Fopperholic #89 Fake it in Paris..fake bag & face, fake broken foppertoe, fake marriage Fopp’s let it go!

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so In one breath she’s saying she wants to support people going through hardships and who are struggling and then in the next breath boasting about a spa weekend. Did I listen to that correctly or am I wrong? My brain shut down for a second.
 
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I’m a SAHM and it’s hard my parents pay for my older 2 to go to nursery for 3 hours a week just because it was really tough and exhausting as my husband works 6 days a week. I haven’t had a night away from them in 2 years, money is tight and personally I feel like it’s a big ask for someone to have all 3 atm. Iv lost who I am and I admit im lost but I know this won’t be forever and actually makes me feel sorry for her as the boys won’t remember simple days at home with their mummy they will remember going to nursery and grandmas house and everything in between will blend into a big soft play mess. It is hard and it’s not glamours but it’s not forever and she couldn’t see that.
 
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This woman grinds my gears. She is so worried by what’s going on in the world she swans off to Paris knowing that if she tested positive on her return she would have to isolate and couldn’t see her precious miracles. So worried about families struggling she splashed out on unnecessary designer purchases, brags about going on a SPA weekend and needing to get her eyebrows tattooed which doesn’t come cheap. Did I mention her miracles slept in until 7.45. Bore off Nicola. No one cares less about other people than you do
 
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Fopps "I see posts with people struggling and it breaks my heart so I'm looking into a couple of local community charities, but it's knowing how I can contribute best to those sort of things"

Translation: "I'm not that bothered about other people who can't afford a weekly shop, or heat their homes as I buy up the whole yoghurt section and buy a new coat every week. What would be best for my engagement on here guys"?
 
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That filter is hideous. And you know what would help your local community Nikki? Going out and getting a proper job! This woman would not last a day in the real world.
 
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That filter is hideous. And you know what would help your local community Nikki? Going out and getting a proper job! This woman would not last a day in the real world.
Or just actually volunteer not just throw your cash because she’s incredibly richer than everyone
 
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Or just actually volunteer not just throw your cash because she’s incredibly richer than everyone
oh absolutely. I love my career and I worked so hard to get where I am, but that brings me nowhere near as much job satisfaction as the voluntary work that I have done for years, because that is what makes more of a difference to people's lives and helps their mental health.

All she does is look at her own reflection and give unhealthy advice about food and shopping...how does she think that helps people?

It's about time Nikki Ryan Fopperholic did something positive to contribute to society. But she wont. All she will do is get Chris credit card out and assume the problem is solved...whilst solving nothing... except her own spending obsession
 
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She doesn't have time to volunteer since she had to give up SW to look after the boys.
 
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Exactly what I thought she cares about no1 but herself..She all self …..
 
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Or just actually volunteer not just throw your cash because she’s incredibly richer than everyone
Omg can you imagine her in a food bank...
Oooh don't take that bread, too many calories.. throw the mayo away, just eat the dry salad.
Oh I'm so jealous that you've not got enough money to eat, you'll lose weight easily.
 
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The way she favours that smug little git makes me sick she was just waiting for the opportunity to have a photo shoot of her faveson he is the image of his father ... sorry but not cute at all
 
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This is a video she made 4 years ago to help people with binge eating.
This advice will do nothing to help some with genuine BED or severe binge eating issues.
This is most likely she seems to equate eating too many mullers, going over syns or having an extra protein bar on an evening as a binge.
Her advice here is -
-Excercise more then you won't want to undo the work you've done by eating.
- 'change your environment' she wishes she'd put her office upstairs at home because then her treats would be too far for her to be bothered to get.
* Funnily enough I have BED and I once got a taxi to a 24 hour petrol station to get treats to binge on...sooo yeah.
- consider getting rid of your treat cupboard if a trigger.
* denial is the one of the worst things to trigger a binge.
- wait 5 minutes before getting the treat to let the urge wear off
*BED is characterised by uncontrollable urges
- Turn down the negative voices in your head and turn up the positive ones
*yeah cos its that easy
- She has obviously read 'the Chimp Paradox' so she advises to follow ideas from there and think of your negative thoughts as a chimp and give it a name.
So when you go to the fridge just tell the chimp to go away
- she was still a SW group leader at this point to the rest of the points are SW crap.

It really makes me sad that vunerable people with real issues will end up paying her to spout this shit.

 
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When I binged it wasn't only on "treats" I've binged on bread, cereal, anything I could get my hands on so getting rid of the treat cupboard would have had no effect on me. When I had the urge to binge it was on anything and everything. Also I was known to throw away the treats, on many occasions, and then take them back out of the bin and eat them so again would make no difference. She isn't qualified to give advice on these matters and is just dangerous in what she does say
 
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I've done the bin thing before too
It's an horrendous disorder.
 
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The way she favours that smug little git makes me sick she was just waiting for the opportunity to have a photo shoot of her faveson he is the image of his father ... sorry but not cute at all
He really isn’t is he sorry but can’t pretend otherwise he the sort of child I’d give a wide birth. As my Dad used to say he has a face only a Mother could love That filter makes him look like he needs a dam good wash too
 
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She's absolutely mental this has got to be a wind up. She's like a bad parody
 
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look how different her face looks!!!
 
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The way she favours that smug little git makes me sick she was just waiting for the opportunity to have a photo shoot of her faveson he is the image of his father ... sorry but not cute at all
It’s absolutely disgusting the way she is so blatant about favouring him.
 
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