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I had a pleasant surprise this morning completing a survey - initially got a bit grumpy as it asked for gender identity, but the next question was ‘what was your biological sex at birth?’. It’s great to see both questions there (something I always complain about if it’s only the gender question), but the wording of the sex one make me think it’s a fellow terf who wrote it. None of this ‘sex assigned at birth’ rubbish.
 
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My local animal shelter sometimes says a cat can't be rehomed with a man. I assume some of the dogs have the same caveat since they can be even more sensitive. So this means the animals know an adult male from an adult female based on voice and maybe smell. They can't ignore reality when a TIM wants to adopt one of these animals because they'd be in distress. Cats and dogs are terfs. 😉
 
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I've also posted this on the Popsy thread but a TiM in the group there who is championed and celebrated is literally being told by women "that's part of being a woman" and ignoring it 🙈

The whole point of the barbie movie was showing that real women aren't smooth plastic people, we have lumps and bumps and vaginas and hair in weird places, funding laser hair removal for TiMs so they feel like themselves is ridiculous when regular woman struggle to get the right care for their actual female bodies 😠😠😠
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My local animal shelter sometimes says a cat can't be rehomed with a man. I assume some of the dogs have the same caveat since they can be even more sensitive. So this means the animals know an adult male from an adult female based on voice and maybe smell. They can't ignore reality when a TIM wants to adopt one of these animals because they'd be in distress. Cats and dogs are terfs. 😉
They for sure know the difference. My old bulldog was rescued from a horrible situation, he absolutely hated men. He was ok with my husband and our housemate but if a bloke came over they'd have to go out the front to smoke because the dog would just go crazy if he saw a man in 'his' backyard. Women were fine, even if he'd never seen them before he'd let any female tickle his ears and cuddle him.
 
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I've also posted this on the Popsy thread but a TiM in the group there who is championed and celebrated is literally being told by women "that's part of being a woman" and ignoring it 🙈

The whole point of the barbie movie was showing that real women aren't smooth plastic people, we have lumps and bumps and vaginas and hair in weird places, funding laser hair removal for TiMs so they feel like themselves is ridiculous when regular woman struggle to get the right care for their actual female bodies 😠😠😠View attachment 2639328
Absolutely disgusting that he’s getting his fetish pandered to and funded on the NHS
 
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I've also posted this on the Popsy thread but a TiM in the group there who is championed and celebrated is literally being told by women "that's part of being a woman" and ignoring it 🙈

The whole point of the barbie movie was showing that real women aren't smooth plastic people, we have lumps and bumps and vaginas and hair in weird places, funding laser hair removal for TiMs so they feel like themselves is ridiculous when regular woman struggle to get the right care for their actual female bodies 😠😠😠View attachment 2639328
funded by the nhs? Surely not?! This is cosmetic for christs sake!!
 
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They for sure know the difference. My old bulldog was rescued from a horrible situation, he absolutely hated men. He was ok with my husband and our housemate but if a bloke came over they'd have to go out the front to smoke because the dog would just go crazy if he saw a man in 'his' backyard. Women were fine, even if he'd never seen them before he'd let any female tickle his ears and cuddle him.
My cat is a rescue and he’s absolutely terrified of men he isn’t familiar with. If a man comes to our door, he runs up the stairs and hisses and growls. A man must have mistreated him in the past.
I can see why some cats can’t be rehomed with men 😞
 
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I have to disagree with you on this one I’m afraid. When my kids were little, their nursery employed a young guy who was fully trained and vetted. He was fantastic and added a new dynamic to the place. Some of the kids had no male role models in their life so this was very beneficial to them too. And helped brake down gender stereotypes that, yes, a man can be a nursery practitioner just as much as a woman can be a CEO. However the guy moved on after 9 months due to snide, sexist comments from other parents which was such a shame.
I can’t deny that I would question the presence of a man in a nursery setting. Purely because of the age group concerned, having to do intimate care etc. I would not bat an eyelid at a male KS1 teacher on the other hand - different environment, different levels of supervision.

In fact I was nodding along with this tweet just last week.

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I wasn't suggesting you were doing that, more the man on the original tweet/post. Really it's amazing someone like Sharon Davis is being so strident about what she thinks but there don't seem to be many blokes trying to back the women, I guess it doesn't affect them
Yep. The replies to Sharron's tweet are victim blaming.

Female athletes are being let down and are not to blame. It's their category and space to compete and TiMs should not be given access. It is that simple. Women shouldn't be put in this situation to begin with.

Thankfully some sporting bodies are taking this seriously but female athletes cannot be expected to do the heavy lifting here. They're there to compete and not get bogged down by this crap.
 
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For those on the BG thread, how bizarre is it that they’re SO desperate to try paint the murder as a hate crime? What do they not understand about the fact that Brianna was murdered because they just wanted to murder somebody and it could have been any of the children who they had planned to murder. It had nothing to do with the fact Brianna identified as a girl for crying out loud.
 
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Finally, some sense.

"Teaching staff, pupils and parents will also be told they do not have to observe a child's chosen name and pronouns if they "hold protected religious or other beliefs that conflict with the decision".
The guidance also says toilets, changing rooms and some sports should be separated based on a child's birth sex.
As well as single-sex toilets for pupils aged eight and over, schools are advised any gender-neutral facilities they may have should have floor-to-ceiling lockable doors or be fully contained in their own room."
 
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For those on the BG thread, how bizarre is it that they’re SO desperate to try paint the murder as a hate crime? What do they not understand about the fact that Brianna was murdered because they just wanted to murder somebody and it could have been any of the children who they had planned to murder. It had nothing to do with the fact Brianna identified as a girl for crying out loud.
That entire bleepin thread is in contempt of court it needs taken down ffs
 
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For those on the BG thread, how bizarre is it that they’re SO desperate to try paint the murder as a hate crime? What do they not understand about the fact that Brianna was murdered because they just wanted to murder somebody and it could have been any of the children who they had planned to murder. It had nothing to do with the fact Brianna identified as a girl for crying out loud.
It melts my head, it has nothing to do with why Brianna was murdered so why are they so desperate to make out like it was a hate crime.

If it was a hate crime it would have been tried as such. End of.
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That entire bleepin thread is in contempt of court it needs taken down ffs
They seem desperate to publicly identify the boy.
 
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It melts my head, it has nothing to do with why Brianna was murdered so why are they so desperate to make out like it was a hate crime.

If it was a hate crime it would have been tried as such. End of.
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They seem desperate to publicly identify the boy.
A load of ghouls. I understand being interested in a developing story, but to go hunting down Facebook and Instagram profiles… like… get a life.
 
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A load of ghouls. I understand being interested in a developing story, but to go hunting down Facebook and Instagram profiles… like… get a life.
Hard agree, I'm really into true crime and most in the TC community are uncomfortable with people doing this type of thing when it's an active case/trial. Especially with minors involved. I understand being curious but there's a moral line most of us don't cross as we are respectful of victims and the families of those involved.
 
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funded by the nhs? Surely not?! This is cosmetic for christs sake!!
They'll have said it affects their mental health , etc , so that's OK then.......😡😖Any treatments open at any cost on the NHS, for them
 
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They'll have said it affects their mental health , etc , so that's OK then.......😡😖Any treatments open at any cost on the NHS, for them
Boo hoo a man is upset that he has facial hair and it's making his mental health bad.
Meanwhile countless women can't get treatment for hormone disorders, endometriosis, incontinence, injuries from birth etc etc.
 
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