Oooh yeah! I totally agree with this post, I do like your posts here! Autism and anxiety are often co morbid conditions, as autistic people often like to have routines, and for me personally, I like to be prepared to know what's going to happen, what the place is going to be like, etc so that I can prepare for potential sensory overload, so that I can think of calming methods/stims to help soothe me to do in advance and so that my family/friends will be able to understand in advance why I might shut down or want to walk around outside, etc So even though NT people can have sensory issues etc, and anxiety, ND/autistic people are much more likely, and I suspect non verbal ones even more too, as they would struggle even more to communicate their needs, and their 'violent' behaviours are just a result of their desperation and pain imoWhen he was sitting in the back of the buggy car w/ her I wished he had brought out her ipad to see if she would communicate anything of relevance. I have a feeling though that in times of calmness to times of distress, that she’s just still hitting the random buttons of nature valley bar, etc. Poor girl just doesn’t understand communication. All her wires are crossed. Therefore, outings in public aren’t desensitizing her, they are quite possibly progressively make her worse. I guess they needed to just go home when she said no to the 1st place. She might eventually LEARN that they aren’t going to play hopscotch with her anxiety. However, for NT, anxiety is a beast. There’s no reasoning if there’s IDD + autism involved. The only answers for her is a rigid schedule, which goes against A&P lifestyle. Heck, Asa sounded unusually chill throughout the entire vlog. Either a xanax for himself or a drink perhaps? Don’t blame him!