This video just made me glad I don't have their life. When they do these renovations they feel compelled to show them off for content and views, but it's very uncomfortable to watch given that you're watching 2 people who are actually proud about how much of their daughter's money they are wasting. There's really no way to justify it. I literally don't care if you are a multimillionaire. You can never save enough money for the future care of your r*tarded daughter. I am sorry to use that word, but its replacement ("intellectually disabled") does not carry the same weight and does not properly communicate what we are talking about here. Abbie is not merely "limited," she does not merely have a "hard time" with the normal things that the rest of us take for granted. She is not merely "intellectually" disabled--that would actually be a better state than where she is. She is globally ********.
If Abbie is at all to have any kind of secure and safe future free of abuse, neglect, and mistreatment, it is going to require a gargantuan amount of money. Any scrimping, any cutting corners, any bargain shopping is going to leave her at high risk. She is not merely helpless and vulnerable, but she is also extremely unpleasant. They've basically shown us that almost nobody is willing to put up with Abbie, even for money. Her unpleasantness automatically rules out almost 100% of the best caregivers, who can just go make the same amt of money on less demanding charges.
And yet they blow through money as though they had not a care in the world and have some kind of rock-solid form of income instead of being in some of the most risky lines of work imaginable.
I say all of this only to emphasize how strongly these two come off as cruel, selfish money grubbers. Look at our renovations and our decor. Watch our videos of us in our expensive RV traveling the country. Look at this date night and that date night and the third date night this week. Look at us drink alcohol and eat food. Listen as we brag about how great our marriage supposedly is as if that is a normal thing for anybody to do. Oh yeah, Abbie's here, rocking, look at her a second. Okay back to this ridiculous meal we've prepared. Check out our stupid tiki hut and our metric ton of liquor. Look at the rolex I got and my LV handbag. Watch us take our tenth vacation this year.
Blech. They're honestly just too bleeping old to pull off this tit. It's all well and good to be so vapid and self-obsessed when you're young and just don't know any better. It's not a good look when you're middle aged and clearly screwing over not one but TWO daughters.
They are disgusting braggarts- they've never had a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of, so now they cant control themselves. They have to spend, spend, spend.
But what has bothered me is their whole "Abbie needs a zillion trillion dollars. Abbie needs a historic home and fat life insurance policies." narrative.
As if every special needs family has these massive trusts set up, or could even afford to do so. The implication is that if you have not secured millions in life insurance, a real estate portfolio, and a
tit ton of valuables to sell later, well, then your're a
crappy parent whose child will obviously just be led into the woods and left to die someday. Its
bleeping ridiculous. Abbie's care is paid for by the state of Florida and will be until she passes. Would she live in a resort? No, but she'd have shelter, food, and medical care. The fact that they never acknowledge this to the humpers pisses me off. They use "her future" as an excuse to live as they do..."Oh this big house is so Abbie can live here when we're dead. Its for HER, not us."
What they havent addressed is, what if they never hit it big on YT? What if they were still living in their modest rental with no decor, mismatched furniture, old crappy cars they couldnt afford to repair, toiling away for Shipt and the bike shop? What was the plan for Abbie not even five years ago?? I bet it had nothing to do with millions of dollars, private care, and a "historic" house with a pool, thats for sure!!