I have 2 friends, neither I see very often, I went through a marriage break up late last yr, they were nowhere to be seen just a comment ‘I can’t believe it’ & ‘oh I knew it would end’ both have partners so when I get upset that I’m single their reaction is I will find someone & not to worry (I don’t need a man btw, just some actual adult conversation) I started a new job a few months ago, everyone knows everyone, family members work together so I feel really left out & just don’t seem to fit in anywhere I go, I just do my work, come home & cry when I go to bed, I’m just terribly lonely. I don’t know what to do, I don’t consider myself a bad person, I do lack confidence but try so hard to mask it & I often think because I’m not thin or pretty then that’s why people don’t like me? But then again it’s my own insecurities.