Finally watched the vlog & I agree w/ the others who have more compassionate posts, that was a heavy vlog & a much needed one.
I hate feeling like Abbie is such a manipulative menace though & really wish there were better ways to deal with her that didn’t involve upping her meds or hiring a bouncer. (In case that’s not a Brit term, they work the door at bars, ID’ing ppl, keeping the peace & are usually huge muscular men).
I didn’t see Priss as overly bitter, she just showed more frustration maybe? Asa was def sad.
What’s this from a newbie about not seeing Lauren? I don’t think any of their vlogsquad has changed. It’s just the quarantine.
I would’ve taken Abbie’s hair out of the rubberbands before bed. It gave me the impression they were done. But if she’s going to fight over it & get all amped up before bed, then battles have to be chosen.
Yes this is their child, but I wish there were better resources for the homeschooling these highly demanding kids during this time. Becca needs to come in at least 2-3 days/wk. Not having Summer or Isaiah may have thrown Ab for a loop. But they say the aggression is daily anyway. Rambling, but public school system can only do so much & I was just saying to my husband today that if things continue, we can’t get into phase 2 (then no grad, etc), then we have to remember that teaching children really falls on a more primative level. Sow the fields type of learning. I’m teaching gardening as much as I can to my kids. My youngest is also loving the flower propagation on Animal Crossing (haha).
Anyway, Ab looked confused when they talked about her not wanting the 1st restaurant. I almost sensed that she did want it? I deal with anxiety & I’m wondering if in those times when she gets like that if they could just stop the vehicle & medicate her? I don’t take a Xanax anymore, but I could see where Abbie needs lifelong Benzo treatment?
Btw, I came across a vlog on anx/dep lately & the person said that when they took Seroquel (sp?) that their head felt heavy! Makes ya wonder if this happens to Ab!
I hate feeling like Abbie is such a manipulative menace though & really wish there were better ways to deal with her that didn’t involve upping her meds or hiring a bouncer. (In case that’s not a Brit term, they work the door at bars, ID’ing ppl, keeping the peace & are usually huge muscular men).
I didn’t see Priss as overly bitter, she just showed more frustration maybe? Asa was def sad.
What’s this from a newbie about not seeing Lauren? I don’t think any of their vlogsquad has changed. It’s just the quarantine.
I would’ve taken Abbie’s hair out of the rubberbands before bed. It gave me the impression they were done. But if she’s going to fight over it & get all amped up before bed, then battles have to be chosen.
Yes this is their child, but I wish there were better resources for the homeschooling these highly demanding kids during this time. Becca needs to come in at least 2-3 days/wk. Not having Summer or Isaiah may have thrown Ab for a loop. But they say the aggression is daily anyway. Rambling, but public school system can only do so much & I was just saying to my husband today that if things continue, we can’t get into phase 2 (then no grad, etc), then we have to remember that teaching children really falls on a more primative level. Sow the fields type of learning. I’m teaching gardening as much as I can to my kids. My youngest is also loving the flower propagation on Animal Crossing (haha).
Anyway, Ab looked confused when they talked about her not wanting the 1st restaurant. I almost sensed that she did want it? I deal with anxiety & I’m wondering if in those times when she gets like that if they could just stop the vehicle & medicate her? I don’t take a Xanax anymore, but I could see where Abbie needs lifelong Benzo treatment?
Btw, I came across a vlog on anx/dep lately & the person said that when they took Seroquel (sp?) that their head felt heavy! Makes ya wonder if this happens to Ab!