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So much BS in one story.

- I don't get why him being rehomed as a puppy (3-4 months if I remember rightly) explains why he has a suite of psychological problems? Especially as he was never in a shelter. She's acting like he was abused or something. Not denying that a puppy switching families could result in some anxiety problems, but I don't think that can fully account for the severity of his separation anxiety. Ultimately he was rehomed, which yes is a stressful event, but the kicker is that his new owner was constantly coming and going and leaving him with different friends and family in the first year of his life.
- The classic “I HAD to buy a maltipoo because they’re hypoallergenic” - she always needs to have a justification for why she is the exception, and can’t just admit she wanted a cute designer breed. She’s lived with a dachshund and her family dog wasn’t hypoallergenic either.

I think this story is her preempting criticism for getting a designer puppy from a breeder, so that she can say it was the best option for Ziggy’s trauma/he’s scared of dogs that cost less than £2000/some other BS.
To be fair, if you do buy a dog from a decent breeder, they will advise on how best to introduce a new pup to the resident dog, support you through the process, and most importantly, take the dog back if there are any issues.

However, the success of introducing a new pup is contingent on the owner actually following instructions, being there to supervise interactions and generally being remotely dog-savvy. Which, based on the evidence thus far, greg is not.

Also a decent breeder will thoroughly vet any potential owners and reject any who won’t be able to provide the right home for their puppies. There are too many unscrupulous breeders out there though, and I don’t suppose greg will be prioritising healthy breeding and rearing guidelines over cuteness somehow, considering how little care she takes of Ziggy.
 
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So much BS in one story.

- I don't get why him being rehomed as a puppy (3-4 months if I remember rightly) explains why he has a suite of psychological problems? Especially as he was never in a shelter. She's acting like he was abused or something. Not denying that a puppy switching families could result in some anxiety problems, but I don't think that can fully account for the severity of his separation anxiety. Ultimately he was rehomed, which yes is a stressful event, but the kicker is that his new owner was constantly coming and going and leaving him with different friends and family in the first year of his life.
- The classic “I HAD to buy a maltipoo because they’re hypoallergenic” - she always needs to have a justification for why she is the exception, and can’t just admit she wanted a cute designer breed. She’s lived with a dachshund and her family dog wasn’t hypoallergenic either.

I think this story is her preempting criticism for getting a designer puppy from a breeder, so that she can say it was the best option for Ziggy’s trauma/he’s scared of dogs that cost less than £2000/some other BS.
And if you really had a dog with serious psychological issues you wouldn't leave them alone so often/wouldn't adopt them in the first place when you are away so much. My parents have a similar dog and when he was a puppy they basically never left him at home alone, at the most for an hour, which is really what you need to.do
 
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As a doodle owner I would like to add that hypoallergenic dogs are essentially a myth as I understand it, there are some hypoallergenic dogs but there are no guarantees about specific dogs and breeds actually being hypoallergenic.
I think the poodle-y part just makes doodles a bit more neurotic personally, Greg says 'therapy' but what work has she done with a really good dog trainer to work on some strategies for Ziggy's separation anxiety and who is also going to tell her what she's doing wrong... ?
 
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As a doodle owner I would like to add that hypoallergenic dogs are essentially a myth as I understand it, there are some hypoallergenic dogs but there are no guarantees about specific dogs and breeds actually being hypoallergenic.
I think the poodle-y part just makes doodles a bit more neurotic personally, Greg says 'therapy' but what work has she done with a really good dog trainer to work on some strategies for Ziggy's separation anxiety and who is also going to tell her what she's doing wrong... ?
As someone with severe animal allergies, my allergist confirmed this when I was being tested. He said there's no such thing as hypoallergenic and that really it's "branding" for people with less severe allergies who likely won't react to some fur/skin types.

Those of us actually allergic have to choose our health or our want for an animal companion (I chose pets lol).
 
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Her story is genuinely to get ahead of them getting another designer dog. Only someone with something to hide over explains as much as she does.

Also can we talk about “we’ve always wanted two dogs” actually gagging at this sentence, like how long have know this man even
 
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Her story is genuinely to get ahead of them getting another designer dog. Only someone with something to hide over explains as much as she does.

Also can we talk about “we’ve always two dogs” actually gagging at this sentence, like how long have know this man even
Ikr 'we've always wanted two' like they're a couple trying for kids 😅
 
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To be fair, if you do buy a dog from a decent breeder, they will advise on how best to introduce a new pup to the resident dog, support you through the process, and most importantly, take the dog back if there are any issues.

However, the success of introducing a new pup is contingent on the owner actually following instructions, being there to supervise interactions and generally being remotely dog-savvy. Which, based on the evidence thus far, greg is not.

Also a decent breeder will thoroughly vet any potential owners and reject any who won’t be able to provide the right home for their puppies. There are too many unscrupulous breeders out there though, and I don’t suppose greg will be prioritising healthy breeding and rearing guidelines over cuteness somehow, considering how little care she takes of Ziggy.
Yeah to be clear I’m not against someone getting a puppy from a responsible breeder, not at all! I was more pointing out Grace’s weird thing where she feels the need to justify things in a righteous way to make herself feel better than other influencers doing the same basic stuff - e.g. her dog isn’t just a maltipoo, it’s an ADOPTED maltipoo. She bought a pair of Gucci trousers because they’re a sustainable investment piece, not just because they’re trendy and she likes them.

Most people will buy a puppy from a breeder and that’s that, they’ve made that choice internally and they’re comfortable with it. But she’s already insecure about the choice she’s made so she is getting the explanations in already.
 
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Her story is genuinely to get ahead of them getting another designer dog. Only someone with something to hide over explains as much as she does.

Also can we talk about “we’ve always wanted two dogs” actually gagging at this sentence, like how long have know this man even
And his dog recently died...ermmm
 
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But she’s already insecure about the choice she’s made so she is getting the explanations in already.
lol true that is greg to a tee. It must be exhausting to be simultaneously this needy, this self righteous, and this insecure, and yet, she still chooses this life. Wild.
 
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Her story is genuinely to get ahead of them getting another designer dog. Only someone with something to hide over explains as much as she does.

Also can we talk about “we’ve always wanted two dogs” actually gagging at this sentence, like how long have know this man even
Her relationship is moving very fast isn’t it? Swear they’ve only been together a few months and she’s moved him in and now they’re already getting a dog together
 
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Her story is genuinely to get ahead of them getting another designer dog. Only someone with something to hide over explains as much as she does.

Also can we talk about “we’ve always wanted two dogs” actually gagging at this sentence, like how long have know this man even
She’s probably already ordered the puppy. So her asking if other people got a puppy or rehomed an adult dog is purely for optics. “Look everyone, I thought it through thoroughly, explored every angle, and made the most responsible decision I could.” When in reality her bf probably asked for a puppy, she ordered it, and then had to think of a cover up/rationale for social media.

She is foul. She is a liar.
 
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My partner and I STILL joke about her ‘adopting’ a cockapoo puppy. Out of everything (her Boris-level denial of partying in Dubai; greenwashing; red-herring ‘acknowledgement’ of her privilege) it is her one deception that IRKS me. I honestly think it’s the perfect microcosm for her sneaky, narc-y tendencies.

I’m obsessed with Animal Behaviour (it’s my bachelor’s degree) and dog behaviour in particular. And she’s utterly delusional if she believes her dog’s behavioural issues are (predominantly) a result of being rehomed as a VERY young puppy and not her constant, weeks- long trips away, lack of bonding time with her, lack of consistency in ‘dog sitters’ (whatever flatmate/family member/ friend she can pawn him off to), lack of dedicated training schedule when she got him, and just generally a lack of input from his owner.

If she truly believes his rehoming was the catalyst for his anxiety, then she should have put in MORE effort than the average puppy raiser.

I cannot for a second see Grace getting up early to spend time with him; crate training this puppy every day for months, teaching him mentally stimulating games, finding an activity he enjoys (retrieving, obedience, agility,etc) and working together. Even if she took him on long walks in the countryside or the coast on her days off, I could appreciate that. But she likely does nothing FOR him. She probably takes him a short walk to the park when the weather is nice; sits with him on the couch or in a beer garden; and lets him potter about the tiny garden. He’s a young, energetic dog (a spaniel/poodle mix at that!)

She should have ‘adopted’ a cat. And now she wants another puppy. What a joke.
 
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Most reputable shelters will do meet a great and assess suitability of a rescue dog going to a particular home. Grace just already put a deposit on a puppy and wants to pretend that was her only option
 
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Just to add to everyone above, my pup had 3 homes before she came to us at about 3 months old and she was quite anxious and completely untrained when she came to live with us. She had some really random fears that suggested to us that nobody had cared for her in any of these homes and she was clearly completely neglected, untrained and very anxious.

We worked hard for the first few months to make sure she got house trained, to show her love, to get her socialised (she's now one of the most popular dogs in the area because she's so loving and good with everyone else's dogs) and she's now an adult dog with no sign of the anxieties she had at 3 months.

Having said all that, Ziggy seems to have bonded with her partner so maybe he is more caring than she was when she first got him and he'll have time to actually train the new dog that they've definitely already chosen.
 
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Just to add to everyone above, my pup had 3 homes before she came to us at about 3 months old and she was quite anxious and completely untrained when she came to live with us. She had some really random fears that suggested to us that nobody had cared for her in any of these homes and she was clearly completely neglected, untrained and very anxious.

We worked hard for the first few months to make sure she got house trained, to show her love, to get her socialised (she's now one of the most popular dogs in the area because she's so loving and good with everyone else's dogs) and she's now an adult dog with no sign of the anxieties she had at 3 months.

Having said all that, Ziggy seems to have bonded with her partner so maybe he is more caring than she was when she first got him and he'll have time to actually train the new dog that they've definitely already chosen.
I do think he'll be good for Ziggy.
 
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Her story is genuinely to get ahead of them getting another designer dog. Only someone with something to hide over explains as much as she does.

Also can we talk about “we’ve always wanted two dogs” actually gagging at this sentence, like how long have know this man even
Watch her get the Instagram dog French Bulldog.
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My partner and I STILL joke about her ‘adopting’ a cockapoo puppy. Out of everything (her Boris-level denial of partying in Dubai; greenwashing; red-herring ‘acknowledgement’ of her privilege) it is her one deception that IRKS me. I honestly think it’s the perfect microcosm for her sneaky, narc-y tendencies.

I’m obsessed with Animal Behaviour (it’s my bachelor’s degree) and dog behaviour in particular. And she’s utterly delusional if she believes her dog’s behavioural issues are (predominantly) a result of being rehomed as a VERY young puppy and not her constant, weeks- long trips away, lack of bonding time with her, lack of consistency in ‘dog sitters’ (whatever flatmate/family member/ friend she can pawn him off to), lack of dedicated training schedule when she got him, and just generally a lack of input from his owner.

If she truly believes his rehoming was the catalyst for his anxiety, then she should have put in MORE effort than the average puppy raiser.

I cannot for a second see Grace getting up early to spend time with him; crate training this puppy every day for months, teaching him mentally stimulating games, finding an activity he enjoys (retrieving, obedience, agility,etc) and working together. Even if she took him on long walks in the countryside or the coast on her days off, I could appreciate that. But she likely does nothing FOR him. She probably takes him a short walk to the park when the weather is nice; sits with him on the couch or in a beer garden; and lets him potter about the tiny garden. He’s a young, energetic dog (a spaniel/poodle mix at that!)

She should have ‘adopted’ a cat. And now she wants another puppy. What a joke.
I 100% believe you. Grace neglects this dog constantly. He’s shipped off to whoever will have him for a start. I HIGHLY doubt Grace herself trains him, plays with him and cleans up after him. She just wants another instagram prop dog. And what a surprise it’ll be a brand new puppy French Bulldog or something that just so happened to have needed grace to rehome the dog
 
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Watch her get the Instagram dog French Bulldog.
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I 100% believe you. Grace neglects this dog constantly. He’s shipped off to whoever will have him for a start. I HIGHLY doubt Grace herself trains him, plays with him and cleans up after him. She just wants another instagram prop dog. And what a surprise it’ll be a brand new puppy French Bulldog or something that just so happened to have needed grace to rehome the dog
Also having two dogs and finding people to look after them (friends or family) is even more difficult if you go away, I presume she will just end up hiring dog sitters all the time.
 
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Watch her get the Instagram dog French Bulldog.
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I 100% believe you. Grace neglects this dog constantly. He’s shipped off to whoever will have him for a start. I HIGHLY doubt Grace herself trains him, plays with him and cleans up after him. She just wants another instagram prop dog. And what a surprise it’ll be a brand new puppy French Bulldog or something that just so happened to have needed grace to rehome the dog
There’s only one dog on her bf’s instagram feed and it’s… a french bulldog! So you may be right 🙄
 
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Did she ever hire a dogsitter? Just always looked like Ziggy was always with friends etc. A bit mad if she wouldn’t spend the money given how expensive her holidays are
 
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I think it was alwaysbfriends? Unless I missed it but 2 dogs is a lot of work for a friend to take on I would think
 
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