My daughter is starting Uni this year and this is my main fear that she wont fit in as she doesn't drink either.Uni was (I'm still there but I'm on my year abroad so doesn't count atm lmao) the worst time for friends for me. Especially freshers.
I don't drink so I really struggled with fitting in because of that, and it really felt like everyone was having the most amazing time and had loads of friends and I had made one, who I now don't speak to.
Shes struggled all her life making friends. Shes never been a follower and is happy to like stuff others may think wierd or uncool. Shes a kind person so often she would make the first move to befriend say a new pupil at school , do all the leg work then someone else in their group would take them over . she has one or two friends from school but they dont meet up that often.
She said shes never seems to be able to move past the acquaintance stage.
I worry so much about her being lonely there..