I couldn’t agree with you more! I had to move two of my kids in by myself because my hubby was an expat living abroad...omg, it‘s exhausting! I think just him and his dad should go So there aren’t any distractions, and staying a week? I had to stay overnight and I didn’t want to do that. His mom could go at another time to see the dorm, but move in day is riddled with nervous freshman, anxious parents, heat, confusion, moving in and up and down steps or waiting around for elevators...omg, not a good time to take Abbie there, I’m sorry.