I feel the same way. I see comments made towards Abbie that are vicious, cruel, and unwarranted. Also, as you say, some members seem to have this great dislike for Abbie. To be clear - there is a difference between not liking the things she does - and not liking her. I see some members commenting as if Abbie knows better or as if she's NT so therefore it's extra aggravating when she does or doesn't do certain things. In one breath they say she isn't smart enough to know the difference between red or blue, then in the next breath imply that she IS smart enough to be manipulative, devious, conniving, unhappy unless she's the center of attention and will do anything to be the center of attention and so on.
Disparaging and berating Abbie for things that she can't help and are beyond her control is just plain wrong. Calling her names is wrong. Attacking her as if she knows better but is just choosing to be a 'monster' is wrong.
This is my opinion of course - before anyone accuses me of trying to "censor" them. You share how you feel, I'm sharing how I feel.
As I've said before, go after Asa and Priscilla. They are the consenting grown adults who can be held accountable.