Thanks bizzie. I thought i was doing OK but once all the busy-ness finishes, it kind of sets in that this is it and the grief kind of gets worse. I'm seeing someone today to get some help.@BeachBaby I hope you are doing ok & looking after yourself.
Your little info about grannymoo’s hat makes me laugh every time I put my own hat on.
This week has been hard for me but I am getting through it. Looking at going overseas later in the year so that gives me something to plan and look forward to.
It's the best. Honestly it had made me smile reading all your posts. Thank you. Fezzas are the best.I love this little fezza support group.
I hope you have some support close by and find the energy and courage to have a tricky conversation with your partner.
Ah shit pony. Im so sorry to hear this.Howdy fezzas! If anyone remembers my life crumbling at the start of the year here is an update and a question about what my new career should be ? I apologise in advance about the ramble of thoughts.
Sorry I hadn't replied to the last messages checking in to see if I was ok, i really appreciated the thoughts.
Honestly, everything's been shit. The husband has fully checked out of all parenting, our family and kids lives completely. Like none of the past 15 years ever happened.
It turns out all "our" assets are actually owned in with his families trusts or something, I don't understand and feel so stupid about. So I'm without my car, out of our house, with 4 kids. I'm staying with my parents but my mum has gotten unwell suddenly and is now palliative, so that's a shit blow.
My adorable baby fezza is now 3 months old and gorgeous, she is so very loved and adored and it breaks my heart her father has checked out of our life.
my postpartum cardiomyopathy is now deemed chronic heart failure and the pulmonary embolisms are still being treated with massive doses of clexane twice a day, my entire abdomen and thighs are black and blue with bruises. I can't pay for specialist appointments because the accounts I had access too have been emptied.
Im poor, essentially homeless, desperately sad, heartbroken about losing my mum soon, chronically unwell, 3 months postpartum and trying my best to provide a happy life to my4 beautiful children, who are all amazing and deserve the world
I can't go back to work just yet as I'm receiving ppl , and I've realised I won't be able to return to my employment of rotating shift work , night shift, double shifts and overtime as a single mum with no support.
So now that I have had a whinge and a pity party for myself , if you've made it this far, I would like to brain storm with you diverse and intelligent fezzas to what my new career could be ?
I have a couple of Bachelor degrees and postgrad diplomas however, without doxing myself, my current employment is in a very niche area. But broadly speaking, what would a RN be able to change work to that is not in nursing at all ? 9-5, work from home, minimal stress, etc etc .
Rural and regional location make it limiting, and I'm definitly not interesting, beautiful or talented like Emmy, so I won't be able to make it as an influencer
Bless you that is so sweet. I do have a lovely support system both in real life and on tattle.
I don’t know where I can find organic foods in fountain gate to make keto meals for her as she isn’t eating
I'm so sorry especially, it's a very hard thing to do and live through after. I still kiss my beautiful boy cat's photo goodnight every night and tell him to look after his Daddy.Thank you guys. We are so much more than a nasty bunch of trolls!
Our boy went very peacefully. He knew it was his time. I feel a bit more at peace knowing he is no longer in any pain
and yep she’s Asian and been hard work for over 8 years! Painful
If you need someone to call up and abuse your husband, scare the bejeezus out of him, I’m your girlThank you for the lovely offers, much appreciated
I’ll have the authorities go through him so hard he won’t need to worry about some dude trying to throw a length in him. Just kidding 
You are not the fool. He is. He is being trapped by attention not realising what he has at home.
Esme, we had to make the same decision for our almost 11yo dog Monday night too. Sudden, traumatic and so unexpected. My heart breaks alongside yours. It’s been a horrible week here. Sending you love 🩷Thank you guys. We are so much more than a nasty bunch of trolls!
Our boy went very peacefully. He knew it was his time. I feel a bit more at peace knowing he is no longer in any pain
Best news ever!!!!! Congratulations 🩷🩷 so glad you’re both doing well and a little GIRL! Fantastic news teethy, so happy for you xoxoxoHello to all the Aunty Fezzas. Baby somanyteeth aka @notanyteeth arrived a little bit earlier than I expected (but not early early. 38+3 so all G).
A little 🩷to add to our fezza troll team!
We're both doing good! Xx
