Faces by Grace #37 contents a disgrace, milking those freebies all over the place…

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Mrsmoose

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I wasn’t going to waste my own mental energy and comment, but then I read the comment from the poster above about crying in the shower so as not to burden her family and my blood is boiling. She has a victim mentality. Likely every single one us commenting on this thread in reaction to this video has a mental health issue and that’s why we’re here, as someone mentioned she is weaponizing mental health. She doesn’t understand the difference between being a rut/general unhappiness and severe depression/anxiety. I am hoping she is reading or does read this..
This is the reality of working in 9-5 job with depression looked like for me about a month ago when I was experiencing withdrawals from my third attempt at finding a medication that works for me that was actually making me feel worse..I work an office job, half remote now and I am never not logged on. My performance is judged by results so this is actually torture when I’m not doing as well.
I suffer from a chronic illness where I can be out for a week at a time sometimes with no warnings. I have no one to look after my work load due to my seniority. My “9-5” profession unfortunately does not glorify valiantly coming out on camera and declaring the state of my mental health, while I’d be offered support no doubt, I’d likely lose my autonomy and confidence from senior management.
Because of being out ill already at times, I have to go in put on “real”brave face so that I don’t get deemed incompetent in my ability. Last month went like this grace... I get home (or log off) from an exhausting day of what should be considered an acting job putting on my brave face.... and I throw my clothes on the floor (not into a laundry bin) go straight to bed, don’t make myself food or turn on the Tv because I don’t enjoy watching anything. I might order takeaway if I’m starving (I haven’t been able to face getting any shopping, I don’t have any freebies just laying around my house) I’d leave all my dishes, takeaway boxes, laundry and cleaning to pile up. Wake up the next morning, dig something out of my closet and slap some makeup on and go in and pretend everything is ok. All of my physical and mental energy is used on this, on the commute home I’m sitting there analyzing every social situation I was in that day and if anyone picked up on my incompetence to handle the stress of my clients on my own, or whether they dislike me, or if I offended them. Because I’m in the height of withdrawals from these drugs, I’d wake up with night sweats, soaking wet sheets and vivid dreams. This was one of the bad weeks I had over the last month. After trying 4 antidepressants over the last 2 years I still haven’t found what works. (Ive been suffering for over 10y) I’ve tried every non medical therapy under the sun, but in reality at most times am not even well enough to meditate, practice self care etc.
The flexibility your current job offers you Grace is actually a god send with your MH right now, you can choose when to record. You get a press drop in, great- record something on one of your good days, like the day you were in the Conrad. Save these and then upload during the week..you’re not obligated to post content but if you need to keep your feed constant for followers, just keep buying them or have Chris upload some of these videos you’ve banked during the good days...
after withdrawals I have to go through another period of 2 months of being drug free to reassess my actual depression levels (my old SSRI actually made me feel worse so I’ve no idea what that even looks like) before I decide to start a new one. All while keeping my 9-5 that often involves weeks like this to keep up.
Wanna switch for a few weeks?
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Hope you are ok xx
 
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Lemonee_7

Christ, she even put up the post with the details for the charity match after it happened 🙄

Now I know it may have been limited due to Covid etc., but its just Grabby all over!
 
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Justhere4thegoss

No fear of her sharing the charity info or where to donate etc etc
Wouldnt you think with such a huge following she'd ask people to donate but she's never been great with the charity work only taking fitbits from them.
 
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Dontmindme500

I should start by saying that I don’t, nor have I ever suffered with my mental health, so I don’t understand the issues as well as some of the posters here do. But I’m still disgusted and find her dangerous.
She seems to try to connect with people who are suffering only to come on 24 hours later to say she feels much better. So what do her followers who still feel bad do? They don’t have a large insta following to pour their heart out to which for some unexplained reason, seems to cure all her problems . She has done nothing to help those suffering as her cure is not available to most. So she prob leaves them feeling even more isolated and alone. The brave women here who have given details on how they suffers they would help others to feel less isolated. She is so unrelatable.
And if I were a blogger I’d be ashamed to link my name to it…
 
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LeighB26

Lemonee_7 said:
Christ, she even put up the post with the details for the charity match after it happened 🙄

Now I know it may have been limited due to Covid etc., but its just Grabby all over!
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Wasn’t limited at all! All welcome today with donations etc so she definitely could’ve shared it!!
 
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Maybe84

Clicpa said:
Sorry now but that video looks like one of those ‘apology’ videos YouTubers do. It’s very hard to take her as genuine I’m sorry. If your mental health was really that bad you would stop doing the thing that causes you so much stress ?
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couldn’t agree more!
 
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Tallestmamof3

Alucia said:
Laughing at Grace saying "my morning off" with toast and coffee in bed 🥴
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When exactly is her morning on ???

Justhere4thegoss said:
Wow she timed that perfectly didn't she... Imagine if she really had crippling anxiety and wasn't able to come on with her ad for women's best. She's so lucky to have the type that goes away when she needs to promote something.
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Like they all do.... she was probably warned by her management to get back with content ( she hasn't a clue about content) and comes up with this. Jesus she makes my blood boil ...
 
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Ggeeeeeeee

Again with the unsustainable changes to help her mental health, she is absolutely 💯 not going to ever get up for a sunrise walk with the dog again. Why not wait until the kids get up and all go for a walk for an hour? It wouldn't be a High intensity workout or anything but an enjoyable, head clearing walk.But no, it's like the night time steps, the yoga for a month, the sea swimming.
 
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stayawaystace

Honestly? Yad swear she doesn’t have kids The way she goes on.
her mornings off, her sunrise walks. I’ve a 3 year old who’s a stage 3 clinger. We had a few drinks in the in laws and I had to tell her I was going to work and felt bad about it because I never leave her other than going to work. Maybe if she got up made her kids breakfast cleaned the house and brought them out to the beach or a petting farm she would feel so much better
 
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