I'm not saying she has to live in a show house. My sister has 3 kids under 5, my SIL has 2 under 3 and lots of my friends have kids age 10 and under. All of them work outside the home and don't have toys and dirty clothes strewn everywhere. Grace is home all day, I really don't see how she can't put dirty clothes in the laundry bin or do a quick tidy of the toys away when the kids are in bed. Is it laziness, apathy or depression? I don't know. The curry stained bed sheets someone mentioned would suggest to me depression. In that case she needs help. Maybe she needs to get off social media and seek it?
She’s home all day, before lockdown had all her laundry done for free, had cleaners, even her sister and mother would come over and clear sienna’s room, the kitchen cupboards, her office.
She does has anxiety which she has spoken about before. She also uses it as an excuse. Her partner is also there and should be helping to clean. It seems like he does nothing either. Whatever about her own space being a mess, the way she had her daughter’s room in an absolute sty is a disgrace. Even her son in the same pjs for days on end while she sits there on one of her many couches in her gifted pjs and robe, coffee in hand talking
tit into the camera. How many books has she read? I’m all for prioritising me time but not when you have children wearing dirty clothes and having to climb over piles of stuff to get around. Well not the baby, he’s always in baby jail or a high chair.
I would accept the menta health card being played by her (again, where is kips and why isn’t he supporting her or cleaning his children) but she is well and able to get up, dressed and out whenever there is a free lunch or even to go to. She’ll come on whinging one day and lost every excuse as to why she hasn’t done xyz but then the mere mention of a free brunch and she’s out the door quick as anything.