I agree...nothing to apologise forWhen I read it @Milking Keynes I saw it as you trying to pour oil on troubled water not the other way round! You were the complete voice of reason and comfort IMHO
Thank you so muchI'm so sorry I was not there for you @Miscanthus ... But your response was 100% on point, you brought tears to my eyes. I am sending you virtual hugs for making such a brave brave post
. Hugs welcome 
Deffo change to RED! Put 3 coins tried with red ribbon on front of both! Can’t tell you how important this is. In my company we kept the first invoice book as a memento. It became so battered over the years and then we changed to paperless. Anyway do please try it. BTW my company grew into a national company so it worked for me...
My heart sang when you described your husband!My money toad is presently relaxing. Weekends off, ya know?
I received the red string (thank you, Amazon), and hopefully gave him a nice scarf effect. I hope he doesn't feel choked by my clumsy sartorial efforts. I was worried my family was thinking me a lunatic, and yet, my husband has been checking to see if he is back at work every Monday morning. I'm finding the money toad is good at his job. Because otherwise I don't think my very analytical, not remotely spiritual, innately skeptical, yet perfect husband would take such care to keep tabs on the little labouring toad's work hours. So read into that what you will. LOL
(OT and not to pressure you at all, but I do so hope you return to the kitchen door-less bungalow thread. You are sorely missed.)
I just love to hear stuff like that!! You have always described him in the loveliest terms and I love that he’s there with you on your avatar. It always makes me smile (along with the dog-less dog lead...). He’s more on the page than he knows you know 
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Hellooooo! So lovely to see you! What was the poem about? I can write it again here for you and put it back up. I am so touched to hear you saved it.! Truly. Don’t tell anyone but I have ALL the cats and dogs from Fur Babies saved on my phone and I look at them often.
It sounds to me like you have a natural feel for the energy in your home anyway if you already don’t do clutter - which is brilliant. If you OH is putting anything under beds decorate a lovely box for them ( one you won’t mind looking at) and put all the under bed stuff in the nicely decorated box. A thick cardboard box decorated with decoupage that you like and glued on...a) it’s a nice project, b) shows you care, c) you hav3 created a nice solution. The energy under a bed is very important to keep unhindered because that’s where you rest. Just to say that your front door is the mouth of your house so it’s very important to keep it very clean and fresh and to have live plants if it’s possible. If you don’t mind having an ornament as opposed to a picture you could buy a money toad and sit him on the stairs. This will enhance your finances too. Here’s a photo of mine ( from eBay). He’s crystal glass but you can get other toads made from different fibres such as metal etc if you like the look of them more. My feng shui master told me to have him facing the wrong way at weekends to give him a rest and also to give him 4 weeks holiday a year. I thought that was a bit daft ( actually I always forget is more the truth) so mine works all the time! He’s on the fifth stair up (pocket height).
I feel the same and I don't even post as much. I am clapping away all the negative energy (especially since I forgot to do it this month) and manifesting/visualising/hoping for oops.
Well, after third lockdown, I’m Telly Tubby..!Pretty sure we are all La La!
So happy you agreed as the girls are keen to get involved.I would say it would be perfect if your girls do the clapping yes! Make a family fun day out of it.
Hopefully we can agree a time suitable for all soon - Great you can do any of the times mentioned x
Is that a real thread or are you joking? I have atm problems with the tattle page on both of my browsers (Firefox, Chrome on Win10). Sometimes I have a search tool and then again not, sometimes I have to repeat the wanted action again and again etc. So I can't look it up myself. Guess I could google itActually and weirdly, Amalia - I am getting great joy out of the Aldi and Lidl thread - very tongue in cheek humour. I seem to recall that you don’t like to cook but you might enjoy
(despise 1200 kniFes)
Yay!! What a relief... and there’s a few of us, so hopefully we can grab it by it’s door furniture and slam it shut. Thank God we have you, @OopsUnequivocally yes!
I have no idea what is going on on that thread. Some bad karma is there for a while.You are such a supportive rock to all of us @Namima.
As soon as I saw @Miscanthus ‘s post I went to look but it was a few hours too late. She has spoken her truth and dealt with it well. I really feel for her too. As ever @Milking Keynes saw it as it was happening and went in with exactly the right post giving reassurance about how everything went back to normal quickly for her. Then it kicked off again...I read so much sadness and heartbreak there last night. My heart really went out to those who so bravely posted. I do agree with scrolling past as @Miscanthus says (I used to scroll past the dehumanising posts about women’s anatomy because I learned to know who was most likely to make them) but sometimes you have read the post you wish you’d scrolled past and the damage has been done. It’s a hard one. I think it’s so comforting that we support each other though
Er...yes...#metoo...
I was too inspired by it to wait for your review. I've got my "Rat" card ordered and now waiting for its shipment. Great site, IMO!
I might have a think about your health area and try to activate as much as possible there. It is essential to do this with as much kindness as possible because it is one of the greatest kindnesses you can give yourself. You may (in your mind) go back to a time when you were aware of receiving kindness and remember that nice warm feeling and hold that thought uppermost. This can help others too if you can get them to talk about times when they have had those warm feelings caused by kindness. Then maybe do a search on all the things you can do to in your central health area. I won’t list them because it’s so important that the ‘cures’ resonates with you when you do your research. When you find the things that feel right to you that’s the time to apply focus and make any improvements or changes you feel appropriate. I do hope this reply doesn’t come across as too esoteric and that I have described it in a helpful way for you. There is a lot of info out there on the centre of the bagua btw.
Absolutely nothing to worry aboutQuick question @Oops...
Although you can’t see my back door from my front door, you can see part of one of my back windows (a small one), but I never open that window and I keep the blind down.
Is this considered bad chi and if so what can I do to fix it?
In the event you have the tiniest nag about it you could always clap in front of that window to shift the energy if you sense any stagnancy/heaviness in that little part.
She has liked a few posts so she is definitely around x
Damn busicuits..Er...yes...#metoo...
Thank you so much for your response, @Oops. I actually went over to my sister’s house today to discuss this with her. It is so fascinating to me that the energy of your home can disagree with your own energy. I have learnt so much from your comments with regard to the house my father built aligning so perfectly with my own energy and vision for my own home. I felt a weight lifted off me when we moved into this house in 2018. The difference in my outlook, moods and stress levels was unbelievable. The only thing in my life that changed significantly was the house move so it must have been that.I love that post! I love the idea of your dear father building you all a house he designed and I love the idea of you all enjoying it. I remember well you telling me about him and the song that spoke to you that he loved. There are some very good reasons why you loved the seaside house more than the Georgian one...
First of all not only was it designed by your lovely father but it was NEW! Therefore it carried no energy from the past. Secondly, it was filled with light - this is SO important! Thirdly you had views of moving water. Combine them all and you had all the ingredients for a perfect environment!
I have a passion for Georgian properties because of the scale of the rooms and the light and the symmetry. I love symmetry. However, FSM said houses with history are anathema to Feng Shui. He actually told me I have a family of French people living in my wine cellar and they play cards all day. They moved in in late 1700’s he said...He told me to move them on I have to have children playing noisily in the wine cellar. I thought long and hard about that but since I have never seen or heard them and since they don’t bother me at all or cause anything to go wrong (that I am aware of) I would rather they remained; as I hate the thought of displacing them and would worry where they would go. I must say I thought he was a bit bonkers when he said that. Also, the wine cellar and the gym next to it feels lovely (to me). I like the energy of it as it is.
Just to say, energetically - when someone else passes responsibility on to you it is very natural to feel resentment of the extra responsibility - so I get what you say about your mother. I don’t think you resented your mother I think maybe you resented the fact that it put pressure on you. I also understand what you say about the upkeep of old property. It is never ending. My dream at the moment is to have an architect design me a new house of Georgian proportions with everything built into it. It might be hard for me to leave my garden though. If it had sea views and a beach to walk Teddy Bear on I would be delirious. I have been really thinking about this lately. I found a house recently that would be perfect just outside Bath. It’s described in the blurb as a modern masterpiece and it looks Georgian from the outside. However, it is opposite a church and a graveyard. The Church is a poison arrow in FS because of its shape and a graveyard view is a big no no. I lived in Bath years ago and loved it and the house was in a Crescent and had 101 stairs. If I left my phone at the top of the house it might stay there for days because it was such a fag to go back up for it
Talking about corners (this is the second time corners have been mentioned) I thought maybe we could all get our heads together as a group and nominate a day when we could all clap our corners to activate the energy. I haven’t done that in the house I live in now but always used to years ago. In addition we could all get sage and smudge sage in our homes and then if we all did it on the same day we would have a very interesting topic to discuss together. If anyone would like to do that as a group endeavour do say. It might be really good fun and we may all experience some very good energy from it at the same time.
It said;
POLITE NOTICE
Think about the energy when e’er you use this loo
The loo seat’s better down but know it’s always up to you...
