I have a 17 month old and a new baby and no cage , 17month old is permanently attached to my leg every hour of the day , when I’m doing stuff , yeah it’s hard work, and yes, she turns the place upside down , but I clean and tidy everything afterwards,that’s what being a parent is, but I am not for this cage thing all day everyday , the child would be like a caged animal , I wouldn’t even do that to an animal, they’d go bonkers , if they weren’t allowed some freedom . I’m not shaming anyone that uses this cage/playpen for important use , like cooking or cleaning the floors or have to do some important things for work and a child can’t be there , absolutely , there’s no choice there put to put them somewhere safe with their toys for a little while , note “a little while!” Not the whole time like Grace seems to do while she sits there with her feet up having a coffee , laughing at her child when her child clearly is just looking for a cuddle or a small bit of attention fro his mother . I agree what I saw on her stories today was shocking , I couldn’t believe what I was watching, it was the picking dirty fluff off her slipper was the most shocking, how she can laugh and think that’s funny is beyond me . I don’t understand it at all . It was very sad to see .