I agree I don’t think it’s fully her age either, she seems very routine driven and I think unpredictable kids/pets just throw her off and disturb her when she just has to do what she’s used to doing like the cooking videos daily, if she could lock the kids and pets out of the kitchen and do it in peace she’d be smiling from ear to ear.It’s not her age it’s her personality. I’m mid 40’s with an 8 year old and she’s the light of my life. We have lots of fun together and I genuinely enjoy spending time with her. Fidan and her defacto seem to live quite seperate lives. I understand that the twins might be a handful or have limitations but why not hit the park/shops/museum/playcentre with “Mr Fidan”.
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She seems drained, tired and like she can’t be bothered. Why not have a social media break. The people of Tiktok will survive not knowing what she’s cooking for dinner each night. Everything’s always cooked in the air fryer. Time for some soups or stews. Get the slow cooker out.