Fathering Autism #27 Lies, fake tears & flaunting. Look both ways and keep honking!

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Wow! Casinos aren’t even open yet here on the east coast (well New Jersey) movie theatre’s are so far from opening, summer camps aren’t starting till the 22nd, u can’t go in a store without a mask, most places are curbside pickups, the only freedom we have is on the beach, which I’ve been to a lot bc I work in a casino and still no word when their opening, we have 8 all within 5,10 mins of each other...isn’t it odd how we can all be so different in the same country?



Totally agree, she will def be in a care facility if Isaiah doesn’t take her
Cilla would go crazy if she lived in NJ.
She would constantly be whining or should I say more than she usually does
I'm in Central NJ so no beach for me 😫.
 
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Again, I think I remember reading (on the green fruit site) that because DD is a family friendly based enterprise, that it wouldn’t be a good ‘look’ to sponsor them because of the type of offences that are in public knowledge, such as the burglary, writing bad cheques, b&e etc, so that’s why they sponsored the JSA bus instead.
 
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oh I know you were joking but I wasn't lol. Last year the whole family went.
I was about to write saying I was joking too. Lol. Just the thought of her going was so hilarious that I could not help myself. Scream bday fest. I’m actually really surprised that they didn’t think of making it vlog content even if it was for an hour.
 
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Ok. Thats pretty much what I just said lol.
Caffeine is a substance and yes can cause dependence.
Food is needed to live but people who overeat are not eating salads. It is not the food. It is the behavior.
Dopamine: anything pleasurable releases dopamine. Thats why we feel happy, but not everyone struggles with addiction or behavioral issues.
Thats all. :)
Ex cig smoker over here. Got tired of people asking why I smoke and also looking at myself everyday being a smoker. Not gonna lie, I’m vain and smoked to control my appetite... until I learned that appetite suppression can come naturally if you train yourself and your body the right way. Early 30s and I just want a long life, ya know ... in no way can I even imagine eating like these fools though. The amount of calories they take in is crazy and that is from what they show us. Imagine what they don’t show us. There’s gotta be a whole lot of eating in that damn house. It’s to the point where they have to go to the store. Lol. My BF and I just do prime and we live with one order for two weeks... and our groceries look nothing like the Massive groceries.

I don’t see a that big of a difference from there to her trip to Mexico...see what happens when you aren’t wearing spanks. Just her face seems thinner
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Her legs need spanks. Good lord. Sorry in advance to everyone or anyone that may get offended by me fat shaming this witch.
 
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Wow! Casinos aren’t even open yet here on the east coast (well New Jersey) movie theatre’s are so far from opening, summer camps aren’t starting till the 22nd, u can’t go in a store without a mask, most places are curbside pickups, the only freedom we have is on the beach, which I’ve been to a lot bc I work in a casino and still no word when their opening, we have 8 all within 5,10 mins of each other...isn’t it odd how we can all be so different in the same country?



Totally agree, she will def be in a care facility if Isaiah doesn’t take her
It depends on how money hungry each state is. Nothing is reflective of the covid spread... that’s why it’s weird for me to hear people saying things like “oh our state is reopened” People going out to restaurants and bars while their parks are still closed. Sorry, but ...If you do that then you’re dumb.

Who else hates the sight of their 1960s bed? With the poles? My God these people try so hard that it just shows how trashy they are. They think it’s the classiest thing in the world as far as beds go.
 
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Yep...all true.
I have a double whammy when I make fun of P.
One, I was obese myself for about 6 years. So I know all the feelings.
Two, I am an LSW and an LCDC. (Licensed chemical dependency counselor) so I know how difficult and harmful it is.
I am not a "embrace your body" person.
Someone may be happy they're fat for a while but that doesn't last forever, not should we encourage people to continue to harm themselves in the name of confidence.
Imagine saying "Susie shoots up every four hours but she's happy!''
Anyway. Personally and professionally I see P. She isn't happy. Wasn't happy. She was lying and hiding behind false confidence and bravado. That's why she got surgery. Hoped for a quick fix. She needs counseling. I'm a counselor and got counseling lol. Hopefully she will.
I have gained weight over the last 10 years due to being in bed most of the time, so no exercise I have a sweet tooth and my medication . I used to weigh around 145lbs before and now around 200lbs. I have never been fat before and it’s difficult to see myself. I also used to drink because of severe anxiety but I am sober 25 years.
 
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A reminder for those that need it 😉😊
I’ve never seen those activities being worked on at home. And why does he say ‘Abbie is a surfer...’. It’s just sad that none of these things are being done with her. She just wanders aimlessly around the house making noise. Sit with your daughter and work with her, 5 minutes here and there adds up to a lot!
 
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I have gained weight over the last 10 years due to being in bed most of the time, so no exercise I have a sweet tooth and my medication . I used to weigh around 145lbs before and now around 200lbs. I have never been fat before and it’s difficult to see myself. I also used to drink because of severe anxiety but I am sober 25 years.
Awww well done @Stripe69 that's so awesome and i'm like you i have gained weight over the years as well but i'm exercising 3 times a day and i'm not a big eater i usually have small breakfast lunch and dinner it's just from eating bad food like chocolate and potato chips! I'm a savoury person and potato chips are my enemies so i shouldn't really eat them!
 
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No recipe is complete without a dash of booger ya’ll!

Sorry couldn’t help myself.
 
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It depends on how money hungry each state is. Nothing is reflective of the covid spread... that’s why it’s weird for me to hear people saying things like “oh our state is reopened” People going out to restaurants and bars while their parks are still closed. Sorry, but ...If you do that then you’re dumb.

Who else hates the sight of their 1960s bed? With the poles? My God these people try so hard that it just shows how trashy they are. They think it’s the classiest thing in the world as far as beds go.
NJ has the second highest death rate with over 12K deaths plus sharing a border with NY I think caused the governor here to err on the side of caution . Even with non essential stores opening hopefully June 15 with restrictions malls will still be closed (stores have to have an outside entrance)
IMO A&P see themselves as oh so special, wonderful, giving 🤢 people so Covid 19 will just leave them alone
As for the little people, well we're not their problem. Hell they don't care about anything unless it lines their pockets 🤑

And yup all their wood furniture reminds me if that paul bunyan furniture from the 80's LOL
 
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NJ has the second highest death rate with over 12K deaths plus sharing a border with NY I think caused the governor here to err on the side of caution . Even with non essential stores opening hopefully June 15 with restrictions malls will still be closed (stores have to have an outside entrance)
IMO A&P see themselves as oh so special, wonderful, giving 🤢 people so Covid 19 will just leave them alone
As for the little people, well we're not their problem. Hell they don't care about anything unless it lines their pockets 🤑

And yup all their wood furniture reminds me if that paul bunyan furniture from the 80's LOL
Their furniture- first off - they didn’t measure the sectional? There is a door behind the sofa lmao. Then the bed... it’s horrendous. I said it looks like 1960s but I wasn’t even born then. That shows how weird and out of this world it looks.

Proud owner of a measuring tape that I got from another resident in my building-immediately. Idk how I managed to get a measuring tape just from meeting a resident, but it’s still here lol. Using it has always been kind of challenging, but I’d rather use it than to have weird looking furniture like that family does.

The other day they had Abbie take a bowl of something to the dining area and I am 💯 that she ate some of it before sitting it down.
 
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Exactly. I need to lose 40 pounds to get back into the healthy BMI range. That is my first goal. I'd love to get back to what I was ten years ago after that. Doesn't sound like much, but arthritis runs in my family. All of the women who have carried even that much extra weight have had to have joint replacements. So it is either lose the weight and learn to eat healthy, or look forward to health issues I'd like to try to avoid. Sure, I may wind up getting a hip or knee replaced anyway, but hopefully it can be put at least put off. Plus, I just don't want to stay this way for the rest of my life. I don't want to keep gaining and gaining and not really understand what I'm doing wrong.
I'm going to lose 40 aswell to get into my BMI range! Good luck to both of us! I've been finding it so hard, gaining weight from muscle

I have gained weight over the last 10 years due to being in bed most of the time, so no exercise I have a sweet tooth and my medication . I used to weigh around 145lbs before and now around 200lbs. I have never been fat before and it’s difficult to see myself. I also used to drink because of severe anxiety but I am sober 25 years.
Congratulations on your sobriety!
 
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I'm going to lose 40 aswell to get into my BMI range! Good luck to both of us! I've been finding it so hard, gaining weight from muscle
Muscle weighs more than fat! And then the more muscle you have, the more fat you burn. Don’t be discouraged...
 
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So its a financial thing? I’m just wondering why ppl here keep saying she won’t have 24-7 access to caregivers in her home when ppl actually do receive those services.
I think it depends on the client how long a caregiver is willing to stay.
When they're suffering from dementia it can be very hard to care for them. Some are aggressive, have massive problems with the night-day-rhythm and tend to "elope" ... like Abbie.
 
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They were there last year and it looked like they completely butted in.
Actually they are meyer lemons. So they're a cross between an orange and a lemon. They are not sour like a normal lemon....more sweet. I tried to make lemonade with them and it turned out way too sweet now I know haha

I don’t see a that big of a difference from there to her trip to Mexico...see what happens when you aren’t wearing spanks. Just her face seems thinner
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Largest woman there!!!! Omg someone shoot me please if I get that big!

For me, I interpret the body positive movement as you're not required to be a specific size in order to be deserving of love and respect and to be treated like a human being. That you shouldn't withhold love and respect from yourself until you reach a certain number on the scale. No one ever hated themselves skinny. If they did - we'd have virtually no overweight people. I don't think it's good to encourage any type of unhealthy behavior, I just don't think that someone should only be considered deserving of love and respect if they are a certain size.

I agree that P thought this weight loss surgery would be a magic fix. I also agree that she didn't (or at least it seems that she didn't) go through the proper counselling and education prior to surgery. I think the Dr sent her home with some instructions after her surgery but she only stuck to them for like 3 weeks it seemed like. With the $$$ they have now, instead of buying Coach purses she should be seeing a therapist or counselor, for sure.
I think P lost 100 lbs and now mentally sees herself super skinny. Body dismorphia? She feels lighter and thinks she is skinny and sexy now. I'm happy she feels good about herself but she doesn't see she still has another 100 lbs to lose!

Thread idea:
Big A is trying to sell the fancy mic...lil A cant seem to ride the trike
 
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