Honestly I see so much in common with Fidan and my brother, he also has an amazing job and earns lots of money but won’t spend a penny on anything he doesn’t feel necessary or to his liking which comes across as really tight. I like Fidan and if both have good jobs, and she pays 50% towards the household her husband should do 50% of the jobs also. The sheer amount of hours she has to work are insane, well I know they are in the UK, I don’t specialise in her area of law but it’s so intense as a solicitor, I don’t earn what she does however I’m not a partner and I’m not in my 40’s, but I don’t get to spend anything like she does, I think her ‘I can afford it so it doesn’t matter’ attitude is wrong though and most importantly doesn’t teach your children anything, my parents are self made millionaires who raised me to be kind, gracious and count the pennies I have, but help the less fortunate. They always taught me to earn the money they have takes serious hard graft when you come from nothing, they didnt even have any opportunity to educate themselves, but as they taught me, money can come and go, family are what is important, and that is being lost in her TT if it’s he case, And as a fraternal twin myself I relate, my brother was more like Clark and me, Kara, I think it’s lovely she’s taking them on a Disney cruise though and I hope they enjoy it.