She’s complaining that the NHS don’t see fertility as urgent, that’s because it’s not. Cancer is urgent not being pregnant isn’t and children aren’t essential no matter how much you want them. She gets angry when people talk about adoption or surrogacy or egg/ sperm donation but I find it really hard to believe they never discussed these at all especially after the first round of ivf didn’t work, I hope her kid never hears that the embryo that didn’t take was perfect or that looking back she wonders if she should have had that one frozen and the less perfect one (wonky) implanted.