When I suffered all my miscarriages and dealt with multiple IVF failures I turned to my friends and family and they were there to support and listen to me endlessly because that’s they do. When I brought home a living, breathing child, I didn’t text, i didn’t ring. I didn’t stop people coming if they wanted to even the same day I’d had him. I didn’t want a fuss I just wanted to feel his weight on me and smell his head. For months. And my friends and family were totally on board with that.
I also didn’t do that really bleeping irritating thing where people bring their fresh out of the womb children into work for everyone to gawp at. And since Elle’s job is Instagram as so many of you from the witch club have pointed out, all she’s done is not done the really bleeping irritating thing of ‘took her child into work’ - ie plastered across Instagram.