I've just watched this old Stewart Lee doc about evangelicals trying (and ultimately succeeding) in shutting down Jerry Springer the Opera. Lots of good talking heads in there. Lots of parallels with what's happening now.
I blame Charlize and Angelina for that nonsense they pushed down their daughter's/son's throat.Charlize Theron has an adopted trans child too. Charlize knew the child's "true" gender when they were three years old, apparently.
I'm not much of an Angelina Jolie fan in general, but her attitude seems quite admirable. She and Brad let their daughter Shiloh dress in "boy's clothes", have a short haircut, have the nickname John, but have continued to refer to her as a girl. Interestingly, many media outlets don't respect that, and talk about Angelina's trans son - but Angelina herself always speaks about her DAUGHTER.
I found it outraging and sad, and it supported what I knew anyway as a woman with brothers. Everybody hates and devalues women to some extent. It’s relentless.After two daughters, I had my first son. The reaction was different – and revealing | Sophie Brickman
When I asked other parents, each had noticed a very real preference for their sons. ‘My father-in-law only likes photos that feature our boy,’ one saidwww.theguardian.com
This is an interesting article - made me think about how we know that females are more likely to be aborted than males.
This is not my experience of having a younger son at all. The fact this woman's baby was circumsised makes me question her culture, potentially that has impacted the reaction to her son.After two daughters, I had my first son. The reaction was different – and revealing | Sophie Brickman
When I asked other parents, each had noticed a very real preference for their sons. ‘My father-in-law only likes photos that feature our boy,’ one saidwww.theguardian.com
This is an interesting article - made me think about how we know that females are more likely to be aborted than males.
It seems to be an American author? I don’t get the obsession Americans appear to have with circumcising baby boys. Quite often it is non religious.This is not my experience of having a younger son at all. The fact this woman's baby was circumsised makes me question her culture, potentially that has impacted the reaction to her son.
In fact in my circle most women want a girl, the only pro boy comments I got were one or two, is your husband pleased to be getting a boy.
I agree, the body is such a marvel that everything served a function at some point during evolution so why remove healthy tissue and body parts, bizarre.The casual reference to mutilating her newborn baby put me off anything she had to say tbh
Maybe the fact we, as a society still see cutting babies genitals as normal and acceptable, is why so many people are able to accept further mutilation of "trans" children.
Personally I don't think we should ever be removing the healthy normal body parts of children of any age.
People bond with children that share their interests and passions, as those are often aligned with sex, it's no real suprise that a Man woul have a preference for a boy as there is an assumption that said Son would enjoy the same things as his Father, doesn't always follow. I have a Son and quite frankly would have had 20 boys before I'd want a girl and if I did ave girl, she'd be playing cricket. Both my nieces are dancers, bores me silly and on top of that my Sister sends them to cheerleading which seriously grinds my gears based on the history of it. I know it's changed now but I just can't supprt something that was designed as a sop to Girls while the boys got on with the real sport.This is not my experience of having a younger son at all. The fact this woman's baby was circumsised makes me question her culture, potentially that has impacted the reaction to her son.
In fact in my circle most women want a girl, the only pro boy comments I got were one or two, is your husband pleased to be getting a boy.
That is truly awfulTW for this whole post. Under a spoiler, please approach with caution. This has made me feel like I can't properly think for anger for nearly a day now.
The Guilty Feminist had Mridul Wadhwa on their podcast recently. MW is a transwoman, entirely self IDd, no GRC. MW is currently the head of Edinburgh Rape Crisis. MW got their previous job (again at a rape crisis centre) by not declaring their sex, despite it being advertised as a position only available to a woman. Apparently this was fine as 'no one asked'.
MW said that "Sexual violence happens to bigoted people too. But if you bring beliefs that are discriminatory, expect to be challenged on your prejudice. Reframe your trauma". Also does not believe that women accessing this service should have the right to request a female only environment in the aftermath of their trauma.
Link to the Twitter thread for the Guilty Feminist here:
You will have to click more replies to read most of them as they are being hidden and commentators are being blocked because apparently the views of women about rape crisis centres are unwelcome to a 'feminist' podcast.
Deborah Frances-White's response is here. To me, it is such a strawman argument. Equating adoption and adoptive relationships with TWAW is a nonsense. If nothing else, the part 'biology will out' is ummm, what women are telling you.
Rape crisis service users are being told, in their most vulnerable, painful moment, even then that they are not as important as the political ideology of certain groups. And 'feminists' are celebrating this. The world is upside down and I cannot understand any of it.
This thread from Women and Girls in Scotland has a lot more on the background and a response to the recent claim by Rape Crisis Scotland that asking whether provision is single-sex in rape crisis centres is somehow preventing women from accessing the service.
This is a thread by a male worker in a rape crisis that demonstrates everything MW is not.
I thought I had 'peaked' before. But this, this is unconscionable.
I found a lot of this a bit traumatising because of personal history. I really, really apologise if it has the same effect on anyone else.
I’m annoyed to be pleased a man is saying what needs to be said as well as all of the women who do so and take abuse. But he appears to be in a position of knowledge on this subject as well.TW for this whole post. Under a spoiler, please approach with caution. This has made me feel like I can't properly think for anger for nearly a day now.
The Guilty Feminist had Mridul Wadhwa on their podcast recently. MW is a transwoman, entirely self IDd, no GRC. MW is currently the head of Edinburgh Rape Crisis. MW got their previous job (again at a rape crisis centre) by not declaring their sex, despite it being advertised as a position only available to a woman. Apparently this was fine as 'no one asked'.
MW said that "Sexual violence happens to bigoted people too. But if you bring beliefs that are discriminatory, expect to be challenged on your prejudice. Reframe your trauma". Also does not believe that women accessing this service should have the right to request a female only environment in the aftermath of their trauma.
Link to the Twitter thread for the Guilty Feminist here:
You will have to click more replies to read most of them as they are being hidden and commentators are being blocked because apparently the views of women about rape crisis centres are unwelcome to a 'feminist' podcast.
Deborah Frances-White's response is here. To me, it is such a strawman argument. Equating adoption and adoptive relationships with TWAW is a nonsense. If nothing else, the part 'biology will out' is ummm, what women are telling you.
Rape crisis service users are being told, in their most vulnerable, painful moment, even then that they are not as important as the political ideology of certain groups. And 'feminists' are celebrating this. The world is upside down and I cannot understand any of it.
This thread from Women and Girls in Scotland has a lot more on the background and a response to the recent claim by Rape Crisis Scotland that asking whether provision is single-sex in rape crisis centres is somehow preventing women from accessing the service.
This is a thread by a male worker in a rape crisis that demonstrates everything MW is not.
I thought I had 'peaked' before. But this, this is unconscionable.
I found a lot of this a bit traumatising because of personal history. I really, really apologise if it has the same effect on anyone else.
I did think about including his thread in there, but I do think it's an excellent example of understanding how to do this work with delicacy, care and sensitivity. And that it's perfectly possible for a male-bodied person to understand that.I’m annoyed to be pleased a man is saying what needs to be said as well as all of the women who do so and take abuse. But he appears to be in a position of knowledge on this subject as well.
its appalling that someone who should be caring for vulnerable people is bringing their politics into it.
That is horrendous.TW for this whole post. Under a spoiler, please approach with caution. This has made me feel like I can't properly think for anger for nearly a day now.
The Guilty Feminist had Mridul Wadhwa on their podcast recently. MW is a transwoman, entirely self IDd, no GRC. MW is currently the head of Edinburgh Rape Crisis. MW got their previous job (again at a rape crisis centre) by not declaring their sex, despite it being advertised as a position only available to a woman. Apparently this was fine as 'no one asked'.
MW said that "Sexual violence happens to bigoted people too. But if you bring beliefs that are discriminatory, expect to be challenged on your prejudice. Reframe your trauma". Also does not believe that women accessing this service should have the right to request a female only environment in the aftermath of their trauma.
Link to the Twitter thread for the Guilty Feminist here:
You will have to click more replies to read most of them as they are being hidden and commentators are being blocked because apparently the views of women about rape crisis centres are unwelcome to a 'feminist' podcast.
Deborah Frances-White's response is here. To me, it is such a strawman argument. Equating adoption and adoptive relationships with TWAW is a nonsense. If nothing else, the part 'biology will out' is ummm, what women are telling you.
Rape crisis service users are being told, in their most vulnerable, painful moment, even then that they are not as important as the political ideology of certain groups. And 'feminists' are celebrating this. The world is upside down and I cannot understand any of it.
This thread from Women and Girls in Scotland has a lot more on the background and a response to the recent claim by Rape Crisis Scotland that asking whether provision is single-sex in rape crisis centres is somehow preventing women from accessing the service.
This is a thread by a male worker in a rape crisis that demonstrates everything MW is not.
I thought I had 'peaked' before. But this, this is unconscionable.
I found a lot of this a bit traumatising because of personal history. I really, really apologise if it has the same effect on anyone else.