No I’m right there with you don’t worry
No I’m right there with you don’t worryI joke but it’s true
GET OUT OF HERE NOW. HOW ARE WE FRIENDSWell my problem is that I just don’t like animals so there won’t even be a dog. Will just be me, my crocs and my Chillys water bottles
Honestly, there's nothing wrong with you. I know I married too young because I was afraid of being left out because all my friends were getting married. I love my life now but it wasn't an easy process getting here.This as well. I see people with their significant other or talking about someone that they are starting to see and I just think “what is wrong with me why am I not able to get to this point” and then I start thinking about the fact that I’m just going to be the crazy cat lady spinster who doesn’t even like cats
Also married men live longer than single men but married women die younger than single womenA study showed that women in same sex relationships have more frequent and more satisfying sex so they probably ARE happier
ugh exactly this! And also, it just fills me with so much anxiety… the swiping is fun (but so superficial) but the conversations and the meeting, it just makes me horribly anxious and I can’t even explain it.I know. I've been on and off dating apps for a few years now. So many guys only want you for a shag whenever it suits them. They want it all on their terms.
Unfortunately it doesn't seem to get any better as they get older. My godmother received an unsolicited dick pic from a man she was speaking to from a dating app. She is 53.
RETWEET. So many people around me seem to get into relationships so easily and I can barely get past the talking stage.This as well. I see people with their significant other or talking about someone that they are starting to see and I just think “what is wrong with me why am I not able to get to this point” and then I start thinking about the fact that I’m just going to be the crazy cat lady spinster who doesn’t even like cats
SameI know it's corny, but I wish I could have a relationship like my mum and dad have. They were younger than I am when they got together. Still going strong over 40 years later
SameMy mum met my dad on a night out and they were married for 40 years before we lost him. Imagine meeting someone on a night out now and still being together 40 years later?!
I just can’t even bring myself to do it anymore, too old for trying to find the love of my life on a sticky dancefloorI could never, everything that happens on a night out fizzles out about a week later for me
https://giphy.com/ZOwljDSMNr1rV76DMcI’m gonna try get some sleep it’s been a really busy day on tattle considering it’s not a race weekend night
Ah see I’m slightly different in the sense that my parents were in early-mid 30s before they met so that is the things that gets me through - knowing that it all doesn’t have to happen young. But it is still hard to think that there are people my age out there who are in steady relationships atm (yes these might not last but still they are there just now) and I’m just sat here having never made it to a proper taking stage and even then that was a solid 3-4 years ago when I was still in schoolI know it's corny, but I wish I could have a relationship like my mum and dad have. They were younger than I am when they got together. Still going strong over 40 years later
Granted I haven’t been out partying in a good while, mainly due to Germany having been quite strict with the pandemic up until recently and now my anxiety is way too bad, but I’ve been out at bars drinking and stuff and it’s just always the sameI just can’t even bring myself to do it anymore, too old for trying to find the love of my life on a sticky dancefloor
Girl my childhood best friend who I’ve known for like 20 years is engaged to his girlfriend of 12 years or something - and I’m sat here killing yet another plant in my room that’s somehow sick of my atmosphereAh see I’m slightly different in the sense that my parents were in early-mid 30s before they met so that is the things that gets me through - knowing that it all doesn’t have to happen young. But it is still hard to think that there are people my age out there who are in steady relationships atm (yes these might not last but still they are there just now) and I’m just sat here having never made it to a proper taking stage and even then that was a solid 3-4 years ago when I was still in school
Men are literally the same everywhere, I never see anyone respectful on a night out! All trying to have a quick grope or shouting inappropriate shit out! Drives me mad! I’ve just given up now and dance like an idiot with my mates insteadGranted I haven’t been out partying in a good while, mainly due to Germany having been quite strict with the pandemic up until recently and now my anxiety is way too bad, but I’ve been out at bars drinking and stuff and it’s just always the samemaybe I’m going to the wrong places
The guy I just dated was nerdy and into F1. But there was no chemistry. Which is kinda neededAnother one here for the Tattle 'what is wrong with men' club. I broke up with my most recent ex a couple of months before Covid hit and had moved out of his place to live by myself.
I have tried a few dating apps recently and the state of menfolk who are my age isI swear half of them who are claiming to be my age look more like they could be my dad's age to me! There's also just a lot of them who seem to be the same person... like they have the same hobbies and same blah where they think saying they've travelled to 47 different countries is a personality trait....
I just want a nice, slightly nerdy one who is around my age who maybe shares like one interest, say F1 or football, with me.... I feel like I am not asking for the moon on a stick here. And yet.
TattleGranted I haven’t been out partying in a good while, mainly due to Germany having been quite strict with the pandemic up until recently and now my anxiety is way too bad, but I’ve been out at bars drinking and stuff and it’s just always the samemaybe I’m going to the wrong places
Girl my childhood best friend who I’ve known for like 20 years is engaged to his girlfriend of 12 years or something - and I’m sat here killing yet another plant in my room that’s somehow sick of my atmosphereat least we got each other 🤝🏼
You were so close yet so farThe guy I just dated was nerdy and into F1. But there was no chemistry. Which is kinda needed
And to think that some people pay money for what we have for freeTattleLove life therapy sessions
Biggest mood ever. I'll be 22 this year. So many people in solid relationships. I can't gst out of the talking stage. Always just treated like an option all the time too.Ah see I’m slightly different in the sense that my parents were in early-mid 30s before they met so that is the things that gets me through - knowing that it all doesn’t have to happen young. But it is still hard to think that there are people my age out there who are in steady relationships atm (yes these might not last but still they are there just now) and I’m just sat here having never made it to a proper taking stage and even then that was a solid 3-4 years ago when I was still in school
I feel youBiggest mood ever. I'll be 22 this year. So many people in solid relationships. I can't gst out of the talking stage. Always just treated like an option all the time too.
I feel like I'm so far behind, because I'm only just returning to education after a few years out. I should have graduated University this summer. People my age are graduating, getting their own flats, in solid relationships and I'm in the same position I was when I left school 4 years ago.
In terms of the education thing, I took a year out after school and thought when I started my course that so many people would be younger and that really messed with me but now I have a solid group of friends and some are older some same age and some younger and it’s fab! I love the mix of experiences sk just roll with it allBiggest mood ever. I'll be 22 this year. So many people in solid relationships. I can't gst out of the talking stage. Always just treated like an option all the time too.
I feel like I'm so far behind, because I'm only just returning to education after a few years out. I should have graduated University this summer. People my age are graduating, getting their own flats, in solid relationships and I'm in the same position I was when I left school 4 years ago.
Any lurkers with relationship issues right now are loving lifeAnd to think that some people pay money for what we have for free
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