Yeah I get your point. Not everyone has a big group of friends that do everything together and do loads of instagrammable events together all the time. Its normal to have something outside of this! Especially as you get older!Not sure if I'm the only one but in a weird way, even tho it's a mess to witness, I kind of like that she shares her ups and downs and the isolated life she leads because in some ways I can relate to her life. We don't all live like Zoella and co - i.e we don't all have close family, lots of friends, pets, nice house, good career, travel, breakfast platters, constant parties and events etc. And that's OK.
Wish she'd get over this whole 'youtube lifestyle' and get on with her actual life before it passes her by.
This is why I can’t even feel sorry for her for being lonely tbh. Whenever she posts this shite she is inundated with offers of chatting, friendship etc that she doesn’t even reply to. But she’s burnt too many bridges in the influencer world, who would go near her now? And normal people aren’t good enough for her apparently...Do we think she only wants influencer friends? I messaged her as I am similar age to her and I live about 40 mins away but no response ofc
The thing is she's got this mentality that the grass will be greener on the other side. Constantly thinking that everything would be solved if she changes her environment or living situation. Life's not like that, I think she needs to stay put and actually try and meet new people and build some structure and routine to her week, eg. Volunteer. Nothing would be different if she moved unless she changesI’m actually happy that at last she’s realised that living in Brighton isn’t what it’s cracked up to be. And I’m glad for her that she’s deciding to move somewhere closer to her mum - I think it will do wonders for her mental health! I’ve always said I do seem to have a soft spot for her (maybe cos I’ve watched her from the beginning!) and I do honestly just want to see her living a better life than she does now(don’t all hate me pls haha)
Agree so much with most of this, like I don’t know why she thinks Manchester would be any different at all?! She doesn’t know anyone there either...if she’s lonely how does that help. I think she would be happier moving back near Jane or buying a place where Jane could live with her too, and then putting down the roots like you’ve said re meeting peopleThe thing is she's got this mentality that the grass will be greener on the other side. Constantly thinking that everything would be solved if she changes her environment or living situation. Life's not like that, I think she needs to stay put and actually try and meet new people and build some structure and routine to her week, eg. Volunteer. Nothing would be different if she moved unless she changes
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