whatamidoinghere
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Summer's goodbye hug and kiss with Abbie made me incredibly uncomfortable.
I came here to post that exact screen shot of her hands on her butt. That’s not a normal hug. WtfSummer's goodbye hug and kiss with Abbie made me incredibly uncomfortable.
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I think I’ve mentioned this in here before but, I have hydrocephalus (a genetic disorder). I’ve had it since I was in utero. My parents were always told that if they had boys, one most likely would have hydro. Hello, here I am. My older brother (by 26 months and 7 days is healthy) they were told I’d be blind, couldn’t walk or talk and basically I’d be a piece of flesh. that assessment sent my father into a rage that he just could not accept. My parents worked very hard to give me the best life possible while raising 4 other kids at the same time. They sacrificed a lot. I think my father would have done anything to change the life I had growing up. He always had a hard time accepting my limitations and therefore didn’t teach me things I would need to succeed later in life. ( I learned by sitting on the sidelines watching him instead of hand over hand instruction). as my need for less brain surgeries over the years continued, my ability to do more increased. HS grad, associates degree, bachelor’s degree, learned to drive ( all things doctors said would be impossible for me). my biggest fear when I got married and had a child was that my child would have the same genetic disorder. Nope, he’s a happy thriving 9 yr old who’s loud as all get out ( loud noises drive me nuts as it’s part of my PTSD from being in a garage fire when I was 7).Well done for saying that. I can’t believe it when people say they wouldn’t change their kids with disabilities, why would anyone not want the very best life for their children. Who would want their children to struggle on a daily basis when they could lead a much easier life. In my opinion it’s a selfish thing to say, look at Abbie, why would a parent want their child to be like that if they could change it.
Oh I call BS.
She said she had the gastric sleeve that made her stomach the size of a banana. Unfortunately now her stomach is the size of a banana tree.As long as she is paying cash for it, she can have what she wants. An insurance company is the one that wants to make sure the person is ready and that they don't have to keep paying for their failures down the road. Since her insurance isn't paying, the surgeon could care less as long as he gets his $$$
Hmmmm....
Hmmmm....
I could be wrong, but I thought she had the sleeve.
THIS!Isaiah has no obligation to take care of Abbie. Shes not his child. If he chooses to care for her, fine. If he doesnt, also fine. He deserves a life, a career and a family of his own.
How can they afford a boat, aren’t they expensive. I think him saying she is looking at a boy on her phone is bullshit, they are so desperate for her to be a regular teen, she isn’t and never will be.Facebook words of wisdom...
Also, this scared me a little.
He must be missing Summer. Gotta watch old videos of her while she is gone. That's a bit on the Creeper side Ass...So, Ass has resulted in reposting old vlogs for interaction on his page. Fine, whatever. But how the hell are they getting that many views? I have a mental picture of every single device in that house looping the video repeatedly to rack up views and $$$.
I was thinking that for a long time, but didn't have anything substantial to back it up. The vlogs that showed them coming home were somewhat random and far and few between and every instance when they did show it, it could be chalked up to something else.Oh yes! Definitely!
Which is absolutely a red flag that something is going on at home... I’m sorry and I try to be more diplomatic and never want to throw out any kind of alarm but gosh.. Abbie perks up when anyone comes over, she wants to always “go” and throws tantrums and gets upset when things are done or they are almost home. They have said constantly, she knows when they get off the interstate near their house...
I remember going through that age for a few months with mine but Abbie seems to be stuck on this for a long time... Do you think she is just tired of people not listening to her?
I’ve been very quiet lately but I cannot let this one slide. My IDD NOS son is my child, not my other children’s responsibility. Before it gets to the point of needing to place him, we are actively looking into places where he can live and thrive. He is not now, nor will he ever be, the responsibility of my other children. Just like Abbie should never be Isaiahs responsibility. He is her brother NOT her parent/ guardian. And yes, my son will be under a guardianship after I can no longer be his advocate. It will not fall onto just one of my other kids. Two of them have signed paperwork through our attorney. Assuming the care of a sibling is a big deal and not a burden.What blows my mind is that Isaiah is focusing on a career based around autism. Yet when his parents pass away, he'll throw Abbie in a facility instead of having her live with him. This is beyond cruel and shows what a spineless POS he is.
I can't speak for everyone but I go off of evidence that they themselves put out in their vlogs.I mean think about it - just yesterday, people on here were saying that Abbie doesn’t eat enough and that’s why she’s skinny! LMAO ... seriously? Anyone who watches knows she eats all day everyday to the point that it’s disgusting to watch ( for me at least)... idk about how much y’all eat ... but damn. People talking about “they restrict her food” yeah ... we’ve all seen that, and they need to do it. I’ve been reading here for a while - one minute you all want to say she’s an overfed feral, and next thing you know, she’s food deprived. Ok.