Gemma Louise Miles #14 boring.

[clairelouise2]

I’m not convinced they’ll even get married

 

[whyamihereagain]

I think Jamie is a lot to blame for most of this! I just get bad vibes from him that he what’s wanted her to seclude herself from everyone except him and her mum. She obviously has no friends or limited friends which has probably caused a lot of her anxiety. I think there is more going on behind closed doors than we realise.

I agree I think she seems like such a sweet harmless person. We all change over the years and the people we surround ourselves change us as well.

As for her sending Noah to nursery I do disagree with everyone here. I know many stay at home mums that send their kids to nursery at the age of 1, it is normal! My children went to nursery at 1 years old and it wasn’t for the benefit of me to stay at home and do nothing it was to give them time to interact with other children and to help them learn and grow. Every parent is different so I will side with Gemma on that one sorry guys!!

Each to their own. Everyone is different. Gemma has disclosed that Noah attends Nursery 3 days a week and presuming her Mother has him still for one day that’s 4 days out of 7. I personally think she is in over her head and should have thought long and hard about having children before doing so. She clearly doesn’t enjoy Motherhood. If she really wanted to she could film her cleaning videos and shopping trips around her child but she has admitted when Noah goes to bed she likes to sit and do nothing from 7.30 until they go to bed (her words) Also not forgetting Jamie appears to ‘work from home’ too so they could more than manage between them. She simply does not want to. I wasn’t insinuating there is anything wrong with sending your child to Nursery to socialise but there are other ways of doing this such as Mother and Baby groups or meeting up with friends who have children.

 

[realistic_real_life]

It’s forecast to be 24 here today, I can’t think of anything I want to do less than ‘get cosy’

 

[rose.kem12]

I'm very disappointed with gemma the filters and editing needs to stop

 

[Bobbiewilson]

Why on earth is she wearing a fitted bed sheet as a dress?? That looks utterly ridiculous!! Probably cost a fortune too......

£40 H&M. Or free with a sack of potatoes

 

[MissFinn]

I cant believe Im saying this but I almost miss her overconsumption grinch pajamas era atleast then she had a tiny bit of personality now its all beige and depressing

 

[85duckpuddle]

Oh come on man, you look absolutely bloody daft… what on earth is that massive plastic a$$ jacket all about

And I don’t know why but the trainers remind me of what the poorer kids at school used to wear when they couldn’t afford the Reebok classics or Airmax

 

[MissFinn]

Someone wrote it perfectly that shes like a ghost wandering around in her oversize clothes in her beige house. Her whole life seems so empty and shallow. She is not happy whatever she pretends.

 

[calmyourritas]

Wat is Gemma’s content really ???

Shite

 

[rdown1]

She just called guacamole quac.

She called Hong Kong style ‘honk hong style’ I think she just writes things how she pronounces them pahaha

 

[JollyOne]

No matter how many more throws, fake books, empty vases & furniture she adds and takes away the bedroom is still not cosy! Give it up Gemma! It’s bordering on total obsession now it’s tragic. You have no idea how to work out scales and what sizes things need to be to blend together. She had her moment with the grey house decor but ever since it’s just been a mess of things not working and ridiculous over buying/gifting trying to force it

Her consumerism is off the scale at the minute. Disgraceful. Plus, as you say, chucking various stuff in the rooms makes not a blind bit of difference, it's just soulless.

 

[85duckpuddle]

I don’t think N fits naturally into what Gemma was hoping for on so many levels. But especially with her being able to use him for content £££. I don’t think he fits into their controlled, beige insta life at all and was quite shocked she decided to bring a baby into it in the first place. Especially as she didn’t seem in a very strong emotional state. It’s all quite sad as on paper she has everything but you can tell the whole household is just off no matter what she tries so hard to portray. I really don’t think she should put him out on the internet at all though.

Agreed. Of course acknowledge his existence, you’re a mum now and he’s your whole life but keep his innocent little face off the internet - it’s not fair!

I think it’s weird to put the media wall where they have given they can’t really watch the TV with that huge vase on the table but it looks ok actually IMO. I don’t get why there’s an odd gap at the top though, why not just to go the ceiling instead of leaving a grubby dust trap?

I like the red flowers she had but the rest of the shelf styling is soulless, dull and copied straight from a Next Home catalogue as per. Although at least there’s ONE family photo to show real people actually live there

 

[12inchthinbase]

Omg yes!! She doesn't seem to do anything typical with him at all..... if anything dare I say it she's encouraging delayed development by not stimulating him in anyway from what we see... no bright colours, no real sensory play, no outdoor fun, brightly coloured parks, sand boxes, splash pads, sensory clubs, mum and baby massage, song and dance clubs. And whats with the hiding behind the garden doors while Jamie is outside with him...... has she got agoraphobia now?

During mat leave I went to 3 clubs a week, 1 to keep sane by leaving the house, 2 to socialise with other mums and 3 my little one thrived eventually aged 1 we joined the art sensory club which was amazing. Run into paint trays with just nappies on and essentially make a mess on large mats with paper and card. There were little stations to clean off at afterward. Highly recommend.

Anyways bk to gemma she really needs help and encouragement which I don't belive Jamie aids in because he likely prefers her at home under his surveillance
But that baby looks like 7months old rather than 1+ and always looks peaky.

As for the running out of content ideas, gemma knows what works she can see that from her successful past vids and what they entailed.... she's just not that person any more clearly. I find myself watching vlogs from 3-4yrs ago. Her content now is sickening

Yes to all of this!!

I had my boy at 19, his douchebag dad wasn't around, I had no money, didn't drive, had barely any support, suffered with social anxiety yet I still managed to drag my ass to every playgroup/baby/toddler class I could. And I did it because I knew he needed that sort of interaction and staying home with me every day wouldn't have helped him at all. She has no excuse she's just 1) Lazy and 2) Self-centred. She needs to wake up and realise it's about Noah now and not her.

Also, dare I say that she actually seems quite "embarrassed" of her own son? ..which may have something to do with her not taking him anywhere? I fully believe she watches all these other YouTubers and thinks "oh I wish my baby was as photogenic/tanned/had thicker hair etc"

*side note, I personally don't think this way at all and couldn't give a toss about other people's babies anyway

 

[sarahtwilight]

So in this weeks vlog Gemma mentions that Jamie hated the 'all grey' pink blush era....what man gives a shit. I have to say i think that era was classic Gemma and what she truely enjoyed. This makes me think Jamie reinvented Gemma, I think he molded her to get rid of the grey chavvy decor, drop the sassy attitude and speak more soft spoken...oh and get rid of your best mate while your at it.

Yes I agree and it was interesting how Gemma acknowledged that the grey era was how everything started for her...they wouldnt have the money and house they have now if not for the following she built up then so Jamie should be more grateful for the grey and blush pink! Also it really annoyed me when he was scolding her like a child for wearing her slippers in the loft...fair enough not the most practical footwear to climb a loft ladder but she is a grown woman and it sounded like he was an exasperated parent speaking to a child. The melt

 

[dunnsj]

She is curvy. But on her YouTube she has the camera in certain angles that can appear slimmer. On her YouTube she’s always in baggy clothes which I think she used to hide behind

I think she looks beautiful in the picture with the brown trousers

 

[Strikeapose18]

Let me guess…they went to the beach to film another pregnancy announcement video. Just like last time and just like Elle did.

 

[Dramallama2]

I haven’t commented on this thread for ages purely because she is that soul destroyingly boring I don’t have much to add and usually prefer to lurk but christ alive what is up with the black bags under Noah’s eyes?! I’m sorry but he really gives me the creeps, reminds me of something out of a horror show. Something seems really off about him, but I doubt she’d ever discuss it if there was. It wouldn’t fit with the image she tries to portray.

 

[gossgal]

Cosy vibes people, Cosy vibes

Her partner still gives me off vibes though

 

[Princesst]

Wants her lounge to look like she lives in America but she doesn’t leave the house let alone actually travel to America. What she really means is she wants her lounge to look like something from a Pinterest stereotype, like she’s tried and failed with the rest of the house got it. shame when she wastes her precious time making mood boards she doesn’t factor in the size and scale as everything she puts together always looks ridiculous. And what colour do we pick beige… or beige? She could just learn to paint herself and then she would actually do something productive with her time

 

[Cooksie]

Must be difficult knowing what to share and what is too personal when it comes to your child on social media, whilst also knowing you have to share something.

The answer is very clear cut - share nothing, children are unable to consent!