Not sure about IVF but I saw a girl on insta who literally used a turkey baster to have her baby. You can meet men online who are willing sperm donors and do it that way. Aside from a potential fee for the sperm donor, it’s pretty cheap I imagine.How easy even is it to get IVF as a single woman in the UK? Is it a case of if you pay enough they'll just do it, or do they actually assess your situation and might realise that Gabby is in no way fit to be a parent, especially not on her own.
A screaming baby is sure to annoy her thenShe’s said in Q&A’s that she never wants to be in a relationship because “other people annoy her”
Aka no one will have her so she’s trying to pretend it’s her decision to be single forever
Yeah she wouldn’t need IVF if all her reproductive organs are working fine, it would just be a sperm donor and artificial insemination (whether that be paid for or through a turkey baster) either way be a lot cheaperHow easy even is it to get IVF as a single woman in the UK? Is it a case of if you pay enough they'll just do it, or do they actually assess your situation and might realise that Gabby is in no way fit to be a parent, especially not on her own.
Yeah if anyone watched teen mum uk there was a lesbian couple who uses a “private sperm donor” that they found on social media must be pretty easyNot sure about IVF but I saw a girl on insta who literally used a turkey baster to have her baby. You can meet men online who are willing sperm donors and do it that way. Aside from a potential fee for the sperm donor, it’s pretty cheap I imagine.
Someone in my family has BPD and you’re spot on with this, hope you’re getting the help you need!Gabs really does need professional intervention at this stage I think. There are a lot of borderline personality disorder traits she displays (I’ve been diagnosed with this in April this year, seeing both a psychiatrist and psychologist and it’s defo helping but not a miracle cure) and whilst she displays behaviours I don’t, I do understand in a way why - for example - the emotional over reacting by going on a train back to Brighton after a possible arguement or confrontation, the intense short lived friendships, living in and growing up in a potentially toxic household, bouts of depression and anxiety etc. The best thing for her is to go to a GP and ask to be referred to a psychiatrist for an assessment. I was petrified when I had mine but I just now wish I’d done it over 20 odd years ago. She can turn things around by getting professional help but it’s hard work and a bumpy ride.
This is ridiculous. I think it's awful for people to pass comment on a pregnant woman's size. I had loads when I was carrying my son but he was almost 10lb! But Gabby? I couldn't imagine anything more damaging for her and she knows this, but she will happily do it. She will not cope with any of it. I have 2 under 11 months. (Although they're almost 3 and 2 now and I'm expecting one next June. Its only easy as my husband is about a bit luckily. Otherwise while he's at work Its really bloody difficult. Yet she wants twins so badly?? She won't function. An precious Nellie won't get his attention and she will be more concerned about that.Yep it’s 100% gone! Also what is wrong with her,
I’m nervous to get pregnant, she talks about it like she could just get pregnant tomorrow! Honestly don’t understand how you’d think you can raise a baby by yourself, most people are not single by choice and it’s bloody hard work, single parents are super hero’s
I don't know how she will afford it with all the trips to farrow and ball that she has. Its absurd that she's willing to spend thousands on IVF alone.Does she not realise how bizarre it is to speak about getting pregnant so soon when she’s not in any kind of relationship? Of course single parenting is completely normal but I do think it’s unusual for a 25 year old to be so dead set on having a baby alone - women usually consider this later in life when the biological clock is ticking. Would not be shocked if she had artificial insemination with a sperm donor very soon. I completely agree she thinks a baby will fill a void / make her happy but to be a good parent she needs to work on herself and find a way to be happy on her own before bringing f a child into the world.
Also baffled by her spending Christmas alone. I think this has probably been her decision which is sad if she does have the option to be at home and has chosen not to. So many people don’t have the choice and would give anything to spend Xmas with family, even if there had been some disagreements
I see a LOT of my past behaviour in where Gabby is now and this is what my diagnosis is.Most personality disorders can be co-morbid with each other or another illness. I know we have no place to diagnose but BPD possibly co-morbid with bipolar seems plausible. The intense emotional reactions to everything and sensitivity, not to mention the unstable sense of self. But she’s such an ego maniac too and incredibly narcissistic. I really hope she gets help she needs though no mental illness can excuse her behaviour.
Her dad being gay only excuses the selfish parts of her and her staying mostly in the child/adult mental state. It also explains why she can't hold down relationships.I didn't know that her dad is gay. That makes me look at things slightly differently. It all just seems miserable. I definitely relate to some of it.
I think gabbie doesn’t like her dad because in most situations the child gets divorced parents where the child gets spoiled, I think she doesn’t like him because he still lives there..... she probably hasn’t got over the fact they have to live together and she hasn’t got her mum all to herselfHer dad being gay does not excuse her selfishness!
Her parents have a civil and friendly relationship which is very rare for any parents who separate (regardless of sexuality.) Has she ever said why she dislikes her Dad? Purely speculation but I always feel her mother is a serial enabler, perhaps he gives her more reality and home truths than she likes?
My own father left my mother when I was 3 as he came out as being gay. He, my mother and his long term partner were great friends until my dad sadly died. This situation did not make me or my siblings exhibit the behaviours gabbie does.
Ultimately she does need to seek help. It’s very sad.
Awww thank you! I am however it’s a long road ahead after being undiagnosed until my late 30s. Many thanks for the good wishesSomeone in my family has BPD and you’re spot on with this, hope you’re getting the help you need!
Is this tweet gone now too!? This girl - trying to keep up with her....Just seen this on Gabby's twitter, Jane's reply makes it look more likely that Gab is refusing to go there for Xmas.
I don't have any sympathy for her. She's an attention seeker
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