Fathering Autism #4 BabyMama wants her dues, autism being used

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Regarding using a handicapped restroom or stall. I was in a car accident where I broke a vertebra, ankle, upper leg, and arm. Since then I use a grab bar to stand up after using the bathroom. It hurts to stand up on my own and my balance isn't quite right. I'm okay walking around. Changing from standing to sitting is sketchy. It may get better, it may not. I look fine. You just don't know by looking at someone what they may be dealing with.
 
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Regarding using a handicapped restroom or stall. I was in a car accident where I broke a vertebra, ankle, upper leg, and arm. Since then I use a grab bar to stand up after using the bathroom. It hurts to stand up on my own and my balance isn't quite right. I'm okay walking around. Changing from standing to sitting is sketchy. It may get better, it may not. I look fine. You just don't know by looking at someone what they may be dealing with.
exactly!! and in addition to all these invisible physical injuries that could cause someone to use another restroom, there are a myriad of other unseen problems that may impact someone. anything from developmental delays to severe anxiety or PTSD - why would he, of all people, supposedly mr. advocate, assume that someone is just trying to skip a line?
 
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exactly!! and in addition to all these invisible physical injuries that could cause someone to use another restroom, there are a myriad of other unseen problems that may impact someone. anything from developmental delays to severe anxiety or PTSD - why would he, of all people, supposedly mr. advocate, assume that someone is just trying to skip a line?
He thinks he's an advocate, the only thing he advocates on is how to fix drones, getting new flooring, house, furniture, cars and most importantly lying.

The man can act, I'll give him that. He acts like a good wholesome family man all whilst taking $ from unsuspecting people in a vulnerable position, for example parents of a newly diagnosed kids.

I'm waiting on the day they make a vlog or live addressing the "trolls" (aka people telling the truth), and "garbage people spreading lies and gossip". There will only be so much he can take without addressing it directly. Hope he's laying there at night mulling over it all.
 
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Btw again rules don't apply to him.....

Disney's website
"Selfie sticks, hand-held extension poles for cameras or mobile devices, are not allowed in any theme park"


 
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Maybe I just think differently but there is no way on God’s green earth I would have taken any of these kids to Disney. Poor Ella looked so miserable. Abby is just so delayed she doesn’t know whats going on around her and the other little girl seemed so out of it. Just seems that this would not be enjoyable for them but maybe I just don’t understand their degrees of autism. It’s hard enough taking young kids to Disney who have no disabilities. I live about 30 min from Disneyland and always took my kids when they were younger but was sometimes challenging and they had no disabilities. Priscilla just needs to suck it up and stop complaining about the DAS there. Obviously you bring 18 people with all kids involved having disabilities and its not going to be a picnic. Like I said maybe It’s just me but this was a dumb idea. Hope I didn’t offend anyone but I just don’t understand the need to take these kids places that stress them out more.
 
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I agree, I think kids and adults like Abbie are often underestimated in their ability to understand things. She does appear to understand basic instructions, she can misinterpret certain things as most autistics do, but on the whole, she's a good listener. I definitely think she's not being given the correct help to fulfill her potential. I think she needs encouraged with the abilities that she has, that way she will either maintain or increase her abilities. Abbie does have a voice, just not a verbal one and often when she's' trying to communicate she's being ignored and misinterpreted. A&P need to do a lot of work to understand nuances involved and look at everything to do with autism outside of the basic things; sensory etc.



That person commenting has no idea about the autistic community. Most of us have no problem with people knowing we are autistic. Generally speaking, the autistic community (at least online) embrace our identities. It's not a disease, but it is intrinsically a part of who we are whilst acknowledging the difficulties we can encounter.

EDIT: Just noticed that person that commented is same age as Abbie (14) so I can forgive them for their comment.

EDIT2: Though that person is right! They do exploit her. I just disagree with the first part of their comment slightly just for the autistic community as a whole, but most of us aren't exploited online by our parents. It's funny they've been told they are disgusting by a kid.
Thank you, as an autistic I agree with your take of what they said!
 
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I feel like Becca had to be with the Brazee kid because her parents wouldn’t fit on any rides, so they need someone to go with her. Amusement park rides are not designed for 300+ lb people. Same goes for assa and pigcilla, they probably didn’t fit on some of the rides either. And I have my doubts that Abby needed a wheelchair. I feel like they did it to look more disabled for more special treatment. I watched some of the Brazee beasts vlog and that poor child looked miserable the whole time. It was a giant spectacle of a day for all of them, it wasn’t about the kids having fun.
I’m plus size (and working on it). Disney rides are super accommodating - definitely they all would have fit. It’s Universal (Harry Potter in particular) that gets people. So if you are “Pooh sized” don’t be afraid to visit Disney!
 
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OMG!!! P is going to write Disney about how it is confusing entering the rides with DAS.. Seriously? Does she know that they already have a full panel of parents, educators, Moms, etc. on a panel that have addressed this and Disney has stated that it is part of the park!! This is the reason most Autism families stay far away from Disney!! The sensory alone going into the rides is way too much!!! It isn’t Disney’s fault and you can’t ask them to conform it to you!!
I was confused about that too. It’s not a “great” place for autism. My fam member went into hysterical screaming at age 4 when we entered Magic Kingdom around the same time a parade was happening. Ella kept repeating that she wanted to go home. (sorry if already mentioned)
 
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Btw again rules don't apply to him.....

Disney's website
"Selfie sticks, hand-held extension poles for cameras or mobile devices, are not allowed in any theme park"


I’m blocked ! I’d love to hear his excuse for breaking the rules ! Unbelievable! Has absolutely no regard for rules ! Someone needs to post the rules and say “ who did you see to get permission I’d like to film my vacation as well “? Guaranteed he would delete !
 
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Amazingly, I'm not blocked yet. I'm laying low and hoping they go live again. 😁
Of course the rules don't apply to Florida Man or P. He probably told Disney he's filming a documentary and has already one several major awards. And P is allowed to take her eyes off the road when driving. She has a VIP job at Limelife.

(Total aside. Car was towed on Monday. I went to the DMV yesterday and also took it off our car insurance. I adulted this week.)
 
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I see Asa mentioned the reason Abbie signs "bathroom" so often is because the bathroom is quiet and away from all the noise. You need a sign to know she doesn't want to be there? Well...that is it!
 
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I see Asa mentioned the reason Abbie signs "bathroom" so often is because the bathroom is quite and away from all the noise. You need a sign to know she doesn't want to be there? Well...that is it!
It seemed like it was just the parents enjoying themselves.. they had all the respite so they were free to enjoy themselves. All the kids were being filmed all day pretty much looking miserable. Who was Disneyland really for?
 
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I'd like to know how he got that damn 360 stick though security AND the fact that he was using it on a roller coaster was the most idiotic thing I've seen. All he needed was to raise it too high and it hit and ricochet off one of the rocks. Everything he does never considers the safety of others. Hes too damn worried about getting the best shot for content.

I was already annoyed starting this video off with P on a high horse talking about how shes going to email Disney. You know she'll mention at some point "we have a large following on youtube". Everything with Disney takes time. Its not a "fast" place therefore knowing your trying to get a huge group of people signed up to use DAS, you should have you wait time expectation already set high but because they think they should get royal treatment shes annoyed. Honestly I'm surprised they didn't pay to have the cast member escort their party though the park so they could have a VIP treatment.
 
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I'm not surprised about the Brazee kid wanting to go home. When I used to watch Lauren's vlog, I noticed how miserable that kid was 24/7. Both of those parents walk on egg shells around her and baby her way too much. Ella could perhaps be on the spectrum but I honestly think that most of the problem is that she is a spoiled undisciplined brat. I had to say it.
I also notice how the only mom in that group who showed genuine love to their kid was Stacey from the Wee family. She is the only mature one. She doesn't really interact much with P or Lauren. I bet she sees right through them.
P...you are way too phony for me to stomach.
 
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Abbie loves to swim and loves that pool! I don't get why it isn't cleaned up and the heater turned on? They could all exercise and Abbie could enjoy herself.
 
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