Feng shui

[Oops...]

Just started today off by playing/listening to a little of @PixelGirl Reiki Tibetan singing bowl vid. Its a nice calming sound and Teddy Bear has curled up to listen to it with me.

 

[Geranium]

If you feel near the abyss, I’m here to listen if you need it.

 

[PixelGirl]

Mine is on my laptop on a word document. I just googled pictures I wanted and pasted them onto the document. I made sure to open it and look at it at least once a day. But that's a great idea to put on music while creating it.

I was feeling extremely low last week too. And low in general for entire 2020. It was a not so great year, but I am doing my best to learn from it and move on to create a better version of myself. But I believe things will get better. Reading this thread and learning about all these different techniques to rid of all the negative energy definitely helped me.

You could save your vision board as a screen saver or background so you'd see it every day as you switched on your laptop x

I have silly question about the money toad. I see he does not work on the weekends and I have to turn him. I offten travel for work (in normal times), should I turn him when I leave, as I won't be home to turn him on the weekend?

Just give him time off, doesn't have to be a full weekend or even a weekend, give him a day off in the week. Give him time off that suits your schedule. It should feel easy for you and not a worry that you're doing it wrong x

 

[Oops...]

Thank you so much for your response, @Oops. I actually went over to my sister’s house today to discuss this with her. It is so fascinating to me that the energy of your home can disagree with your own energy. I have learnt so much from your comments with regard to the house my father built aligning so perfectly with my own energy and vision for my own home. I felt a weight lifted off me when we moved into this house in 2018. The difference in my outlook, moods and stress levels was unbelievable. The only thing in my life that changed significantly was the house move so it must have been that.

I just looked at the five elements as I was also very interested in what you said on the other thread earlier today about the changes Lydia is making to her house at a manic speed. The chart clearly illustrates the point you made about fire and wood not being in close proximity. It will be interesting to see that play out as well as the removal of the kitchen door.

I’m also very appreciative of all the other posts and everyone’s stories. Money toad due to be delivered soon. x

I completely agree. Your house move was “like going home” which is clearly what happened in your own energy field. Perfect. I so know exactly the feeling you are talking about. I keep looking on Rightmove to see if the house I grew up in ever comes on the market. I would buy it back in an instant if it ever does. I would not use it as my main home but I have always wanted to have it back and put my own stamp on it. My family think I’m bonkers and don’t understand this at all. It’s just a yearning to replicate a feeling in many ways...

Yes the wood energy is now very heavy there and it‘s in her recognition (and indeed her relationship area) and I’m not too sure how that will pan out. I do have one MAJOR fear for the actual house now but don’t want to write it down and I really want to be wrong. Praying I am.

It came to me today that she seems to have a problem with scale ie the greenhouse and overdoing the wood etc. That greenhouse is lovely as a stand alone item but the look will be spoiled by over scaling elsewhere. This may also be a metaphor for going at things like a bull in a china shop without taking enough time for reflection. Her reflection in her mirror perhaps seems to disable her ability to see the scale of other things around her. Do you get what I mean? So she doesn’t reflect and yet reflects/mirrors herself a good deal. Thus the narrow thinking perhaps. It‘s all very interesting...I suspect she might have a difficult ride ahead...it might ‘whoosh’ in...I wish she would put the door back on - I really do.

 

[Oops...]

Thank you so much dear Oops. This was really kind of you, to look up the book and post a photo of it. I really appreciate all your support.

Especially today, to be honest. Today I had another rubbish day, I am having a tough time at the moment and was fighting my way through the day when I got another bad message.

I felt like I was standing next to an abyss and called my counsellor who thankfully was able to talk to me and I now feel better.
She said that I simply had bad luck for the past couple of years and encouraged me to face things head on as otherwise I will get used to avoiding things that make me feel bad.

So I guess I will have another few weeks of fighting fires ahead of me.

A lot of my problems have to do with money and loss: my former partner tried to rip me off, I received bad advice, was betrayed etc.

So I was hoping that a more positive focus, including taking care of the Feng Shui of my life, could change the tide. I had so many hopes and they had been quashed and ripped out of my hands by misfortune or simply by simply having met the wrong people.

I am not looking to become rich and famous for the sake of it, but would like to be able to have my own home and support my family so that they are comfortable and secure. I hope that I can achieve this in the not too distant future.

Have a nice and relaxing evening

Little thought for bedtime;

You are an unlimited being and as such you can create anything you want. If you can get your hands on this book I PROMISE it will help you to begin the healthy practise of unlimited thinking. It has ‘playsheets’ in it where you can write down everything you need for a blueprint for a much better, healthier way of experiencing your life. My daughter and I were reading what I had written in my book in 1993 today (having dug it out for you) and marvelling that what I wrote in the book happened EXACTLY as I wrote it back then. So living proof exists and I have my beady eye on you
The very fact that you are here on this thread shows me that you have already on some level acknowledged you need to make changes for the better. You have actually taken a giant stride in the right direction even though you may not appreciate that at the moment. Watch what starts to happen with a bit of application - just sayin’ .

 

[PixelGirl]

Such a fascinating thread. What would the solution to this be if I can't move the bed? I have to have it against the wall so the baby doesn't fall out.

Not sure if this will be helpful, just going to read it myself. I have an issue in my bedroom and am wondering what I can do to resolve it. https://fengshuinexus.com/feng-shui-bedroom/feng-shui-bed-placement-rules-conflict-use/

This link is on this page which is interesting, it helps you calculate your kua number https://redlotusletter.com/resources/kua-calculator

There is this link too, I have read through it and it doesn't state about the bed next to the wall, but I remember reading somewhere that there should be space around the bed, just not between the headboard and the wall, that should always be up against the wall.

33 Bedroom Feng Shui Tips to Improve Your Sleep

Find out how your bedroom Feng Shui is affecting your sleep and get 33 tips that can help you fall asleep easier and stay asleep through the night.

fengshuinexus.com

 

[Dobs]

I'm really enjoying this thread, who would have thought from LEM to here eh..! I'm a total newbie but finding everything you're all saying fascinating.

If anyone has any suggestions, I'm soon going to be moving into my first home is there anything in FS that suggest would be helpful for a fresh start to bring good energy in? Or perhaps to clear the air of the previous owners? Thank you so much

 

[Oops...]

can I ask what a clapping is? I need to go back to the start of this thread I think you can raise your frequency by thinking positively, listing things you’re grateful for, journaling, affirmations, being kind to yourself and others, mediating or listening to high frequency music. I listen to some playlists on Spotify at night and they include some of the Tibetan bowl sounds and high frequency music There’s also loads of videos on YouTube with different frequencies for love, anxiety etc

Yes you are bang on right! Great advice. Thank you for putting this up. I listen to a lot of that kind of music too or I just leave it to play in a room I’m not even in...There are lots of different Hertz tones to create many different frequencies. I listened to a lovely one last week with dolphins speaking to each other. They are very healing (IMHO). There’s music for love, opening/healing chakras etc etc - the choice is amazing.

Clapping your corners is a good way of moving stagnant energy from a room. A few of us decided to do it together at the same time last Sunday and have reported some very good results in the energy within themselves and in their homes as a result. You can smudge with sage or you can listen to certain music at the same time. Its a great way to make things around you feel better and then you feel better too. Some of us used it as a reason to space clear our homes prior to clapping so this enhanced the experience. I hope you really enjoy reading some of the earlier posts as there is some really helpful info.

 

[DandyTandy]

What do you ladies do to boost finances. Stability. We can’t seem to hold on to anything. I’d love to hear your experiences

the money toad. The little guy works wonders. We discussed quite a lot of money toads. There're testimonials if you read back in the previous pages. post #66, 160, 215, 216, 266. I think these posts will explain money toad and finding wealth corners in your house.

 

[50sGirl]

Here’s a pic of my protective charm.
I’ve attached it to my house keys so it’s with me when I leave my home.
Tbh I think it is expensive for what it is but perhaps that’s because of the piece of jade.

 

[MissMidnight]

On Lidl thread. Please send help.....

I’m so sorry I didn’t reply to your plea for help earlier @Miscanthus ... I cannot imagine how incredibly difficult it must have been for you to read those comments after going through such a heartbreaking struggle.

I think it took a great deal of courage for you to post about something so personal and painful.

PS: I’m sending lots of love your way!

 

[Libbylulu]

I’ve just given my downstairs lounge/ dining room a good cleaning. I’ve moved some things around and cleared away a lot of clutter, though tbh it wasn’t much and gone quite minimalist. It looks fresh clean and the few things I’ve moved looks nice. While I was doing this the mood on me and my husband was terrible but now we’re done and everything is settled it feels sunny and bright and so do we. It can’t be a coincidence surely.

 

[Oops...]

Apologies for quoting my own post but something dawned on me yesterday.
I lost my Dad earlier this year. We were extremely close and my grief was so raw and hard to deal with. Around the 3 month mark I was finally able to function again. I put it down to the passing of time. Then yesterday I realised the healing began about a week after I bought my protective talisman card and keyring. My protective animal is a rabbit which just happened to be my Dad’s Chinese animal. Perhaps it’s a coincidence that it happened at that time but I’m inclined to believe that my Dad and rabbit are helping me. Tears do still fall pretty much every day but, unless I have a very bad day, the uncontrollable sobbing has stopped. I know Dad is still with me and protecting me.

I think you have stated a very important viewpoint. I am so sorry about your beloved father btw. . When ‘things’ start to change it is very normal to think ‘coincidence’. I was told by my FSM that there is no such thing as coincidence. When my own journey started gathering momentum and ‘things’ started working I eventually grew to expect them to work. They of course carried on working. It is a testament to focus. The availability to channel into this has been there for centuries. I was so happy to read your post and know it will encourage and help most who read here. So thank you for making it. Ask any scientist (particularly the great ones like Tesla and Einstein) and they will all confirm that energy cannot die. Your dear fathers energy is with you. It can’t not be...Keep on with your journey, expanding and refining as you go. Spend a little time every day asking a few more questions and finding out what the specialists ~(of whom there are many on line) advise you to do. It’s important you feel a connection with those you take advice from so if the person on line doesn’t ‘feel’ right to you move on and use the ones that do feel right to you. That makes the energy right for you to trust the person imparting their knowledge to you. It may become a way of life or it may be something you turn to when you need support or a feeling of rescue. I am happy you found this thread and that it has spiked an interest in you that has served you well when you need it to. Its all very symbiotic and wholesome isn’t it?

 

[Oops...]

I do take offence to being called Milton Keynes, however.

@Milking Keynes aka Miss Havisham, Mrs Reticule Bennett, Mrs Archer Karcher and now Milton Keynes. I mean you are just destined for names. It’s your destiny... I once called @Miss Trunchbull, Miss Trunchpole...Trunchy is so much easier for the hard of memory...Anyway - it suits her. Milton Bennett - Oh! Milton Bennett! I can’t find my glasses again...Yep it’s got a definite ring to it

 

[Ef27]

Yes you are bang on right! Great advice. Thank you for putting this up. I listen to a lot of that kind of music too or I just leave it to play in a room I’m not even in...There are lots of different Hertz tones to create many different frequencies. I listened to a lovely one last week with dolphins speaking to each other. They are very healing (IMHO). There’s music for love, opening/healing chakras etc etc - the choice is amazing.

Clapping your corners is a good way of moving stagnant energy from a room. A few of us decided to do it together at the same time last Sunday and have reported some very good results in the energy within themselves and in their homes as a result. You can smudge with sage or you can listen to certain music at the same time. Its a great way to make things around you feel better and then you feel better too. Some of us used it as a reason to space clear our homes prior to clapping so this enhanced the experience. I hope you really enjoy reading some of the earlier posts as there is some really helpful info.

It’s easier said than done raising your frequency/vibration. I’ve had a few days where I just want to feel angry/sad or negative especially in lockdown but these things have helped me

Thank you

Yeah I definitely will read through it all, I love this thread everyone is so positive I swear all my friends would think I’m crazy doing all this stuff

I saged my house on the full moon and left out my crystals but I might try and focus on corners next time and play some healing music too

Definitely will look in to some recommendations mentioned above also like the money toad, I have an obsession with that kind of stuff

 

[Oops...]

Just putting this post here because I want to be a Telly Pathy too...

Can I be La La please?

 

[Milking Keynes]

Not sure if this will be helpful, just going to read it myself. I have an issue in my bedroom and am wondering what I can do to resolve it. https://fengshuinexus.com/feng-shui-bedroom/feng-shui-bed-placement-rules-conflict-use/

This link is on this page which is interesting, it helps you calculate your kua number https://redlotusletter.com/resources/kua-calculator

There is this link too, I have read through it and it doesn't state about the bed next to the wall, but I remember reading somewhere that there should be space around the bed, just not between the headboard and the wall, that should always be up against the wall.

33 Bedroom Feng Shui Tips to Improve Your Sleep

Find out how your bedroom Feng Shui is affecting your sleep and get 33 tips that can help you fall asleep easier and stay asleep through the night.

fengshuinexus.com

What an interesting article. I do most of this - purely by chance. The blackout blinds (with sheer curtains on tie -backs), no tv n the bedroom actually ever in my life, no green plants - but never knew that they were bad - in the bedroom, calming interior paint and artwork, and pretty much all of the bed/furniture placings. I am a minimalist which really helps my peace of mind; zero clutter.

I think I have often thought of my interior style as a bit sterile so I decided to introduce one or two antique pieces (inherited) into each room some years ago and it has really helped to reconcile the past and the present for me in terms of interior design, but on my terms - I know that sounds weird but you have to find your own comfortable place, don’t you and it is so personal.

 

[PixelGirl]

Thinking about what you've said @Oops... about screens and front doors, I wonder if you had a curtain over the front door on the inside, would be thermally sound, plus would it stop the energy leaving the house, thinking thick velvet curtain here? Also, regarding the beams that @BeccaBanana mentioned, would the beams be less imposing if they were painted the same colour as the ceiling, would the 'weight' of them disappearing have a more positive effect?

NO! Beams are bad? I pine for beams, and dream of moving to England and having an old house dripping with beams. Curiously, my English MIL always says she would never buy a house that had beams in the bedrooms, or sloped ceilings, and I just thought her eccentric.

We do, do eccentric really rather well here LOL

 

[Namima]

I tried on the other thread to address matters but they were deleted. I feel very upset about what happened yesterday to our beloved @Oops.

Your posts were deleted ? Wow. And Oops addressed the matter in a really non-confrontational polite manner, to the point. Things just went sideways.

 

[Oops...]

I’ve just given my downstairs lounge/ dining room a good cleaning. I’ve moved some things around and cleared away a lot of clutter, though tbh it wasn’t much and gone quite minimalist. It looks fresh clean and the few things I’ve moved looks nice. While I was doing this the mood on me and my husband was terrible but now we’re done and everything is settled it feels sunny and bright and so do we. It can’t be a coincidence surely.

Your post triggered some very happy memories for me. It reminded me that my mother always spring-cleaned before Christmas (She always said she wanted everything ‘nice’ for the festive season). She would start at the top of the house and work down to the cellar. It would take her a week or so to do it all. Every cupboard and every drawer, every ceiling every floor, windows, paintwork - rugs cleaned with ‘1001‘ everything polished until it gleamed - just everything. I have never forgotten how lovely our house felt after she had finished. The excitement for Christmas always started with her spring-clean. I just loved it. Then the baking would start...

Does anyone has a tip how to clean a place from bad energy without painting and moving furniture? It is a hotel, so it is not an option. I was thinking about maybe flowers would help.
I personally do not believe in ghost, but there was a guy who came and cleaned them, but I think nothing changed. The place is generally great, but there is some part with few rooms which has a bad vibe. Others swears for ghost. For me it is somehow creepy quiet. It is not because of how it is built, because all the rooms are on the same side. But in these "bad" rooms, I can't really explain it, but you can hear the cars less(?) and it has a heavy feeling. Every time I leave this part and step over the hallway door I feel relief, and feel alive!

Just had a further think on your post and I was wondering if the energy smog you can sense might be coming from underground (older pipe work/sewers etc) I know you said the rooms are all on the same side - that may have an effect sometimes.