I am on a group for Endometriosis, a while back, there was a post that said "hey ladies" and one of the members commented on it saying we shouldn't use "ladies, girls" etc as it isn't inclusive to "people" who get endometriosis. It took all my strength to not say something. Well, a few days ago the mod on the page posted saying she knows there have been conflicting views and that we want to be inclusive but this page is for "women" with endo. I was like

and said how jarring it was to see that we were told not to say "ladies" or "girls" and that we shouldn't be erasing one minority (woman) to make another (trans) feel welcome. Stop stepping on us. Well, then one member replied to me saying that it isn't just women that get periods and that the reproductive organs are not male/female, and the phrase "terf" was thrown around. Another said we should use the term "endowarriors" instead and I replied saying it is hypocritical to erase women's phrases to make someone else feel more included. That person then replied saying "not to use attacking words like "hypocritical." LOL,
duck off. Stop policing what I say. Thankfully, more people agreed with my comments than not.
I wanted to scream. Well, one of them then went and set up an "inclusive" endo page for trans/gender fluid. Good riddance.