Someone in another department where I work started emailing me about work stuff this week (I deal with requests, for example). I heard there was a vacancy and so I realised this person must be the new post holder. Their e-signature had an androgynous made up name that I’d never seen before (not putting it here else it might be outing of where I work). Anyway, next to the name in big f*ck-off letters was ‘pronouns, they, them’. Queue me rolling my eyes. Anyway, my place of work often puts pictures of employees on the intranet next to the contact details in the staff directory. I looked them up, and they look to be about 15 (realistically mid 20s but they look so childish) clearly a female with a bowl cut, wearing a sweatshirt (in your work contact photo, really?). Clearly another female who thinks asking people to call her they/them will change anything about their biological reality.
On the contact card it also mentions she is part of the workplace EDI advisory group etc etc, so I realised she is actually someone who worked for another department before moving to the one that is adjacent to mine, from the internal blog posts in which their name crops up in, I can see she is very vocal.
I’ve been ever so polite and helpful in my emails back but I have referred to subjects of the email as he and she (deal with student enquiries etc), and my e-signature remains pronoun free. Hopefully these deluded people will see that it is possible to conduct your job politely and effectively (like I do) without having to signify pronouns or allegiance to the cult.
Recently even more staff keep referring to the subject of enquiries by email as ‘they’ when it is about a singular person. E.g. (fake name for privacy here): ‘Hi emmer-moans, Can you please take a look at Craig Smith’s record, there’s XYZ detail missing and they can’t see the content. They say this problem has been occurring since Monday. Thanks, Fake Name, Pronouns THEY/THEM.’
Me: ‘Hi Fake Name, Regarding Craig, I have looked at his record and it seems that the registration team has not done XYZ, this will require loading and then everything Craig needs will appear overnight upon the system refresh. Kind regards, emmer_moans, Job Title, Department.’
JUST FECK OFF with all the pronouns. It’s not showing signs of slowing down where I work. Almost every week there’s some EDI town hall going on, but do they ever talk about menopause, or period poverty or disadvantaged kids? No. Always bloody gender stuff.