I cannot say that I would find trans men attractive (I am a straight female) because I see trans men falling under a category of “other”. I don’t see them as men, or transwomen as women. I see them as human beings but not the same as a biological man or woman. They are a category of people who can do their own thing, and leave me to mine. You are attracted to who you are attracted to, you cannot be forced to fancy someone in case you are seen as transphobic. I suspect the majority of people think the same. Be who you want to be, if you are not trampling on other people, but don’t demand that people find you attractive.
Yes, the wide group of people who they thought would readily accept this is astonishing. I think the police have it in their code of conduct to speak out about another officer’s wrong doing. If the 42 did not do this, they need to be investigated too. What else have they shared.