@KillarneyChick you wondered how we could possibly have these views. No, I did not grow up with trans people. Iâm in my 40s and live in central Scotland. Are you really that surprised there were no trans people in the 80s here??
In all honesty I didnât give trans people a second thought until Caitlin Jenner arrived, someone who lived as a man for 65 years, enjoying all the privilege that being a rich, successful white man brings. Fathering children, had a successful career behind him. Then in retirement he thinks, I think Iâll become a woman now. And is applauded and even given the title woman of the year at an awards show. What a f liberty, is what I and Iâm sure most other women thought. An absolute insult to real women (if you disagree thatâs fine, youâre entitled to disagree).
After that I didnât give it much thought again. Until it got closer to home last year and there were some issues at my work that opened my eyes (I canât go into details obviously). I stumbled upon this thread last year after feeling like I was going mad and it helped me feel less alone in my thoughts. Since then Iâve read books, listened to podcasts etc so know a lot more about trans issues than I did a year ago.
Not that any of us have to justify ourselves but we are mostly leftist in our politics, anti racist, all for gay rights etc. Iâm also for trans rights (would like to know what rights they donât have though, feel free to enlighten me). I just do
not think trans women are women or that trans men are men. Up until fairly recently this wasnât controversial. I have no hate in my heart for trans people nor do I deny their existence. I would just like women to be protected as the sex class that they are.
Youâve been given a lot of answers to your questions, Iâd be interested in your thoughts on whatâs been said.