DT was 37, he could have easily had children with a woman over 30 at very least. I just don’t buy any of it.
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Agree to disagree. Over 18 is perfectly legal, but can still be inappropriate, depending.
It’s not always the case, but there is such a massive learning & life adjustment process a person goes through in their 20s, that anytime I see someone who yes, is over 18 but (rough rule of thumb) under 30, but dating someone significantly older than them, I am of the view that often something else is going on than true love with an age gap. It’s where a person wants someone who (speaking broadly) is still likely learning who they are, even if they’re both adults. They’re both adults, no-one can stop them, it’s not illegal, but often when the younger party reaches the age their partner was when they met them they start to wonder what the hell that person was doing.