Ok hear me out and in no way am I defending grace here. I used to really like her but I've mo time for her now. But my little fella goes to a Creche full time and I only work part time (trying to get full time) but honestly it was the best decision I've ever made, he has come out of himself so much more, is delighted going in in the mornings to all his little buddies and he's benefiting so much more in there with them than he is at home with me all day just the two of us, now he only stays till 2/3 the days I'm not working but maybe she's doing it for Hayden's development rather than for her having me time? (Again I know she's rather fond of me time) but I don't think there should be any shame on her putting the little fella into Creche. Just a thought I've been dwelling on for quite awhile,