Dear Derr…Sending you, your wife, and her brother comfort, strength, prayers & hugs. Your MIL is blessed to have her family by her side, and will soon be free from her suffering.It got dark all of a sudden.
on a side note: an update on my MIL…
they administered last rites today and took out her breathing tube and shut down the machines. She’s breathing on her own but they don’t know for how long. She briefly opened her eyes and acknowledged that my wife and her brother were in the room. Palliative care was called earlier a plan is in place but she’s too weak to be moved to hospice.
keep my wife and her brother in youras my MIL transitions to the next life.
They rewarded her bad behavior yet as again. They suck as parents.On today’s vlog, I clearly heard Assa say they were just going to go on a cart ride and nothing else because it was a rough day for Abbie. So when they come back home, Piggy is holding a to go container from a restaurant. They just can’t help themselves
Yikes!This altered thumbnail of Cillazilla, you gotta love the photoshop effort to remove her stomach fat and and back rolls. And the harsh reality from the Vlog itself . I can hear her bellowing now during the editing, "ATHA!!! Make me look thkinnier!"
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Thanks. I don't know what got into me. Maybe it's the continous lying, denying and them accusing this group of jealousy and being haters(hate that word, lol). The two of them have no clue what it's like to actually have a profession. They think dicking around at home and eating crap all day & selling shit makeup is elevating people. I feel sorry for the suckers...I mean humpers.Congratulations on all your hard work and maintaining your tremendous weight loss. I did not have weight loss surgery, but I know first-hand how much hard work and discipline maintenance takes. It pisses me off too that she has squandered the opportunity to be healthy for her family. Asa’s obesity is no better. They are both ticking time bombs.
But found it necessary to rest one of her stumpzillas on the golf cart....They rewarded her bad behavior yet as again. They suck as parents.
Yikes!
https://giphy.com/RSEuJxiw2H24USherrie will go off on anyone if they even ask a simple question. Good Lord. Girl needs to smoke a bowl or something. LOL
Yikes.
I’m so sorry you’re all dealing with this. I did the same with both parents and can say those final moments on this earth with my parents are among the most beautiful and treasured of my life. In an unexplainable way, being present as someone you love enters this life, is just as precious as your the moments when someone leaves this life. Godspeed to her for a peaceful transition and peace to allIt got dark all of a sudden.
on a side note: an update on my MIL…
they administered last rites today and took out her breathing tube and shut down the machines. She’s breathing on her own but they don’t know for how long. She briefly opened her eyes and acknowledged that my wife and her brother were in the room. Palliative care was called earlier a plan is in place but she’s too weak to be moved to hospice.
keep my wife and her brother in youras my MIL transitions to the next life.
Asa , this is your belief . What about the professionals , Doctors , therapist , S.T. , O.T. , O.P. Men and women who are specialist who have studied autism ? What is wrong with you ? Is this your hypothisis of Abbie ? Do you have a degree ? No you don't ........ why don't you just stop ....... just stop . But , you won't will you ? You need to seek therapy . If not for yourself , for Abbie . She needs you , she needs you to be a real loving father . She's 16 now you need to help her with her auditory , processing , receptive , sensory , communication . Abbie is more important than the money you are making or all the things you can buy now . Why do you feel obligated to give information and help to strangers but not Abbie ? Come on man ! I'm trying to understand you ? My daughter is on the autism spectrum why do you exploite Abbie ? Adoration from strangers ? What is your need to puff up you chest and be a expert on things you really don't have a grasp of what you are talking about ? You are truly facinating . A poster board of a narrcisstic personality . F.U. Asa and Cilla
May Peace Be With You and you're familyI’m so sorry you’re all dealing with this. I did the same with both parents and can say those final moments on this earth with my parents are among the most beautiful and treasured of my life. In an unexplainable way, being present as someone you love enters this life, is just as precious as your the moments when someone leaves this life. Godspeed to her for a peaceful transition and peace to all
Who love her.
Asa , this is your belief . What about the professionals , Doctors , therapist , S.T. , O.T. , O.P. Men and women who are specialist who have studied autism ? What is wrong with you ? Is this your hypothisis of Abbie ? Do you have a degree ? No you don't ........ why don't you just stop ....... just stop . But , you won't will you ? You need to seek therapy . If not for yourself , for Abbie . She needs you , she needs you to be a real loving father . She's 16 now you need to help her with her auditory , processing , receptive , sensory , communication . Abbie is more important than the money you are making or all the things you can buy now . Why do you feel obligated to give information and help to strangers but not Abbie ? Come on man ! I'm trying to understand you ? My daughter is on the autism spectrum why do you exploite Abbie ? Adoration from strangers ? What is your need to puff up you chest and be a expert on things you really don't have a grasp of what you are talking about ? You are truly facinating . A poster board of a narrcisstic personality . F.U. Asa and Cilla
From what Asa said...the major part of the day wasn't good with Abbie...behavior wise. From her moaning, etc even during the cart ride ( of course...reward bad behavior with something she likes!) sounds like she was still manipulating her way with them. Oh! You said no food, just ride? Nope! I want food too or else I will throw another tantrum!
So...they stop and get food!!
I would be really hesitant taking her on cart rides with just the bare minimum seat belt holding her in. And, I certainly wouldnt be taking her on a cart ride if she was throwing tantrums! What's to stop her from undoing that flimsy seatbelt and jumping out of the cart. Even if she didn't get hurt...she'd take off running through traffic...
Her meltdowns vs tantrums are two different things! She must've been exhausted too...he said she was uo at 5:30am!?
I would imagine Sweet Girl associates most cart rides (I always hear this in the programmed voice now) with food. But AssA said “No Food.” So clearly Big P is carrying No Food!Today's vlog
Much needed cart ride, but of course, they got food after Asshole said they weren't getting food.
Holding you and your family in my Divine Mercy prayers tonight. Praying that your mother-in-law has a peaceful transition.It got dark all of a sudden.
on a side note: an update on my MIL…
they administered last rites today and took out her breathing tube and shut down the machines. She’s breathing on her own but they don’t know for how long. She briefly opened her eyes and acknowledged that my wife and her brother were in the room. Palliative care was called earlier a plan is in place but she’s too weak to be moved to hospice.
keep my wife and her brother in youras my MIL transitions to the next life.
That was the first thing I noticed, and that he still left her arms hugeThis altered thumbnail of Cillazilla, you gotta love the photoshop effort to remove her stomach fat and and back rolls. And the harsh reality from the Vlog itself . I can hear her bellowing now during the editing, "ATHA!!! Make me look thkinnier!"
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I should have phrased it differently. I have nursed many through WLS and some have died as a result. So you are correct it isnt the easy option. What i should have said was Priscilla and many others see it as a quick fix but fail to see it as a complete lifestyle change and thats when it fails. Sorry if I offended i phrased it wrongly. XI'm just saying WLS isn't the easy option. It requires following a strict diet, exercise quite often and continuing aftercare....a lifelong commitment. That's why many fail at it still. IMO. Much respect though for your opinion.
Cheech and Chong , Oh Man the 70's were good !
May I use this? Going to try slip it in. But he reads here and will see THIS post, I don’t stand a chance. I will tryThis altered thumbnail of Cillazilla, you gotta love the photoshop effort to remove her stomach fat and and back rolls. And the harsh reality from the Vlog itself . I can hear her bellowing now during the editing, "ATHA!!! Make me look thkinnier!"
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Absolutely.May I use this? Going to try slip it in. But he reads here and will see THIS post, I don’t stand a chance. I will try
Wow I applaud you for doing all that. Can you imagine them doing even 1/4 of that? That would take commitment on their part. Asshole would just say, "Oh, we tried that, it didn't work" for every suggestion. Meaning he tried it once for a few seconds and it didn't work. Every money making scheme they have is more important than Abby.It's like I wonder if they even think about sleep issues affecting her behavior? Too bad there isn't something they could look into for that....oh wait. Our son has had his share of sleep issues. Which is why we cannot go a day without doing everything we can to help him get the best sleep he can. Most of the time now he sleeps through the night (with the help of two medications plus medical cannabis). We also have a sleep sensor under his sheet that gives us data on how many hours he slept/how restorative his sleep was/how many times he woke up-or had interrupted sleep. We have figured the more data we have, trends we notice, etc. the more we can help him. Some nights, despite all of this, his brain is just too wired to sleep at all. Do they think that maybe she is so tired that she has a headache? Do they even go through this process of trying to decipher why she may even be having these behaviors? To me, they don't really show much in the way of autism education and haven't for a long time. My hubby and I always go through a run down to try and figure out why he could be agitated. We ask him on his AAC, we look to his sleep from the previous night, we take notice of how he physically looks, notice if he is having tics-and if so what kind they are and develop a hypothesis (example, a lot of full body convulsions could lead to muscle aches-hey! How about some Aleve or Tylenol then!?!) Do they even talk about going through this whole process every time she has behaviors? Because it IS a process and we are always trying to figure it out.
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