I’m sorry but the CONSTANT need for approval from everybody is worrying. The amount of times she asks her friends/grandad what they think, it’s like she’s so conscious of how others perceive their relationship, when really she should be conscious of how it actually is.
The demand to be engaged by a certain point as well is screaming desperate!!! Telling her friends and the tv producers that she wants to be engaged by December… it’s very toxic and needy. Her explanation of how she’s not had a consistent male in her life (apart from grandad) clearly shows why she has negative attachments with every guy she meets!
the reason she’s constantly seeking their approval is because this isn’t the first bloke she’s said is the one..she needs them to see that for her to be right. As she has got it so wrong before.
She really believes that having a man in her life and more kids and marriage is what she really needs to be happy.
Instead of enjoying her lovely daughter and waiting for someone to come along naturally..she’s constantly pushing the he’s the one..I’m going to marry him..blah blah. So by the time she actually gets to know the guy she realises he’s not right for her at all.
her priorities are all wrong, the sooner she realises she doesn’t need a partner to fulfill her the better she will be