I had just turned 18 and he was 17 (a few months younger than me) We met through friends after he moved back for uni and had this weird instant connection. I didnt really realise I liked him til one night we were having predrinks at a mates and ended up kissing
Took a few weeks after that til we got together. Lasted an intense 18 months.
Would I fancy him now? God no
He lives in another city and is also married with a son. Im in a long term relationship with a daughter. My daughters a few months older so I'm hoping history doesn't repeat and they dont meet in 17 years time
It took me years to get over. Always seemed to turn up in my life again as soon as I was starting to get hin out my head, then the cycle would start again.
Hope youre doing well now!
Took a few weeks after that til we got together. Lasted an intense 18 months.
Would I fancy him now? God no
He lives in another city and is also married with a son. Im in a long term relationship with a daughter. My daughters a few months older so I'm hoping history doesn't repeat and they dont meet in 17 years time
I had a very similar experience with a guy after my first relationship ended.My āfirst loveā was absolutely toxic for me. On and off for 4/5 years and he had a girlfriend all along. When we met he lied and said they werenāt together. Then I got sucked in when he kept promising to leave her. I was obsessed with him but realise now what a manipulative control freak he was.
His girlfriend got shut of him and funnily enough we are friends now.
I regret every single minute I spent with him and feel sad I did it to her. He is a twisted person and I know he has cheated on his current gf also.
Also - probably serves me right, but I found out he was also cheating on me (if you can call it that) with my so called best friend.
good riddance.
It took me years to get over. Always seemed to turn up in my life again as soon as I was starting to get hin out my head, then the cycle would start again.
Hope youre doing well now!