I agree which is why I said I don't begrudge them...what I don't like is their attitude of "I wasn't raised that way" and looking down on ppl
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Even if she does qualify for government based programs like that, you would figure that her family wouldn't take the help and would allow another family that is actually low income and is struggling to take their place, especially since it is such a long waiting list. Of course, we all know that they are selfish as it gets and love free tit even if it does mean that a less fortunate, more deserving family of a disabled child dosen't get services. These disgusting human beings make alot of money but, will NEVER do ANYTHING that could help another autism family. NEVER. This topic makes me so bleeping angry bc, you see, my family is low income. (We don't discuss this with alot of ppl bc, we don't like ppl knowing that we struggle so much.) Eventhough they don't need any help affording things, they still continue to take up spaces in programs that real low income families need desperately. They are making all this money but, they still are more that happy to stand there with their hands stuck out waiting for free tit! They are sorry excuses for human beings and are a disgrace to the autism community as a whole. They need to stop being so selfish and think about other families that truly cant afford those services. Disgusting, yuck, I want to puke!!
I think Summer gets paid for respite too. In addition to her personal assistant pay. She's there to serve at their pleasure.
I'm sure they pay cash too. With all the hours they have "help" they would use up their allotted hours by mid month!
The potential for fraud exists is all I'm saying.
If they were not known liars, deadbeats, thieves and exploiters, my concerns about fraud would definitely be less valid.
I agree. Summer is being taken full advantage of. IMO.
I am sort of trapped in my house like many other people so I thought I would share a fantasy that I have about this sick family. The family including Summer go on a trip to a noisy place with lots of people. Abbie grabs a big redneck's girl friend. The big redneck looks around and he sees fatty A holding a camera taking pictures of his girlfriend. He approaches fatty and before fatty can explain his daughter is autistic the redneck hits fatty over the head with the camera. Meanwhile Abbie is doing the backstroke stimming on the filthy floor while fat P is yelling my "sweet girl" is getting all dirty. The sweet girl has Summer in a headlock and is pulling out clumps of her hair. Someone else can finish this if they want to as I am going outside to put more seed potatoes in the ground.is registered as a Republican.
So yeah. She is anyway.
He endorsed Yang on twitter.
Both are delusional.
They believe they work 80 hours a week.
They can pay out of pocket for additional respite.
All true, but unfortunately we all saw first hand what scammers they are when the whole hiding Asa's income from baby mama for years came to light. They arent stupid enough to risk respite. If Becca uses all her hours, or they need Summer and Becca, they'll just pay them in cash, or count paying for their travel, meals, etc. as payment. Just because the state pays for so many hours doesnt mean they cant self pay for more....and Summer may be dumb, but Becca isnt. She isnt going to risk her future to help them save a buck.
Until last year they were low income. This is for Abbie’s benefit. Despite what the family does or is, her being on a Medicare waiver is essential to her lifelong care.
When scrolling, I see your name then I see the way you have typed your message and I get a smile on my face and I either 1# use Dr. Suess or #2 the song from Beverly Hillbillies to start reading it!
THIS is a great example of the kind of fukery that I am referring to. Fraudlent time sheets!!!
Maybe CN got questioned by the state about making art for them to profit off of while getting respite pay.
I don't see how she could have gotten in trouble over this (the hambeasts should, its double dipping) but CN just bounced to stay out of it. I'm glad she did.
If you are disabled and are lucky enough to have a trust fund set up for you, I'm not so sure that tax money is essential to lifelong care.
But that's just me.
Ugh YES! I’m glad someone else pointed it out....I thought I was being too judgmental. We are a homeschool family, I have 4 kiddos and we started when my oldest son graduated 5th grade. The neighborhood school he was assigned to at the time had a HUGE physical violence problem and made the news every other day, our oldest daughter was in an all girls charter school and our two youngest were not “school age” yet. I spent the first year with just my son homeschooling and quickly noticed that, even though his younger siblings were 4 and 2, they were picking up what I was teaching their brother. My oldest finished that school year and asked if she could be homeschooled too. Year two I had one in 8th grade, one in 6th and one in Kindergarten ...plus my 3yr old that was convinced she was in high school lol. Year two was LOTS of trial and error, learning how to incorporate lessons into everyday life to keep them engaged versus making them sit at desk for 3-4hrs twice a day, learning what my teaching style was and how to give them the socialization they needed. While our school days don’t look like a typical classroom, our days are scheduled out several weeks in advance and our lessons build on previous lessons. For example, meal planning sounds pretty simple to most....in our house it’s a reading and math lesson for the tinies, life skills-planning-math lesson for my oldest two...every Friday they know that meal planning is part of the educational day. Watching them bust out a white board and schedule a break immediately after wake up, then pack merch for 10 minutes and then “porch time” had me fuming.....kids don’t always need to know they are learning to actually be learning, recess for example....I’ll take my kiddos geo-caching(math, reading, map reading AND physical excercise), heck even playing in the yard can be a lesson. My kids are always hunting for unusual critters/plants to google and learn about(reading, biology, writing), they each have a notebook with them and some of them will draw the critter/plant, some describe it with words and some bring it to Mom and say “close your eyes and hold out your hands”
They will ask for a jar to hold their critters to study them more and enjoy freeing them later. Life is full of educational opportunities but you cannot properly educate kids by the seat of your pants, it requires discipline and scheduling and thinking outside the box.That makes sense.
Still, an audit would make me feel better.
Yes.
I just believe they should be paying out of pocket for ALL respite.
But our government doesn't work that way.
That makes me
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I agree. I have never agreed with spoiling a child too much. Abbie is the product of their parenting and the result is anything but a “ sweet girl “
We have a schedule going after day 4 at home with the kids, for their sanity and mine. My husband and I both work from home but not usually with the kiddos. They are definitely learning, we incorporate reading, writing, maths, PE and creative play, they’re 3 and 5. I am definitely not home schooling. There is no comparison. They love to add a string to their bow don’t they. Apparently getting her disabled child to pack her tit for her is Classed as home schooling.Ugh YES! I’m glad someone else pointed it out....I thought I was being too judgmental. We are a homeschool family, I have 4 kiddos and we started when my oldest son graduated 5th grade. The neighborhood school he was assigned to at the time had a HUGE physical violence problem and made the news every other day, our oldest daughter was in an all girls charter school and our two youngest were not “school age” yet. I spent the first year with just my son homeschooling and quickly noticed that, even though his younger siblings were 4 and 2, they were picking up what I was teaching their brother. My oldest finished that school year and asked if she could be homeschooled too. Year two I had one in 8th grade, one in 6th and one in Kindergarten ...plus my 3yr old that was convinced she was in high school lol. Year two was LOTS of trial and error, learning how to incorporate lessons into everyday life to keep them engaged versus making them sit at desk for 3-4hrs twice a day, learning what my teaching style was and how to give them the socialization they needed. While our school days don’t look like a typical classroom, our days are scheduled out several weeks in advance and our lessons build on previous lessons. For example, meal planning sounds pretty simple to most....in our house it’s a reading and math lesson for the tinies, life skills-planning-math lesson for my oldest two...every Friday they know that meal planning is part of the educational day. Watching them bust out a white board and schedule a break immediately after wake up, then pack merch for 10 minutes and then “porch time” had me fuming.....kids don’t always need to know they are learning to actually be learning, recess for example....I’ll take my kiddos geo-caching(math, reading, map reading AND physical excercise), heck even playing in the yard can be a lesson. My kids are always hunting for unusual critters/plants to google and learn about(reading, biology, writing), they each have a notebook with them and some of them will draw the critter/plant, some describe it with words and some bring it to Mom and say “close your eyes and hold out your hands”
Exactly. I know for a fact it doesnt not work this way in Ohio. I dealt with it myself with my own father....a man who became disabled at 61 after working his whole life was not entitled to life long care, and took over a yr to get approved for short term care because the investigation into his assets and income were so in depth. Not saying someone like Abbie, who has had a life long disability doesnt deserve services. But I can also my father couldnt get approved because his car was worth $2200. I had to PAY THE STATE $700...because his assets or profits from any assets couldnt exceed $1500.00....but Abbie can live in a mcmansion?? Yep. System is wonky.
Dear Maas Frauds!
So sorry you are “bummed” aboutFamily Fest being cancelled this year.
Know what I am “bummed” about? I am bummed that people travelled out of country,came home and travelled some more,not knowing who they had been exposed to!
I am also “bummed” that friends and family of yours were put in harm just so you could have vlogging materials
I am “bummed” that you get so tired from homeschooling for about 1/4 of the time most families do it on a daily basis!
I am “bummed” that you seem fit to tout products,but fail to give proper usage of them.
I am “bummed” that you treat a National emergency as a talking point for viewership,yet can’t wait to get out for a trip to DD!
I get even more “bummed” that you use your child to profit off of,and pass it off as taking care of her. ( well truthfully,that p****es me off).
So Mister “bummed” many families don’t have those pleasures to look forward to under normal circumstances,so please,take that “bummed” mentality and stick it up your###!
So sorry you are “bummed” aboutFamily Fest being cancelled this year.
Know what I am “bummed” about? I am bummed that people travelled out of country,came home and travelled some more,not knowing who they had been exposed to!
I am also “bummed” that friends and family of yours were put in harm just so you could have vlogging materials
I am “bummed” that you get so tired from homeschooling for about 1/4 of the time most families do it on a daily basis!
I am “bummed” that you seem fit to tout products,but fail to give proper usage of them.
I am “bummed” that you treat a National emergency as a talking point for viewership,yet can’t wait to get out for a trip to DD!
I get even more “bummed” that you use your child to profit off of,and pass it off as taking care of her. ( well truthfully,that p****es me off).
So Mister “bummed” many families don’t have those pleasures to look forward to under normal circumstances,so please,take that “bummed” mentality and stick it up your###!
I just got to thinking about a situation A reminds me of. There is a famous model/actress whose mother essentially sold them into what was essentially child pornography, sold her to do anything for anyone just to get a buck (won't say the name but easy enough to find out... it is very triggering for me and I get flashbacks so won't go further into it.) Her mother's excuse was she was making her daughter famous and giving her a future... of course she was pocketing all the money and getting rich.
I bring it up because every time A is call out for child exploitation and getting rich using his daughter he replies with "she is set for life." So justifying everything he does with securing his daughters future... though it is him and his wife who are profiting not his daughter. She would be happier and healthier with involved parents who care for her and spend time. Not money.
He reeks of a narcissistic abuser, borderline sociopathic. I have dealt with these people a lot. They will try to gaslight you at every turn. And always a reason for what they so. All excuses for any horrible action.
And now I am shaking... Thanks PTSD lol
I bring it up because every time A is call out for child exploitation and getting rich using his daughter he replies with "she is set for life." So justifying everything he does with securing his daughters future... though it is him and his wife who are profiting not his daughter. She would be happier and healthier with involved parents who care for her and spend time. Not money.
He reeks of a narcissistic abuser, borderline sociopathic. I have dealt with these people a lot. They will try to gaslight you at every turn. And always a reason for what they so. All excuses for any horrible action.
And now I am shaking... Thanks PTSD lol
From this day forth,I dub thee Asa As Napoleon: And it’s not due being a great leader,etc.
"Napoleon Complex" is a theorized inferiority complex normally attributed to people of short stature. It is characterized by overly-aggressive or domineering social behavior, such as lying about earnings, and carries the implication that such behavior is compensatory for the subject's physical or social shortcomings.
"Napoleon Complex" is a theorized inferiority complex normally attributed to people of short stature. It is characterized by overly-aggressive or domineering social behavior, such as lying about earnings, and carries the implication that such behavior is compensatory for the subject's physical or social shortcomings.
I know who you are referring to....she is only a bit older than me, so I was a kid at the time and unaware, but I read her memoir as an adult. So sad.
I just subscribed to this channel. I commented that I am a new subscriber and the dad replied immediately. Very refreshing!
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