the idyllic earth mother in a beige kaftan just breast feeding with absolute ease? Like the whole experience is so incredibly challenging if she’s expecting joyous perfection out of it she’ll be having a kid every 9 months!
She is going to get quite the surprise if this is not the case…She sees C's eating habits as intuitive and before he was born, believed he'd eventually fall into step with her sleeping pattern and not need tending to through the night.
I get the impression she believes parenting just takes care of itself as long as everyone involved is in touch with their inner selves. so she probably thinks that was all distrupted the first time around and wants another try at it.