Fathering Autism #116 Trying homeschooling? Who are they fooling?

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Is it me, or is Cillabeast getting dumber and dumber with each vlog?

Also I know this sounds horrible, but I have always thought Pigcilla has some kind of learning difficulty, and is not very intelligent. I could be wrong though. And sorry if that was insulting to anyone.
 
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I have ALWAYS said Pigcill has a mild intellectual disability. It is usually genetic and I wouldn't be surprised if she was autistic either. I believe she passed it onto Abbie 100%.
 
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I think he's breaking us in little by little for buying the .5th wheel just like he did with his other camper. All of a sudden it will just appear

I have ALWAYS said Pigcill has a mild intellectual disability. It is usually genetic and I wouldn't be surprised if she was autistic either. I believe she passed it onto Abbie 100%.
And she's knows it....
 
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Sometimes I struggle to come up with the appropriate words for these screenshots.







This is hilarious!! After Summer's big production, complete with a crotch grab, Abbie simply turns and walks away from her!

 
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I think he's breaking us in little by little for buying the .5th wheel just like he did with his other camper. All of a sudden it will just appear
Well they fucked the first one up. Some how managed to damage it so bad it was getting fixed for months. I think Bruce will take the one they have now and they'll get a Class A RV
 
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Of topic: Limelife gossip - ya know the woman who always came second to P.? She was always second highest seller but she was at top of pyramid and had a huge team. Stephanie Treadway… Tread Beauty.. she has resigned from Slime and gone to another MLM. LOL. .. she will undoubtedly take people with her, one said she was keaving because: I’ll just post it. haha I hate that company. This woman also has an autistic child and has decided to homeschool. They never talk too harshly about company because they want to..
 

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Asa responded in the comments that Isaiah will probably be meeting up with them, but Isaiah's schedule isn't planned out yet.
 
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She's certainly "smart" enough to open food packages and rip down wallpaper, though...she can open an unlocked door and wander outside, find garbage to stim with, or eat non-food items she finds around the house. These are all things we've seen her do recently, and she could very easily do them at someone else's house. A&P would still have to be vigilant about that, if they actually cared about her safety.

That said, I think what Cilla dislikes about going to other people's homes is the feeling of being out of control/being bored. She doesn't get to set the timeline for what they do or when they eat/drink, so she just has to sit there waiting for them to do something that interests her. She's bored out of her mind and needs a hit of something that makes her feel good...hence her having the phone out at the table.

Sounds like a miserable way to live. I'm sorry.
Damn that's rude as fuck
 
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Sounds like a miserable way to live. I'm sorry.

I know some of my other autism mom friends' have things much worse than we do. The people we tend to surround ourselves with understand and accommodate him/us as best they can. We don't have daily violent aggression that some of my friends experience. It's no walk in the park by any means, but there is much worse.
 
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The Wee's just posted a video where Braylee was getting re diagnosed... and she has already had several. The time before she got level 3 autism with I think they said mid level IDD... and when they re tested her it was pretty much the same. They said it was a 3 hour test. Just with observation I would say Braylee is way ahead of Abbie...even though she is probably half Abbie's age...or less.

So Braylee has had multiple diagnosis/tests... but the Massives stilll talk about "global delays'...which is something they would diagnose at a very young age.. or so I have read. Seems like the Massives are definitely hiding Abbie's tests which should have had many re diagnosis by now??
 
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You are completely correct. A&P do NOT do the work required. They always rely on Abbie's teachers and therapists to do everything and then reap the benefit of the work that others have done. A&P don't seem to understand that it is SO important for them to really and truly carry on the work at home. Asshat talks a lot, including in the example you gave, but all that talking is just noise and is rarely if ever put into practice. I think A&P don't do the work because they are extremely lazy, they view it as too bothersome or inconvenient - it interrupts and takes away from what THEY want to be doing, and on some level, they simply don't CARE to do anything but the bare minimum.

Your wallpaper example is on point. If the communication is poor, so will the results be. I said it in a previous post that I think Abbie tearing the wallpaper was a sensory seeking thing. That coupled with what you've said demonstrates that despite Asshat knowing the right things to say when talking to the vlog, there is so much Asshat is clueless about and doesn't put into practice.
 
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This is a great explanation of why Isaiah isn't doing well with school and can't keep up. He was not taught to DO THE WORK. You just do the work. You get your assignments and you do them - He's watched his slugs of parents do the minimum for the maximum and he has not learned to WORK. What the Massholes call work and what most normal people with jobs and careers call work are VASTLY different and they have done Isaiah no favors. He can't keep up in college, it doesn't look like he knows how to make or keep friendships, he's not involved in anything remotely charitable. And he's learned from them.
 
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I wonder if there is something pushing on Abbies brain, I watched a documentary about this disease where the brain starts to decay and it makes the people go backwards. Don't get me wrong, P and A are not helping by not doing the ABA or the disciplining her. But I wonder if there is more neurological problem?

I am sorry for sounding horrible, or trying to diagnose, it's just there is a lot of stuff that doesn't make sense.
 
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I suffered through Isaiah's vlog and he was saying he was going to unfollow a bunch of people on IG. Love these comments.
 
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Cognitive function can be split into so many domains as well...it's completely possible for someone to be at the level of an infant in one area of cognitive function, but at the level of a preschooler in another.
That makes sense. Different parts of the brain are responsible for different functions. With what you've said here, I think that makes it important to remember that just because Abbie may do really poorly in one area, that doesn't automatically make it the same across the board for all things and in all ways.

Right! If Abbie's comprehension, reasoning abilities, intelligence, and awareness were truly bordering on non-existent, she would not be able to do any of the things you've just outlined. When it comes to food, just like you said, there is no hesitation and she knows exactly what to do and where things are. When she goes to a restaurant, she may not understand that other people may receive their food first and then gets upset. Or she may just not like that fact that she has to be patient and not get what she wants immediately. I agree with everything you described. She definitely shows the capability of making distinctions between things and knowing, even if it's just a basic level, things like "snacks are in the pantry" and Zaxby's has chicken, Dunkin has donuts.

Very good point. I think there were times where just seeing Brandy's car upset her because she recognized it and knew what that meant would happen when they went in the house. We've also noticed, when Asshat used to vlog at JSA with Abbie's teachers, that Abbie would listen and comply w/ her teachers with little to no fussing or resisting. She knew that her teachers wouldn't tolerate her acting out and that they weren't push-overs. She knew that her usual methods of getting out of doing stuff would not work. Abbie also recognizes Crystal when she comes over or they go over there, Abbie becomes happier and wants to spend time w. Crystal right away.
 
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