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When I was younger, I did also try to do this, but stopped after my children were born! After the indignity of childbirth, and being stitched up, I couldn't see the point of worrying about it. For my second child, I had a trainee male midwife, who was fine, alongside the female actual midwives! ! This was over 20 years ago, and he was the only consistent person I saw! It is a bit of a complicated issue though!

I think a friend of mine pointed out that female doctors don't always want to spend their career on 'female' issues, but would like the space to deal with other specialisms they are particularly interested in, say cancer care etc. So a female GP might not want to spend all day with female patients dealing with intimate problems! It probably depends on the doctor though! Some can appear unsympathetic whatever sex they are!
But I assume it goes both ways, I imagine lots of male patients would prefer a male doctor for things like prostate exams etc ( obviously for women the reasons are often different)
 
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I agree. Personally I don’t agree with everything KJK says, but I think she’s a loud voice that a lot of women from all different backgrounds for some reason or other strongly relate to and that’s a good thing imo. Brings people together.
I’m glad she has moved away from the conservatism and christian groups she has been affiliated with in the past though, I think if she kept associating with them then it’d be very easy to just dismiss her as an agenda pushing, anti LGB hater.
Was she affiliated with them or was it a case that they attended her speeches similar to Sunday where they where obviously there but in very small numbers. It is an open invitation after all in a public place.
 
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I got my uterus removed and don’t have periods anymore. I still have my female hormones and cycle so I still have PMS because I am a woman who has not reached menopause yet.



Even I, being a woman, don’t pretend having periods because I don’t have a uterus. I know what it is to be a young woman with periods and to be a young woman without periods.







How can they appropriate this very female peculiarity?!!!











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Why is Gary Numan talking about apples and oranges, sitting here in his car?


(grabs coat and leaves the forum🫣)
 
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It doesn’t say those are the gents though. It doesn’t say it’s either. That article says ‘The toilets at Waterloo station are to be revamped and will now include a new gender-neutral facility to improve inclusivity.’ It’s vague in every sense.
The secondary school in my village has this week announced that all the toilets will now be ‘gender neutral’. The comments on the local page were predictably asinine, despite some of the girls at the school saying they weren’t happy about it. Apparently ‘your toilets at home are unisex, so…..’ Yeah, but I don’t have random blokes marching in off the street with their mates for a piss or a vape, do I?
 
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It doesn’t say those are the gents though. It doesn’t say it’s either. That article says ‘The toilets at Waterloo station are to be revamped and will now include a new gender-neutral facility to improve inclusivity.’ It’s vague in every sense.
The secondary school in my village has this week announced that all the toilets will now be ‘gender neutral’. The comments on the local page were predictably asinine, despite some of the girls at the school saying they weren’t happy about it. Apparently ‘your toilets at home are unisex, so…..’ Yeah, but I don’t have random blokes marching in off the street with their mates for a piss or a vape, do I?
These schools are mental, honestly if I was the parent of a girl there, I would be sending a letter to the Head advising that any sniff of inappropriate behaviour and they will be receiving a letter from my Solicitor. If enough parents did this the School would back down.
 
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When my son went there he only went for a wee a handful of times because he hated the fact there were always groups of certain lads hanging about in the toilets acting like twats. They aren’t going to suddenly become civilised and go on good behaviour now there’s girls in there - I imagine it will be worse.
 
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I posted this link some time ago - it's an anonymous site for teachers, etc

One of the posts had this " By this time, my daughter was wearing a binder, demanding puberty blockers and threatening suicide (she had been taught that 48% of trans-identified children attempt suicide, and sent me the Stonewall link). "

This is same figure that Mermaids and many organisations/people have quoted that was shown to be false as it came from 7 children and not the reported 2000 plus child responses. So many people have so much to answer for
 
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Was she affiliated with them or was it a case that they attended her speeches similar to Sunday where they where obviously there but in very small numbers. It is an open invitation after all in a public place.
To be honest they were the only people who entertained her originally. Left wing, only want pro trans and are never willing to report an honest and opposite opinion to the agenda they shove down everyone's throats. Most people are left of centre IMO
 
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No!! This has just come up on my Instagram feed.
I can't fathom a girl or woman walking around with a packer rubbing against the skin every time they move. What's the opposite of autogynaphilia? To me to seems fetishy to walk around all day with a cushion piece stuffed down your pants, the only reason you would wear it is for own gratification , so to me, that strikes me as a self sexual thing, like autogynaphilia is for men.
 
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I’m really sad for Madonna. She would have been a gorgeous kick ass older lady aging like Helen Mirren, Susan Sarandon. sexy AF. Attitude like Vivienne (RIP). Now sadly she is a joke and no one sees the pioneer.
Agreed. I don't understand celebs who ruin their face with plastic surgery. And that applies to men and women.
 
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Susie Green has popped up again - working for GenderGP, the Webberleys' dodgy hormone prescribing service.
 
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My six year old has just told me yesterday he did a PSHE lesson where they had to “guess B’s gender” based on what they played with and choose B three toys 🙃🙃 I’m raging. So do I speak to the school and find out wth it was about or not?!

I’ve found the lesson.
Speak to the school without a doubt. What the duck does a child’s choice of toys have to do with their gender? Have we actually gone back to the 1940’s where only boys play with trucks and cars and construction sets and girls play with dolls and prams and tea sets? 😡
 
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Speak to the school without a doubt. What the duck does a child’s choice of toys have to do with their gender? Have we actually gone back to the 1940’s where only boys play with trucks and cars and construction sets and girls play with dolls and prams and tea sets? 😡
I just don’t get it. The message appears to be it shouldn’t matter what you play with yet it’s all framed under the fact that 6-7yr olds might be questioning their gender?!
I’ve just explained to them both that gender is an idea and you can be a boy or a girl and like anything at all, it doesn’t mean you then have to “find out” what someone’s gender is 😑 fml. I knew I’d face this as they are a rights respecting school and I believe it’s something stonewall are involved in. Raging!!
The trans flag coloured puzzle pieces 😡😡😡😡
 
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My six year old has just told me yesterday he did a PSHE lesson where they had to “guess B’s gender” based on what they played with and choose B three toys 🙃🙃 I’m raging. So do I speak to the school and find out wth it was about or not?!

Edited to add- I’ve found the lesson.
Yes I would. I thought we were trying to get rid of gender stereotypes, not reinforcing them?

Tell them to repeat after you,
There are no such things as boys toys
There are no such things as girls toys
Just toys
The end.
 
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My six year old has just told me yesterday he did a PSHE lesson where they had to “guess B’s gender” based on what they played with and choose B three toys 🙃🙃 I’m raging. So do I speak to the school and find out wth it was about or not?!

Edited to add- I’ve found the lesson.

How to Talk to Schools About Their Resources
Parent guide for discussing PSHE resources and transgender inclusion policies with schools


Do you feel comfortable speaking to other parents? Much more powerful going in as a group. You don't have to be overtly GC with parents, test the waters.
 
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