Fathering Autism #137 Honking, Flailing, Pull Up Full of Poo, On the Floor Squeezing as Becca Says I Do.

[lillibb]

Sierra Papa Alpha Zulu It's not even a filthy word!!!


My vet is very much into nutrition and anything that contains added sugar/additives are a no go. Based on her directives, my pups have never had gastric issues. When I have to administer pills, I squish them into banana or good cheese pieces. It's interesting what different vets suggest

I give Sadie broccoli, boiled eggs, blueberries, green beans cooked with ground turkey and try to rinse all the fat out, watermelon, along with her dog food. She is prone to gastric ailments (notorious in Schnauzers) sometimes I make her pumpkin dog biscuits, she loves bananas also I do the cheese also when giving her meds. My grown kids say she's the favorite kid. She is.

 

[cucumber]

And she better not have Asshole edit her blubber out. People need to see how bad the clothes on a fat blimp before purchasing it. No false advertising. I think they are getting all these hair brained ideas to have more income they can cheat the IRS out of when Fathering Narcism takes a dive.

Yep they're definitely worried...about the IRS, about their dwindling income. That's why they talk more about Slime trips (which we know was recruiting) and why Big A is again pushing the Read Aloud Books, and why he started posting some 'shorts' as I guess he calls them, and why of all things he's tryna branch out into keeping the sexy sparks flyin'!
And what can you say about Bigpig.com.....to GET HER LOOK...

 

[Sadoldhen]

Some musings: Arse is such a narcissistic little pr**k that he seriously can’t stay hime while goes on any slimelife trips. He’s scared that will get drunk again like the time at St Augustine with Kaitlyn? (Kaidale’s mum) and they were been stupid with the punters! There are usually lots of drunk women, and if he is the only male in the room, he’ll think they like his porn voice pontificating bulls**t!
I think there may have been a demand or two from about putting Ab into long term care, but there may be basic ADL’s that Ab needs to learn before acceptance, In New Zealand, children who have turned four years old have to learn a few standard things like : name recognition, know how to toilet themselves, dress themselves (pull up their underwear, pants etc, know how to handle scissors and cut, etc.
Maybe in a group home, Ab is expected to do her ‘bit’, like setting up the tables, putting chairs away, personal toileting!! etc

 

[Sweetums]

Yep they're definitely worried...about the IRS, about their dwindling income. That's why they talk more about Slime trips (which we know was recruiting) and why Big A is again pushing the Read Aloud Books, and why he started posting some 'shorts' as I guess he calls them, and why of all things he's tryna branch out into keeping the sexy sparks flyin'!
And what can you say about Bigpig.com.....to GET HER LOOK...

Bigpig.com. I love it!

 

[PMFMSlime]

Hello, everyone. I have read this forum for approximately two years after following the family on YouTube and getting a bad vibe immediately which led to Google and then this. I’m sure there are a lot of people like me who read and don’t register. I can no longer keep my mouth shut. I try so hard to not watch ANY of their videos because I don’t want big douchebag to get even a penny from me. Today I watched. Sponsored by Priscilla? These people are flaming idiots and I can’t wait to see this shitboat sink.
I wanted to say that a lot of people have come down on the teacher and I understand it. She is totally underwhelming, but you can only work with what you’ve got. I feel sorry for her. I would never take that job under any circumstances.
I have a son on the spectrum which led to my interest but he’s in college now and completely independent except for tuition. Not a case like Abbie’s but this is like watching a trash fire. BURN BABY BURN.

 

[lillibb]

She's also offering some of her used bathing suits that she's outgrown.

 

[JunoandMaya]

Ok, for our parents of ND kids, I'd like your opinions on this, Asshat says they're doing the place setting thing on the island in the kitchen because it's closer in relation to the cupboards, then they'll move to the dining room and Abbie will associate one with the other. So, getting her accustomed to doing it on the island in the kitchen means she'll know what to do for the dining room?? How...?? This just sounds like total bullshit mixed in with no way in hell.

What do you think???

And also, what IS the urgency with getting Abbie to learn this? He wants her to learn it quickly... why?? (this is directed at everyone and anyone)

Our kids have trouble generalizing skills learned in one area to the next area. Honestly, it seems that they took away her template too soon. She should have first mastered that with no prompts and then moved on to fading it out. There's no reason why she has to learn this quickly. Our kids are not on our time table for learning things. They are on theirs. Blazing through each skill and then not practicing it very often will just cause her to lose it quickly again.

 

[Krishascooties]

Ok, for our parents of ND kids, I'd like your opinions on this, Asshat says they're doing the place setting thing on the island in the kitchen because it's closer in relation to the cupboards, then they'll move to the dining room and Abbie will associate one with the other. So, getting her accustomed to doing it on the island in the kitchen means she'll know what to do for the dining room?? How...?? This just sounds like total bullshit mixed in with no way in hell.

What do you think???

And also, what IS the urgency with getting Abbie to learn this? He wants her to learn it quickly... why?? (this is directed at everyone and anyone)

They said that Abbie couldn't transfer what she learned at home (we know she hasn't learned tit at home) to school and vice versa, so how is this going to work out for her Asa? Same with Abbie learning all this at home and it's supposed to transfer to some job out in the community, NO WAY! Abbie has had 17 years to learn this very simple task that could've been done with her on a daily. They don't need some special teacher to come in and do this with Abbie. None of what Asa is saying makes much sense, and it kills me that all these people are rising them, FOR WHAT? Asa and Priscilla have failed Abbie so badly. This is my opinion, but Abbie shouldn't be touching anyone's plates, forks, or whatever of anyone else. Abbie doesn't even understand how to properly wash her hands, or keep her hands out of her nose. NO WAY!!!

 

[KateK]

They said that Abbie couldn't transfer what she learned at home (we know she hasn't learned tit at home) to school and vice versa, so how is this going to work out for her Asa? Same with Abbie learning all this at home and it's supposed to transfer to some job out in the community, NO WAY! Abbie has had 17 years to learn this very simple task that could've been done with her on a daily. They don't need some special teacher to come in and do this with Abbie. None of what Asa is saying makes much sense, and it kills me that all these people are rising them, FOR WHAT? Asa and Priscilla have failed Abbie so badly.

I dont understand why they focus on these silly chores ... what about communication?? shouldn't they be teaching her words?? to me that seems way more important.

 

[Noir Fan]

Hello, everyone. I have read this forum for approximately two years after following the family on YouTube and getting a bad vibe immediately which led to Google and then this. I’m sure there are a lot of people like me who read and don’t register. I can no longer keep my mouth shut. I try so hard to not watch ANY of their videos because I don’t want big douchebag to get even a penny from me. Today I watched. Sponsored by Priscilla? These people are flaming idiots and I can’t wait to see this shitboat sink.
I wanted to say that a lot of people have come down on the teacher and I understand it. She is totally underwhelming, but you can only work with what you’ve got. I feel sorry for her. I would never take that job under any circumstances.
I have a son on the spectrum which led to my interest but he’s in college now and completely independent except for tuition. Not a case like Abbie’s but this is like watching a trash fire. BURN BABY BURN.

Welcome! Happy to see you!

 

[ABAPQueen1995]

Sorry I haven't been around, not been too well with my stomach issues that I have done the IBS diet and took the pills and it did nothing.

But how can they say they love each other? My mum and dad have been married for 37 years and my dad doesn't have to put on a calendar he has to hug my mum. Neither does my mum. And my mum is 66, and is a little tubby, but she dresses better than Pigrillasnufflepus.

But the question is, how much booze did the dainty one and the Assache have before they did the business time? That is not a marriage, they are not parents especially Pigrillagrabbingpus, and both have nothing in those heads either. I'm not university educated, I know I wouldn't be able to, but I do research stuff and at the moment I am learning about the intelligence cycle.

I just don't see the same curiosity in them.

Poor Abbie, she's just a prop. I swear Pigrilla wants her to be her PA so she doesn't have to do anything except being a fat pigrifterpus

Oh dear, I hope you feel better soon. I do agree with you about the Maassholes

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So true. My favourite Ben and Jerry's ice cream flavour there

Our kids have trouble generalizing skills learned in one area to the next area. Honestly, it seems that they took away her template too soon. She should have first mastered that with no prompts and then moved on to fading it out. There's no reason why she has to learn this quickly. Our kids are not on our time table for learning things. They are on theirs. Blazing through each skill and then not practicing it very often will just cause her to lose it quickly again.

I'm the same with the generalisation thing and I have to do it a lot in my job (I'm a programmer hence my username). It's getting better now but I also remember at school I struggled to do this a lot, particularly in maths, and I had to be told by my teacher/TA what I needed to do to get the answer. This was mostly apparent when I was doing my GCSEs.

 

[jacjos123]

The ASS strikes again. Like my 92 yo grandmother would say “A Hit Dog Will Holler”

 

[Lizaable90]

The ASS strikes again. Like my 92 yo grandmother would say “A Hit Dog Will Holler”

Well, someone needs to tell him!
Asa needs to take this personally and on the flip side. Abbie isn’t growing developmentally anymore and the temper tantrums, throwing herself in the floor, refusing to move, etc., will just get worse as she ages over the years. The collision course she is on, means she will be 250lbs before she turns 25 years old. When care homes look at individuals, developmental is taken into effect but also the size of the patient is too (at least in my area). If a person is obese, they can deny based on her needing multiple care workers, to deal with her, due to her size.
If I had a child like Abbie, I would literally be taking every single precaution and working on every ADL, to be able to get her as high functioning as possible, to hopefully get to the place, she would have the least amount of restrictions and most independence as possible, even if we have to place her. Heck, my youngest is lightening years ahead of Abbie, at 14, and even knows a group home will be necessary as he is older. We have already visited 3 and he is on the waitlist for the one that he wants to live in. It will give him the most freedom and abilities to still be an adult, but will also allow him to work a job and keep him on track daily.

I get the teenage weight but there is a point that Abbie is seriously gotten into being lazy (part in her fault but 90% of the blame goes straight onto A&P) and that has got to stop. It doesn’t get better, once she gets older.

 

[BellaBlueEyes]

Skill transfer & generalization tends to be hard for any autistic person. With an intellectual disability like Abbie's on top of it, it honestly may be nearly impossible for her.
If they'd spent months having her do place settings on the island for every meal, and she was able to do it independently, they could probably work for a month or two every day to transfer that skill to the dining room. I don't think it's outside the realm of possibility that she'd be able to do it - the key is, though, that it would require a lot of repetition every day for weeks or months at a time, and they'd have to work on it with her every day even when the teacher isn't there.

So, yes, it's total bullshit mixed with no way in hell. He expects the teacher to make it happen over the course of a few days with their only involvement being vlogging the process and the miraculous "result." It ain't gonna happen.



I would 100% bet it's something like this. Either the teacher has a "community opportunity" or Atha has some half-baked idea for content of Abbie volunteering at a homeless shelter or something like that.

Assa will have plenty of jump cuts happening in upcoming videos to "prove" princess has mastered this skill in record time and/or we never see her setting the table just working on a new skill Abbie is learning.

 

[MizBeaverhausen]

My cat just had a round of Apoquel!! We are trialing her off of it and she’s doing ok but might end up back on it. She eats her apoquel in bil jac dog treats! She hates the vet and is terrified. But she at least let’s them touch her now and no biting or scratching! My dogs’ breeder/vet and my personal vet preferred the cytopoint over apoquel for my dog. It’s super expensive, but it works! Cytopoint is not approved for cats, but I wish it was! Try a lickamat while grooming your dog! You can put mashed banana, or anything else like yogurt, wet dog food, peanut butter, etc and it distracts and rewards them! They even have ones with suction cups for bath tubs when bathing!

We have a check up next week, so I will ask about Cytopoint!! Thanks!! Shelby is VERY dramatic, so I just humour her. There is no technique that will make her behave for me, but I am grateful that she behaves for the important people like her doctor and groomer. Our vet nailed it when she said that my first Shih Tzu was born to please me but Shelby is born for me to please her. Honestly, my Reagan was the Dowager Grantham from Downton Abbey and my Shelby is Karen Walker from Will and Grace

 

[SCCOct66]

The ASS strikes again. Like my 92 yo grandmother would say “A Hit Dog Will Holler”

Ok, let's leave their severely disabled child out of this - let's talk about you and your sow wife. How can you not take better care of your health so you can care for your severely disabled child? How can you, day after day, continue your gluttonous, over indulgent out of control lifestyle all while saying you are doing everything "for Abbie"? You put "just what you want us to see" out on the internet every single day, so like it or not, you ARE subject to our scrutiny and judgment. Sorry - that's just how this works. So, leave Abbie out of this (even though she is physically suffering greatly because the life you've made for yourself and her is horribly unhealthy) - why are YOU piling weight on at an alarming rate?

 

[Susan830]

It’s raining Mavericks and Nalas here. With a little Sandy mixed in. Pretty damn windy too! If I don’t check in for awhile (hopefully I can), it’s because the internet and power may shut down. Yikes.

Anyway, my opinion is they stop making her into what they want her to be for the sake of clickbait. Give her some real toys - baby and toddler toys even. Let her enjoy what little enjoyment she gets out of life. Is she really going to set the table or volunteer somewhere that requires table setting skills? She looked confused about how many knifes and forks to set and where to place the plates.

I also wonder how this bridesmaid thing is going to go down.

Talk to you all later, I hope!

Stay safe Noir fan!!!

Hey Cilla! This post is sponsored by your clothing store!
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Loved that Carol Burnett episode!!!

 

[renwick]

I suddenly realized that I am reading the vlog title wrong. “Fathering “ autism. I thought it referred to the male parent. Then I see words like “adulting”, and realized this title is really
“Fat Her-ing”. Since so much is about the sow, her clothes, her nails, her food…how did I never grasp that I understood the title wrong??? All about the Fat Her lifestyle.

 

[BellaBlueEyes]

I have a son and DIL in Boca Raton FL, and I have heard from them that at 9pm the wind was strong, at 11pm it intensified and tornado warning sirens began. Then the rain and thunder started but it has moved on.
I'm hoping everyone is so lucky but they keep saying it's intensifying as it heads north. Tampa is a main concern because they have no barrier to impede the surf and land. Everyone please take care.

 

[Raingirl]

The ASS strikes again. Like my 92 yo grandmother would say “A Hit Dog Will Holler”

Right, Assa. The fact that Abbie has two parents who are literally hundreds of pounds overweight (and getting larger by the day), and who feed her excessive amounts of high calorie foods - that has nothing whatsoever to do with Abbie’s weight. Sure.