You know how they say “ go with your first gut instinct “ well as I went on watching Asa my first impression was that he was a Beedy eyed sneaky weasel! And yep I was right!
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I’m sure you’re right about the other parents. It’s clear that Abbie is IDD and I find it odd that they never talk about what her “real age” might be. I mean don’t the doctors tell you your child is at this or that level? Honest question,
I didn’t like how he handled that kid either. Your assessment seems about right regarding how they play with her. Remember that vlog where there were other kids in the house playing with Abbie and she pushed the one kid onto the ground from his neck? I was like whoa.
I totally noticed the lady bringing Abbie to the car too! She was not having it.
Also noticed the surgery isn’t working anymore! Lol I love how she always shows her food portions but half the time it’s still junk that she eats like all the time. Taking a neighborhood stroll is hardly a workout either.
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Personal opinion on “other child”. Instead of bringing home a new puppy,which it looks like right off the bat has cost them some monies to treat whatever is ailing him,maybe those monies and that effort may have been better spent on child support or maybe even having a meet w said daughter.
Granted,said daughter may not want that as she is old enough to make up her mind at this point in time,but why not attempt to reach out?
As for the length of time it took to get child support, a good deal of times it can be an uphill battle. Many hoops to jump through even when other parent is known,available.
Maybe,just maybe,instead of buying new gadgets,eating out so often,etc those monies can go into a separate trust for that daughter for later in life.
Watched latest video re: puppy homecoming and while am happy pup is going to be okay from sound of it, the gushing,the “Am going to cry” etc was a bit nauseating. If one can show that much empathy towards a pet,why not the same for a child who was,through no fault of her own,born and grew up without her father?
No,I don’t know all of the details,nor do I care too. But from what has been put forward this week by both of them, looking in from the outside it does appear it’s now back on the proverbial shelf,and case closed. (Again,do not know all details)
Am sure by this point in time,or fairly soon,other child will come across those videos,vlogs,etc and while she may have had the very best care and love,that little doubt will come across,wondering why she was cast aside.
Granted,said daughter may not want that as she is old enough to make up her mind at this point in time,but why not attempt to reach out?
As for the length of time it took to get child support, a good deal of times it can be an uphill battle. Many hoops to jump through even when other parent is known,available.
Maybe,just maybe,instead of buying new gadgets,eating out so often,etc those monies can go into a separate trust for that daughter for later in life.
Watched latest video re: puppy homecoming and while am happy pup is going to be okay from sound of it, the gushing,the “Am going to cry” etc was a bit nauseating. If one can show that much empathy towards a pet,why not the same for a child who was,through no fault of her own,born and grew up without her father?
No,I don’t know all of the details,nor do I care too. But from what has been put forward this week by both of them, looking in from the outside it does appear it’s now back on the proverbial shelf,and case closed. (Again,do not know all details)
Am sure by this point in time,or fairly soon,other child will come across those videos,vlogs,etc and while she may have had the very best care and love,that little doubt will come across,wondering why she was cast aside.
Y’all! Let me just say this- if I were one of the paying passengers on that boat and was subjected to her yelling, clapping, whining, etc... and then had to be stuck on the boat with a deck covered in her diarrhea, I’d have FREAKED TF OUT!!!! It’s just not right for these people to ruin everyone else’s time every time they decide to take her out! I would also have demanded a full refund for that boat ride as well as that poor guy in the seat in front of Abby on that plane!!! They need to face facts- she’s profoundly ******** and autism is the least of her problems. Hell, I don’t think she has any idea where she is or what’s going on at any given moment. She’s like an infant in every way. They need to be considerate of others and leave her home. It’s not as if they don’t have ample people to watch her..... Also want to add that Asa said in one video that he was hiring a management company because he believes in hiring people to do what he’s not good at.... yeah, we know Asa. That’s quite evident in how you hired Summer, Becca, Crazy Nanny, (plus all the free labor they squeeze out of poor Isaiah) And let’s not forget the $40K/year daycare she goes to compliments of the taxpayers!! He’s hiring people to hang out with his daughter cuz he, (and especially Priss) don’t want to deal with her.
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I know this is probably petty but.....it really bugs me while watching their vlogs, she is late for school almost Every. Single. Day. I always want to yell at the screen at him to put the damn camera down, quit talking, get that child in the car and get her to school! Being tardy everyday disrupts the teachers routine. And we get it, you’re going to Dunkin on the way home. Every. Day. Am I being petty?
Abby has been on anti psychotic meds for years I believe Geodon was the last one Assa mentioned. Someone correct me if that wasn't the latest. Watch the video Assa did with her speech pathologist-Abby is physically unable to speak as well as the other stuff. They don't think she ever will but they work to stengthen her muscles etc. In fact this is one of the few things I think they do right-not forcing a person who is physically unable to speak to speak. They seem to force her into complying with most everything else.
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And noticed how completely sun damaged her neck and chest is. ??? THIS woman sells more beauty products than anyone in the world?! Get out! She's a crummy mother, an embarrassment, isn't SHE embarrassed by her husband's behavior??! I only hope that when Isaiah leaves for College, he just lives with Asas' mother and they write a book!! Or, expose all of it! Get his money and disappear. I can't imagine this ending any better.
. They were swimming far out in the ocean and the tour people didn't want to bring Abbie. She made them very nervous by continuing looking up, moaning, nodding at nothing. They didn't want her in the boat. Asa convinced them that it was just Autism. When the tour was over and all the people in the boat were danving, Abbie had explosive diarrhea all over the boat. Asa said they had to "get a hose". If I had been on that boat? They would have paid for my trip. An adult having explosive diarrhea all over all those people. She never should have been allowed on that boat.
Ugh.
I just threw up in my mouth a little. That's exactly what happened. Out to dinner Every night. I wonder if the bastard child that did not hit the lottery by having autism, has a warm house? A better mother than PrisZilla, hopefully. I saw her "filming" yesterday about Self Love! Yeah Girl! Get it! Go girlfriend!! Sickening.
And noticed how completely sun damaged her neck and chest is. ??? THIS woman sells more beauty products than anyone in the world?! Get out! She's a crummy mother, an embarrassment, isn't SHE embarrassed by her husband's behavior??! I only hope that when Isaiah leaves for College, he just lives with Asas' mother and they write a book!! Or, expose all of it! Get his money and disappear. I can't imagine this ending any better.
You have to remember we are talking about Asa,, he feels like its his world and we are all just living in it.
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. Every. Day.. It's because, they're better than the other parents. Hey, they get a lot of exposure because of the MAASSSQUAD, ha...they think that instead of learning about dressing at school, she should be CREDITED for doing it at home. I'm the morning. so, they are late. I seriously hope JSA makes Abigail leave. These people are a distraction to the school. Abbie is NOT a celebrity! She is just the WORST case. So it's doves and roses when she ISN'T because obnoxious and feral. I think she's completely nasty. And Mean. Spoiled.hey!
Remember the video when Isaiah was trying out for football? P dropped him off and said “ you HAVE to win” not do your best son...HAVE to
Maybe THAT'S WHY Priscilla doesn't have a wedding ring!!! Remember they told this huge story about how it went down the drain or something and that she wanted him to buy another one!? Wow. How sickening that they are So big on family and what's right and Priscilla actually saying that A needs to keep her dignigty!!! They put her on camera and laugh!! That he's all about family and there is a kid out there who can turn on YT and see his family!! Shame on them.
I totally get where you’re coming from. I feel the same way. It’s hard enough to raise normal kids who love you back. I can’t imagine bonding in any sort of meaningful way with a kid like Ab. They tell her they love her and she just stares off into space with a blank look on her face. She has zero concept of love. Add to that, the constant screaming, clapping, fits, etc... I just wouldn’t be able to handle it at all. I’m glad there are people in this world who can do this but I’m not one of them.
This will be long. So many great comments to respond to! So, in no order, here are some of my thoughts and opinions.
1- The puppy is a guilt gift from Asa. In the boo-hoo video he made a point of saying the situation has been escalating behind the scenes and Cilla had been crying daily. Instead of flowers or jewelry, he got the puppy she had been wanting.
2- Someone mentioned Abbie may be having hormonal issues...and IMO..thank god for them. I had severe ADHD as a child. This was the early 70's when it was simply "hyperactivity". I was put on Ritalin which frankly saved me and my poor mother. I destroyed our home, never slept, and there is no way I could ever have gotten an education. But the ONE thing my mother has told me that our doctor and psychologist always told her when I hit puberty my behaviors would improve. And they did. Improvements started immediately at 12. By 14 I was "normal", and off Ritalin by 17. It makes me think, because 2 years ago Abbie was aggressively ohysically attacking Cilla and also harmimg herself. Her meltdowns were more frequent and much harder to manage. I think puberty has helped ease some of that. Again, IMO.
3- This one may stir the pot, so sorry in advance, but I am pro ABA. If ABA is abuse guess what? All parents of NT children are abusive too. We potty train. Teach them how to dress. Clean rooms. Do chores. Go to school. Manners. Responsibility. Everything that we as do parents is ABA. I mean, NT kids dont care about potty training or learning to use a spoon properly, they just want to play and "be happy" too, crappy pants and all. We cant do that. While I get Autism is a disorder and makes some things difficult and uncomfortable there is no other answer. If there is, what is it? The parents, teachers and rest of the world should be subjected to whatever makes that individual "happy". I will give them (Maass') credit and say it does appear that they do try to keep her ABA as loose as possible for her comfort....but then it becomes almost too loose...and here she is, knocking on 15 still snatching food, pinching, melting down, and zero "social" skills. And due to IDD she will obviously never be high functioning, but after almost 3 years of watching it is clear that Brandy is excellent at what she does and was able to communicate effectively with Abbie. If they really allowed Brandy to do her job from the begining and stayed consistent I bet she would be a lot better off today.
1- The puppy is a guilt gift from Asa. In the boo-hoo video he made a point of saying the situation has been escalating behind the scenes and Cilla had been crying daily. Instead of flowers or jewelry, he got the puppy she had been wanting.
2- Someone mentioned Abbie may be having hormonal issues...and IMO..thank god for them. I had severe ADHD as a child. This was the early 70's when it was simply "hyperactivity". I was put on Ritalin which frankly saved me and my poor mother. I destroyed our home, never slept, and there is no way I could ever have gotten an education. But the ONE thing my mother has told me that our doctor and psychologist always told her when I hit puberty my behaviors would improve. And they did. Improvements started immediately at 12. By 14 I was "normal", and off Ritalin by 17. It makes me think, because 2 years ago Abbie was aggressively ohysically attacking Cilla and also harmimg herself. Her meltdowns were more frequent and much harder to manage. I think puberty has helped ease some of that. Again, IMO.
3- This one may stir the pot, so sorry in advance, but I am pro ABA. If ABA is abuse guess what? All parents of NT children are abusive too. We potty train. Teach them how to dress. Clean rooms. Do chores. Go to school. Manners. Responsibility. Everything that we as do parents is ABA. I mean, NT kids dont care about potty training or learning to use a spoon properly, they just want to play and "be happy" too, crappy pants and all. We cant do that. While I get Autism is a disorder and makes some things difficult and uncomfortable there is no other answer. If there is, what is it? The parents, teachers and rest of the world should be subjected to whatever makes that individual "happy". I will give them (Maass') credit and say it does appear that they do try to keep her ABA as loose as possible for her comfort....but then it becomes almost too loose...and here she is, knocking on 15 still snatching food, pinching, melting down, and zero "social" skills. And due to IDD she will obviously never be high functioning, but after almost 3 years of watching it is clear that Brandy is excellent at what she does and was able to communicate effectively with Abbie. If they really allowed Brandy to do her job from the begining and stayed consistent I bet she would be a lot better off today.
I have mentioned this same thing before, I don't think it's petty to feel that way. As a person who worked on schedule, people that are late throws your entire day off. Late people were the bane of my existence on many days. I had a 45 min per patient schedule. If someone comes in 15 min late, where are you going to make up that time? At your lunch or the end of the day, and everyone that comes in on time behind you, now has to wait. AARRRGGG #glad to be retired
With them at school, someone has to come out and get her, she comes into the room where the day is already started and it probably disrupts the flow for the kids as well as the teachers. It is rude, inconsiderate and shows how self entitled he thinks he is.
That was my first impression, too... exactly! Like the kind of used car salesman everyone would have warned me to stay away from when I got my first car. Sneaky, slimy, and dishonest.I could totally love her if she was my child, no matter what. I do think she is comfortable with some people over others and she does have some feelings, she shows them.
I do feel however with a child like Abbie, some quiet living space would have been better for her. This constant having a houseful of people, going all these crowded, loud places. I would have made a comfortable, quiet, more zen like home and tried to replace the yelling and clapping stims with a Yoga position, humming, calming music (instead of rap or whatever tit they listen to) or something along those lines. If she lives in chaos, she will behave that way, chaotic. Even severely mentally disabled kids will learn what they live.
I also think a large fish tank would have been much better to have than a kitten and puppy.
But...she ain't my kid so it's just my opinion.
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. Every. Day.. It's because, they're better than the other parents. Hey, they get a lot of exposure because of the MAASSSQUAD, ha...they think that instead of learning about dressing at school, she should be CREDITED for doing it at home. In the morning. so, they are late. I seriously hope JSA makes Abigail leave. These people are a distraction to the school. Abbie is NOT a celebrity! She is just the WORST case. So it's doves and roses when she ISN'T being obnoxious and feral. I think she's completely nasty. And Mean. Spoiled.
According to that video she IS physically able to speak, which is why she has the therapy to keep her muscles strong.
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