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maytoseptember

maytoseptember

I really have to question these men who supposedly didn’t know that their partners were trans. Either they have very little experience with natal women, or they secretly knew that their girlfriends were trans and chose not to say anything about it.

We all know that trans women are almost always clockable straight away, and yet so many trans women peddle this myth that they’re unclockable. Height… build… voice… surgically constructed neo tina… all big clues.
 
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Glaschelle

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I just watched one of those tit Facebook videos where they interviewed twin sisters and one of them is a trans man now. Apparently from being kids the girl loved pink and wore dresses but the other one always wanted to wear boys clothes and hated pink. This is what it keeps coming back to and drives me insane. I spend my life telling my son that pink is for anyone, it’s not a girl’s colour. It’s just a colour. Dolls are not a girls toy, it’s a toy that girls AND boys can play with. It’s so regressive all this trans stuff and reduces us all to stereotypes. Looked at the comments and it’s all ‘well done for living your truth!’ 🤮 yeah well done for having a mental illness steeped in misogyny that has made you mutilate your body and everyone is now congratulating you. Bizarre world we’re living in.

I can hardly comment on the uterus transplant crap, it makes me feel physically ill. It will never happen and is totally grotesque to even think about it. TRAs bring it up to wind up women, which to be honest they have been successful in doing with me 😅
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I would totally agree with agree you. Sometimes when you hear parents of trans kids being interviewed, they'll nearly always say I knew he was a girl because he liked to play with dolls and loved pink. I thought that attitude had died out in the 1970s!!!

My pal openly tells you that she never played with dolls - she thought they were creepy. But she loved football. Nowadays, I think somebody would be trying to tell her transman. Instead of just accepting she likes football not dolls!!!

I think we're far less accepting of people as individuals nowadays. Everybody has to fit into a box!!!!

This is a separate issue but kind of the same. When people post school pictures on Facebook of the 1970s - everybody looks different even though we're all wearing school uniform . Nowadays kids all look the same, particularly the girls - straight hair, nails like talons, those stupid caterpillar eyebrows.

In the 1970/80s we strived to be our own people - not these days.

God I'm old 😢😢😢
 
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maytoseptember said:
I really have to question these men who supposedly didn’t know that their partners were trans. Either they have very little experience with natal women, or they secretly knew that their girlfriends were trans and chose not to say anything about it.

We all know that trans women are almost always clockable straight away, and yet so many trans women peddle this myth that they’re unclockable. Height… build… voice… surgically constructed neo tina… all big clues.
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All of that and more but it's the way they carry themselves gets me. As if they are an extra in Pride and Prejudice.
 
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nothanksbabes

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Channel hopping last night and came across "Womanhood" bbc2. Shirley from strictly was chatting to a transwoman. The transwoman had been in a r-ship with her man partner for 4 years and only told him 9 months before the wedding that she was trans because she wanted to be married with him knowing!
Shirley asked didn't he ever know? Or guess during intimacy? The lady shut her down essentially saying it was offensive to ask her that question it's not about the genitals.

Sorry but she got a man to fall in love with her for 3/4 years and didn't tell him until after saying yes to his proposal. Wrong in my eyes
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I haven't watched it but if its the trans woman I think it is, I know her husband and he's a lovely man too. I'll have to watch it and see if it is.
 
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maytoseptember said:
I really have to question these men who supposedly didn’t know that their partners were trans. Either they have very little experience with natal women, or they secretly knew that their girlfriends were trans and chose not to say anything about it.

We all know that trans women are almost always clockable straight away, and yet so many trans women peddle this myth that they’re unclockable. Height… build… voice… surgically constructed neo tina… all big clues.
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So I am at a women’s event in London` today, the trans head of the grape crisis unit in Edinburgh is here. No mention of any of the scandal etc, she kept referring to “men haven’t experienced this” 🙄
 
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weeweegie

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So I am at a women’s event in London` today, the trans head of the grape crisis unit in Edinburgh is here. No mention of any of the scandal etc, she kept referring to “men haven’t experienced this” 🙄
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No mention of grape victims can be bigots too? Or that they should be educated and challenged and reframe their trauma?

What was your impression of him? (Can’t bring myself to say her I have so much disdain for him)
 
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emm

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No mention of grape victims can be bigots too? Or that they should be educated and challenged and reframe their trauma?

What was your impression of him? (Can’t bring myself to say her I have so much disdain for him)
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nothing was mentioned about it, also inexplicably she/he/they wasn;t wearing shoes. I found her/him whatever we are going to say bizarre, I couldn;t work out why they were so soft spoken (with a sort of irish accent), until I realised who they were. It is like an imitation of a very meek female voice. Across the day there was no mention of any of the problematic trans issues (which I had imagined, WOW events have become obsessed with constantly talking about people being "cis women") I would never feel comfortable asking, and I wonder how many people felt the same
 
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Vanelope

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maytoseptember said:
I really have to question these men who supposedly didn’t know that their partners were trans. Either they have very little experience with natal women, or they secretly knew that their girlfriends were trans and chose not to say anything about it.

We all know that trans women are almost always clockable straight away, and yet so many trans women peddle this myth that they’re unclockable. Height… build… voice… surgically constructed neo tina… all big clues.
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I first saw videos of Nikkitutorials and didn’t realise to be honest - but when she was presenting Eurovision, she was two foot taller and a foot wider than the women presenters. Just a different scale. It was so obvious.
 
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Very traditional

Yes i'd only ever seen Nikki sitting down and didn't realise, I didn't pick up on her voice because of her accented English but when she came out and I saw her stood up it was so obvious. I don't believe her fiancé didn't know, how do you get that far in a relationship, meet each other's families, see old photos, hear childhood stories etc without that coming up?

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I first saw videos of Nikkitutorials and didn’t realise to be honest - but when she was presenting Eurovision, she was two foot taller and a foot wider than the women presenters. Just a different scale. It was so obvious.
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SILKWORM

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I first saw videos of Nikkitutorials and didn’t realise to be honest
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Same, but that was a good decade ago now, when she was younger. I know a lot of TRAs think if kids are able to transition, they'll be able to pass better. I still think as trans women age it becomes more obvious they are males, even if they transitioned pretty young. 😬
 
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oh also (because you guys are the only people I can really vent to about this) at the event I was at today, for the first time we were asked to introduce pronouns "if we wanted", I didn;t, was the only one who didn't. I don't know if I am overly sensitive about ti, but I do felt like I was judged for not doing so
 
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Vanelope

Vanelope

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oh also (because you guys are the only people I can really vent to about this) at the event I was at today, for the first time we were asked to introduce pronouns "if we wanted", I didn;t, was the only one who didn't. I don't know if I am overly sensitive about ti, but I do felt like I was judged for not doing so
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Have quiet satisfaction in that you are making a stand for womens rights and will be proved right.
 
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Folkevermore

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Vanelope said:
I first saw videos of Nikkitutorials and didn’t realise to be honest - but when she was presenting Eurovision, she was two foot taller and a foot wider than the women presenters. Just a different scale. It was so obvious.
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I always thought she looked kind of manly, especially without make up. I could never put my finger on why though. But when the news broke out that she was trans I wasn’t shocked
 
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SqualorVictoria

emm said:
oh also (because you guys are the only people I can really vent to about this) at the event I was at today, for the first time we were asked to introduce pronouns "if we wanted", I didn;t, was the only one who didn't. I don't know if I am overly sensitive about ti, but I do felt like I was judged for not doing so
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That's amazing. The other sheep should be embarrassed. You should be proud, takes guts to be the one who isn't going along with the herd
 
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Has anyone else come across this?

Really bleeping disturbing that i'm using someone else quote tweet as not to show the other tweets in the thread, one is a trans woman pushing a rubber baby from the a and there's worst, all p@edo tit - just how deprived some men are!

I would encourage to forward on to TRAs and see if they still side with self ID - letting these sort of men near young girls in confined spaces like toilets. Self-ID supporting MPs should be made to watch as well!

so if you can stomach - NSFW!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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Luisa18

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Stop with the handmaiden, pandering tit!

Unsure how WOMENS running can get this so wrong. One half of the page is an article by F talking about how she set up a women only running group for a) safely primarily abs b) so that it was a safe space for women to discuss female centric matters such as period, pregnancy, menopause and any other matters which we might feel uncomfortable discussing around men.

The next column references “wise women” and of course features a trans women’s book about the reality of being trans in a transphobic society.

STOP FEATURING MEN IN WOMEN’S SPACES.

Absolutely tone deaf
 
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